Total users: 57,049,480 Online users: 205,601
Ultan, 44
United States, Kansas, Clay Center

Online

About Me

Getting back on my feet and getting my life back together after a failed marriage. Things are civil between myself and the ex for the sake of our child. Getting re-acquainted with living alone. It has it's advantages to be sure, but I miss the companionship.I work with my family, running a small sales & I'm the resident computer guy / quality guy / warehouse manager / whatever other hat needs wearing guy. Working with family is without a doubt the most frustrating and rewarding way to work. I have a 10 yr old daughter who's incredibly awesome, and obviously part of the package should things get serious. Split custody & residence, so she's with me half the time. I have my free weekends though, so there's plenty of time for meeting & greetingSpeaking of serious, POF's wording doesn't exactly match the option selected from the list under the "Intent" field. Casual Dating somehow translates to "isn't seeking any kind of relationship", so I changed it to "I want a relationship" To clarify, I am looking for someone, I'm just not going to rush into the first potential relationship to come along. That said, I'm not looking for serial dating either. I want to meet new people, and make new friends, with no expectations. If / when the right woman comes along, we'll both know.I enjoy a wide array of activities from strolling museums to biking wooded trails to rocking out at concerts. I'm a new convert to the gym, starting this past Jan. Never thought I'd get as hooked as I have, but feeling better than you have in years will do that for you. I'd like to get my ski-legs back as well. It's been many years since I've enjoyed that, and I really want to get my daughter started. I'm always up for pick-up games...volleyball, basketball, softball, whatever. Looking to meet someone to share these activities with.I love art, but I'm not much of an artist myself. I tend to be more logical / rational / scientific about things. I try to balance the dryness with a sarcastic sense of humor. My humor can run dark at times, and I credit that to the absurdity of our world. Sometimes you just can't help but laugh at what life throws at you, and laughter always makes it easier to deal with.Musically, I love almost all styles, but I'm a rocker at heart. From 50's doo-wop, to 60's psychedelic, to 70's classic, to 80's metal, to 90's grunge, I like it all. It's not all crunchy guitars though. All styles of music have their time and place, even classical. My current go-to radio stations are 98.3 The Shark. Thanks to my daughters influence, you might also catch me listening to WBLI. About the only music I can't wrap my head around is either super-twangy country, or hardcore thug rap.You'll almost always find me singing a song, but I've never done karaoke. Maybe you'll be the one to convince me...Socially, I'm very liberal and open about most issues. Live and let live! Have to keep an open mind, and I'm always up for debate. If you really want to catch my attention, challenge me, make me think of an issue in a way I haven't before. I'm more conservative financially, and I can be a bit old fashioned when it comes to dating and romance. I'm fine with a cup of coffee, a glass of wine, a mixed drink, maybe some light eats. How about a walk down at the beach with an ice cream? Casual and comfortable for conversation is best. Someplace where it's easy to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Indonesian Mexican Adult Biography War Tennis Computer Games
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Nathan from Clay Center | Man | 39 years old | Sagittarius
    Nathan

    Online

    Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 20-40

    Hi! My name is Nathan. I am never married catholic caucasian man without kids from Clay Center, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

    Chat
  • Omari from Clay Center | Man | 44 years old | Aries
    Omari

    Online

    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    Hello, I am a recently divorced mature adult who like to keep himself busy. I work part time as a personal trainer at a large local gym chain and also own my own retail store. I do not have any children, but my business caters to children and I have 17 years experience in dealing with kids of all ages. I am drama free and like to enjoy life to the fullest. I am active and will try any activity at least once. As far as food, I haven't found a food yet that I won't at least try. My favorites are Thai, Afghani and Pub Grub, but I am up for anything. I have a degree in Archaeology, so historical places and museums are some of my favorite places. I have travelled a lot especially the British Isles. I am looking for a down to earth woman who is open to trying new things and is looking to enjoy life and not make things to complicated. Some one who likes to stay fit is a plus. One of my favorite things to do is workout with my partner. If you like what you read, drop me a hello and we will see how it goes. My ideal first date is some coffee and some good conversation!

    Chat
  • Lupe from Clay Center | Man | 43 years old | Libra
    Lupe

    Online

    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

    I am a very hard working and dedicated person and I live life to the fullest.I smile and laugh often and very optimistic.I have a son who is 11 that I simply love.In my free time I enjoy watching sports and movies,Going to restaurants,Going to concerts,Beach Boating and jet skiing in the summer and spending time with my son[He does not live with me but get him every other weekend]I enjoy helping others more than anything else.I would put everything on hold if someone I knew needed help with anything at all.I have a great sense of humor and incredibly honest and trustworthy. Dinner and maybe a few drinks out somewhere to get to know one another and see if there is a connection.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: