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Nehemiah, 45

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About Me

Where to even start with something like this? I'm a great guy who is living a great life. Have had my ups and down like anyone but that is actually the result of having taken many fun chances and lived through them. Some things worked very well, others were lessons that I learned and moved on from. I believe - and most would concur - that I am fun, handsome, very loyal, successful, romantic, driven, a great friend, and a decent cook. I am looking for that special someone to share my life with. I am not looking for someone to BE my life, or vice-versa, but feel almost everything is better when you have someone to share it with. Although it may sound cliché, I really do care more about a person's mind and soul rather than his body, but if he happens to be beefy and hairy all the better. I'm a professional with a flexible schedule and would love to find a soul mate to travel through life with and share both the smiles and the occasional frowns. I love to write and could go on for hours, but it would probably make more sense to just send me a message and we could start a real conversation. (Not at all interested in hook-ups, no matter how fun or tawdry. That is easy to find. Someone special is a rare find. Maybe you are the one I'm waiting for?? I'm sure we can come up with something more fun and interesting than that!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Johnny

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm ISO my soul mate. This person must be loving, caring and very trust worthy. Im just the average guy and have worked hard to live a decent life. For some reason some think the word "gay" relationship means your partner can "play" every once in a while. Sorry, I don't like to share. LoL Im not into cheaters nor any sort of bull crap games. I feel there is no reason why a gay couple cant live a life together, be faithful, honest, cherish each others company and grow old together. As of now my state does not allow gay marriages but in my dream life I want to receive and accept a proposal then sue the state and go down in history as the first couple to marry in our state. Im sick of the not being able to enjoy and take advantage of the benefits of being married. It's not just a piece of paper in my opinion, being married means so much more.A little about me.....I get a little nervous and shy at first but that fades away pretty quickly. I usually joke a lot especially when im nervous. Im very loving, caring, loyal and faithful and I expect and should receive the same. Im a little on the fem side but not a whole lot. Some would say im more of the traditional "woman" role in the relationship. Im not into fems or "queens" but *** the company of a masculine man. I dont "party" and drink a lot and only occasionally go out to clubs. A couple drinks and im feeling pretty good. LoL Yep, im a light weight. LoL I love to dance which is the main reason for going out to a club. Although im a strong, confident, take charge kind of guy when it comes to the intimate stage of a relationship I let my partner have most of the control. So yes, he should enjoy being the "top", be assertive but gentle and considerate.Im not on meetville to find "hook up's" or games, I can find that almost anywhere. Im here to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, to enjoy our lives together and grow and become as one. Although im gay I am a very traditional type of person and a Christian. I cant imagine life without the help of God. My values and morals are very traditional in the sense that family and my partner (husband someday) means everything to me. God is first and family is second, not partying, not money and not working. I have some what of a large family and our entire family has been brought up to be a tight, loving, loyal, close family.So hopefully someone out there will see this profile and like what I have to say and a little of what I think. I hope my profile was insightful and honest enough for you to be intrigued and want to know more by sending over a message. My first date. Well I would imagine that someone would find the courage to ask me out for a dinner and maybe take a walk or something so that we can concentrate on each other and able to learn about each other. Although I love the movies, I dont think its appropriate for the first date because we cant talk during the movie so how can we learn more about each other?I dont think the first date should last several hours either. On the other hand, I dont see the rush if we both are enjoying each others company, then why not have an extended evening. But be warned, I am a talker once im past the nervousness. LoL Basically I think the first date will be awkward as usual but will quickly feel warm and inviting as we begin to learn more and more about each other. So rather its over dinner, coffee or a drink we should just enjoy ourselves without having to worry about time.

  • Kohath

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Single, Masculine, 41, 5'10" 295#'s, brown hair (whats left) blue eyes, good amount of fur. Looking for friends only and casual dating. Not looking for sex or hook ups. That won't happen until we have been on several dates. I am a very traditional man, I do guy things, and I believe whole heartedly in the long lost art of courting first! Dinner, and sitting out by the water under the moon light talking. (on a board walk maybe)

  • Erroll

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I spend time daily on physical activity and my ideal mate would need to share that interest. I am currently training for my first Body Building competition. Enjoy the beach, hiking, camping, and relaxing. I like to help others and think positive. Positivity is a must for an ideal mate. Life is too short for regret and holding on to the past accomplishes nothing. It is only by setting goals and working towards them that we grow. Dream It!! Believe It!! Achieve It!!I've lived in 3 countries and worked in over 40 and have a very open and global perspective.My music interests are very ecclectic and change on a daily basis. An ideal first date would include food (I'm always hungry - lol) and something fun (dancing, bowling, etc.). At some point during the date, it would include some time in a quiet location where conversation can occur to get to know one another (maybe a walk on the beach, etc.)

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