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Rowland, 41
United States, Kansas, Concordia

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About Me

If there’s one thing I’ve noticed about these sites is that there aren’t all that many LI guys on them, especially close to my age. I suppose I could try one of those “apps” but, from what I’ve seen, they appear to be a virtual gay brothel, which is not something that interests me.I’ve been told that I’m a good guy, honest, down to earth and, easy to talk to. I try to keep an open mind and, unlike most people, I will typically respond back to you if you write to me, I try not to be rude about that. My personality can range from lighthearted and jovial to serious, as circumstances dictate. Despite the tone of this profile, you’ll have to take my word for it that I have a sense of humor; you’ll just have to hang out with me a few times to see it. ;) With that in mind, a sense of humor is a MUST in my book.My taste in music is pretty much all over the place and typically ranges from '80's music to Dance and Electronic. I do have soft spot for love songs; call it a weakness if you will. I’m open to meeting new friends but, my ultimate goal is to find someone to date for the long term. I don’t have a problem with endless e-mails before we meet either. If it is fate that we are meant to become friends or more, than there’s no need to rush. Like I mentioned earlier, I try to keep an open mind in most cases and rise above the typical gay shallowness.So, drop me a line if you’re interested. I’d love to hear from you. I would say meeting for coffee, in the city, or perhaps at a park. It gives us a chance to get to know each other better in a more subdued atmosphere. If the date goes well, we can always get something to eat or. plan an "official" first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Photography Chinese Indonesian Italian Adult Adventure Animation Baseball Outdoor Hobbies
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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

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