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Ultan, 44
United States, Kansas, Clay Center

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Getting back on my feet and getting my life back together after a failed marriage. Things are civil between myself and the ex for the sake of our child. Getting re-acquainted with living alone. It has it's advantages to be sure, but I miss the companionship.I work with my family, running a small sales & I'm the resident computer guy / quality guy / warehouse manager / whatever other hat needs wearing guy. Working with family is without a doubt the most frustrating and rewarding way to work. I have a 10 yr old daughter who's incredibly awesome, and obviously part of the package should things get serious. Split custody & residence, so she's with me half the time. I have my free weekends though, so there's plenty of time for meeting & greetingSpeaking of serious, POF's wording doesn't exactly match the option selected from the list under the "Intent" field. Casual Dating somehow translates to "isn't seeking any kind of relationship", so I changed it to "I want a relationship" To clarify, I am looking for someone, I'm just not going to rush into the first potential relationship to come along. That said, I'm not looking for serial dating either. I want to meet new people, and make new friends, with no expectations. If / when the right woman comes along, we'll both know.I enjoy a wide array of activities from strolling museums to biking wooded trails to rocking out at concerts. I'm a new convert to the gym, starting this past Jan. Never thought I'd get as hooked as I have, but feeling better than you have in years will do that for you. I'd like to get my ski-legs back as well. It's been many years since I've enjoyed that, and I really want to get my daughter started. I'm always up for pick-up games...volleyball, basketball, softball, whatever. Looking to meet someone to share these activities with.I love art, but I'm not much of an artist myself. I tend to be more logical / rational / scientific about things. I try to balance the dryness with a sarcastic sense of humor. My humor can run dark at times, and I credit that to the absurdity of our world. Sometimes you just can't help but laugh at what life throws at you, and laughter always makes it easier to deal with.Musically, I love almost all styles, but I'm a rocker at heart. From 50's doo-wop, to 60's psychedelic, to 70's classic, to 80's metal, to 90's grunge, I like it all. It's not all crunchy guitars though. All styles of music have their time and place, even classical. My current go-to radio stations are 98.3 The Shark. Thanks to my daughters influence, you might also catch me listening to WBLI. About the only music I can't wrap my head around is either super-twangy country, or hardcore thug rap.You'll almost always find me singing a song, but I've never done karaoke. Maybe you'll be the one to convince me...Socially, I'm very liberal and open about most issues. Live and let live! Have to keep an open mind, and I'm always up for debate. If you really want to catch my attention, challenge me, make me think of an issue in a way I haven't before. I'm more conservative financially, and I can be a bit old fashioned when it comes to dating and romance. I'm fine with a cup of coffee, a glass of wine, a mixed drink, maybe some light eats. How about a walk down at the beach with an ice cream? Casual and comfortable for conversation is best. Someplace where it's easy to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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