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Johnny, 45
United States, Kansas, Concordia

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About Me

I'm ISO my soul mate. This person must be loving, caring and very trust worthy. Im just the average guy and have worked hard to live a decent life. For some reason some think the word "gay" relationship means your partner can "play" every once in a while. Sorry, I don't like to share. LoL Im not into cheaters nor any sort of bull crap games. I feel there is no reason why a gay couple cant live a life together, be faithful, honest, cherish each others company and grow old together. As of now my state does not allow gay marriages but in my dream life I want to receive and accept a proposal then sue the state and go down in history as the first couple to marry in our state. Im sick of the not being able to enjoy and take advantage of the benefits of being married. It's not just a piece of paper in my opinion, being married means so much more.A little about me.....I get a little nervous and shy at first but that fades away pretty quickly. I usually joke a lot especially when im nervous. Im very loving, caring, loyal and faithful and I expect and should receive the same. Im a little on the fem side but not a whole lot. Some would say im more of the traditional "woman" role in the relationship. Im not into fems or "queens" but *** the company of a masculine man. I dont "party" and drink a lot and only occasionally go out to clubs. A couple drinks and im feeling pretty good. LoL Yep, im a light weight. LoL I love to dance which is the main reason for going out to a club. Although im a strong, confident, take charge kind of guy when it comes to the intimate stage of a relationship I let my partner have most of the control. So yes, he should enjoy being the "top", be assertive but gentle and considerate.Im not on meetville to find "hook up's" or games, I can find that almost anywhere. Im here to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, to enjoy our lives together and grow and become as one. Although im gay I am a very traditional type of person and a Christian. I cant imagine life without the help of God. My values and morals are very traditional in the sense that family and my partner (husband someday) means everything to me. God is first and family is second, not partying, not money and not working. I have some what of a large family and our entire family has been brought up to be a tight, loving, loyal, close family.So hopefully someone out there will see this profile and like what I have to say and a little of what I think. I hope my profile was insightful and honest enough for you to be intrigued and want to know more by sending over a message. My first date. Well I would imagine that someone would find the courage to ask me out for a dinner and maybe take a walk or something so that we can concentrate on each other and able to learn about each other. Although I love the movies, I dont think its appropriate for the first date because we cant talk during the movie so how can we learn more about each other?I dont think the first date should last several hours either. On the other hand, I dont see the rush if we both are enjoying each others company, then why not have an extended evening. But be warned, I am a talker once im past the nervousness. LoL Basically I think the first date will be awkward as usual but will quickly feel warm and inviting as we begin to learn more and more about each other. So rather its over dinner, coffee or a drink we should just enjoy ourselves without having to worry about time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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