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United States, Kansas, Concordia

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About Me

It's tough to sum yourself up in a few sentences... one of the drawbacks of this online profile approach, I suppose. I'm a pretty laid-back guy, conservative appearance but pretty liberal attitudes. Warm conversations about the nature of reality with friends are a lot more enjoyable to me than debates about politics, religion... well, debates about anything, really!My loves include almost any music -- although I might have to draw the line at polka or opera ;***but I especially dig gospel music (the rafter-shakin', get-it-on-DOWN variety); I'm insanely addicted to playing the piano (and B-3); and I can't talk about my greatest loves without including my unbelievably awesome friends and family. I'm also pretty dang fond of laughing, dining, staying fit, and trying to find little ways to leave a positive mark on the world. I'm pretty sensitive, sort of a weird mix of extroverted and introverted, and believe that humility and respect make up the foundation of every successful relationship (and even day-to-day passing interactions, for that matter). And I don't believe any human being does anything perfectly. I see the world as being in far too short a supply of kindness and understanding, and that our society in particular suffers from self-absorption and too much emphasis on comfort (and I only wish I weren't talking about myself in that observation, but I'm workin' on it).I'm just looking for a guy who has no idea how great he is, doesn't realize how attractive he is, has a great sense of humor, enjoys talking about things that really matter, and for the most part is open and honest. Sensitive and caring are also pretty cool (they're actually intensely attractive qualities to me).So if I sound like someone you'd like to get to know better, please feel free to say hey. I'm not doing this personals thing with any specific expectations, but it would be awesome to meet someone great. I'd make sure to find out at least a little about your personality before deciding exactly what to do on a first date, but if I had to make a blind choice, dinner and a walk would be great.; if you were into art, a museum or First Fridays;..)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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  • Salvador from Concordia | Man | 43 years old | Taurus
    Salvador

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I just moved here a few months ago and haven't met but a couple of people . I am 41 years old. 5'7" tall / brown hair with some gray. blue eyes. and ***lbs. . i would like to find some people to hang out with and eventually like to find someone to date . i am not looking for a hook up !! . i am a pretty laid back kinda guy . i love to do guy things like camping, hiking, fishing , hunting, boating, water skiing , jet ski's , quads, mud riding, horseback riding, hanging out with friends, watching movies, hanging out by the pool , traveling , trying new things , i love music(all genre's) so i love to go to listen to local band, sing karaoke, i also love to cook and entertain, i have been told i am a pretty good cook . i was raised with manners and morals . i believe in monogamy and that seems to be hard to find in this gay world. i would love to find a guy that is the love of my life. someone that is as in love with me as i would be with them . i am not into the bar scene but do like to go out on occasions ,. i don't believe that a relationship can grow when you are hanging out in a gay bar every weekend . i am a hopeless romantic at heart and like to show that when i am in a relationship . i don't really have a "type" of guy . i want someone that is honest, fun , loving, caring, faithful. i don't have a list of requirements like most guys do . but i don't want someone that does drugs or drinks all the time. i take a person for who they are on the inside more than what they look like but that doesn't mean that i will just settle for anyone . i want someone who does take care of themselves .a few extra pounds is fine but i wouldn't be sexually attracted to someone who is just grossly overweight . i do believe that you have to have some sexual attraction to the person that you are dating or it won't work ,. i am not looking for a model or a gym rat , i just want a normal guy next door type .i will say that when i am in a relationship that i am in 100% and expect the same from my partner . as far as me sexually i am a total top and not really looking to be a bottom in the relationship but you never know if i find the man of my dreams you never know LOL. i have always been the person that does the chasing when i like someone and now i want to know what it feels like for someone to chase me . i want someone to take me out on a date the proper way. i dated a chef for a year and in that year he never even cooked me dinner . i want someone to show me romance. if you have read this far and are still interested please respond . like i said i am looking for friends and eventually a LTR. i look forward to hearing from you . thanks dinner , movie, hike, karaoke, drinks,

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  • Oz from Concordia | Man | 41 years old | Sagittarius
    Oz

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Ask me anything you want to know :) I'm pretty much an open book. I like a variety of things. I speak french (or at least used to when I was able to use it). Not very good at descriptions so feel free to ask me.

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  • Jehoram from Concordia | Man | 41 years old | Leo
    Jehoram

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    im am a big boy with a big heart, love to make people happy and see people smile! I am very crafty and talented in many ways. I love to create unique things and I never see the trash in anything everything has a second chance to be something! I love to upcycle craft! I worked in live theater for 15 years and was a costumer, set designer, set creator and loved every moment of it! I am very easy to get along with and sometimes that can get me into trouble. I love thrift stores, antique stores, fleamarkets and yard ssales.. I would love to have my own thrift store someday! I LOVE television and reruns are my favorite! reality shows control my DVR . I love music i feel like music was created to help us get through life! I love all types of music.. opera and rap are my least favorite. i always say to get to know someone look at their music play list! lol well i think i am rambling now but if i have peaked your interest HIT ME UP! i love a walk in the park, dinner, or hanging out cooking a meal together, and enjoying it with the person. Picnics are great too. I hate a movie at theater for first date! I like to chat and get to know someone and you cant there.

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