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Lesley, 46

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About Me

After raising my son on my own for many years, I am ready to fill the gap in my life. Initially, I am looking for a friendship and companionship, sprinkled with a dose of chemistry. I am independent, honest, open-minded and a responsible woman, who enjoys a good laugh. I love dancing, walking, reading and swimming. If you are a gentleman, who opens the door for a lady, helps her put on her coat and pretends she is the only one in the world, you've just scored bonus points.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Magnolia

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Sharing it may help you better understand my character. Here's what he wrote: "She has a huge heart, she is very sensitive and considerate, she is thoughtful, she has this wonderful insight, she is very smart, she is interesting, she likes the beautiful things while staying simple, she is s-t-r-i-k-i-n-g-l-y beautiful, she is a loving mother, she has the taste of the world while still being down to earth, she plays the cello, she writes poems and songs, she has the best voice in the world, she loves motorcycles, she smokes good cigars, she loves fine wine, her 'vibes' are incredible, she is so impressive... and she is my friend". This is certainly one person's opinion, but it warmed my heart when I read it. Another friend of mine once told me... "; but will they know HOW to love you?" This was said to me years ago, and yet it seems that very question remains the untold mystery of my heart. I imagine it is the key to everyone's heart... knowing HOW to love each other... taking time to understand one another's needs and then actually investing the time to give of one's self. I believe it's really not so complicated as people sometimes make it. I believe it begins with a genuine friendship. Everyone wants to feel loved, appreciated, and understood. The rest is about chemistry, common interests, and compatibility. THOUGHTS ON MY MATCH: He comes to me with an open heart. He understands the delicate balance of the spiritual, emotional and physical aspects in a healthy relationship. He is well educated, articulate and an excellent communicator, fiscally responsible and has a tender, generous heart. He absolutely adores children and values time with his family. He appreciates my individuality and understands my need for time alone. He does not criticize but celebrates my shortcomings, challenges my potential and uses laughter for medicine when I'm feeling down. He is accomplished, driven and knows how to lead, yet the little boy in him loves to play. He is a humanitarian and genuinely cares for those truly in need. He is adventurous, loves to travel and explore exotic lands, respects and embraces all cultures, truly cares about the environment and wants to do his part to make the world a better place. He is incredibly romantic and will make love to me under the stars. He slow dances with me without music and softly whispers he loves me in my ear. He loves to shampoo my hair, give gentle massages and understands the art, beauty and intensity of soft slow kisses in the most unusual places. He loves to surprise me, knows how to keep my attention, knows how capture the moment and is not afraid to fall in love. I am not looking for a romantic fling or shopping for a husband. I am simply looking for a quality friend that will allow things to happen naturally, over time as the chemistry sparks a mutual interest. If you take time to get to know me, you will find that not only do I have the capacity to love deeply and compassionately, I have a rare inner strength and genuine loyalty that will help carry us through what ever life may bring. INTRODUCTION - Updated ***: Hello and thank you for stopping by. My job is very demanding and sometimes I work long hours. I pair very well with someone who works just as hard as I do, but understands what work/life balance means. I am especially attracted to highly intelligent men, and if you are an engineer, I consider that a bonus! :)***********************************************"Each day, and the living of it, has to be a conscious creation in which discipline and order are relieved with some play and pure foolishness" ~ Abdul Bin Mohammed***********************************************FIRST DATE: Are you fun, creative and spontaneous? Then join me for a GREAT first date in our wonderful city! I am not interested in the "interview" type coffee dates as they are very impersonal. If you would like some ideas, I am happy to offer suggestions. The key to getting to know me and keeping my interest is to just be yourself, think creatively yet simple, be a gentleman and honest about your intentions, have a positive attitude, and most importantly ~ keep me laughing! I'm really just the girl next door so c'mon... let's have some fun! :)***********************************************"Love sought is good, but given unsought, is better." ~ William Shakespeare***********************************************SimplicityThe treasures of life are reserved for lasting friends to share... like children playing in the warm summer rain, laughing away the day without a care... just like two hearts smiling as one, sharing a blanket in the afternoon sun.A butterfly knows the beauty of life, not wasting precious time with worry and strife. She delights herself in the simple things because she value's the flight, taking time to touch each flower with tenderness and love, experiencing the true riches of life, sent as gifts from Heaven above.Lasting love is not best expressed with mere gifts or words, but with two trusting hearts joined together, created to endure. Simplicity holds the key that unlocks the door to each unfinished dream. Sharing the treasures of life in Innocence, is where we'll find the beauty yet unseen.~

  • Hortense

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Although I've been on other sites before, I still find it difficult to write an advertisement about myself ! So for as little as one can gather about a person based on these descriptions ... here goes ..........I enjoy the outdoors and although I would prefer to take an active adventure vacation I can still stroll quietly along a secluded southern beach. I am comfortable in Tevas or stilettos, jeans or a dress and in a canoe or convertible. I am active, although not a fitness nut, and try to live a healthy lifestyle.I have two wonderful kids ***and ***so I am still in the midst of being a mom and I am still loving every part of it. It’s busy, but I do find time for myself and the person I WANT to spend time with ! They already have a dad so no worries - I am not looking for someone to fill those shoes! I am easy going, non-judgemental and pretty adaptable/flexible (can even touch my toes!). :) . I have a lot of energy and want to keep wiping things off my bucket list.... would be nice to do it with someone else....My photos are relatively recent - no surprises at a first meeting ... this is who I am !!! I would appreciate the same :)

  • Athena

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a single woman looking to find someone to share my life with. I like to spend time with family and friends. I have a 26 year old daughter that i am very close with. I like going to the lakes and relaxing in the water. I enjoy horse back riding and watching football and nascar on the weekends. I am looking for someone who isn't afraid to show their feelings and aren't afraid of commitment. I am a contracts administrator for a medical lab supply company and i love my job. I would love to find someone who likes to go out dancing and have fun but also likes to curl up on the couch and watch a movie. I enjoy evenings sitting outside by a fire or just sitting on the porch having good conversation.I will not sugar coat it i am a full figured woman but have been told i carry myself very well. In my oppinion its not what's on the outside that makes you happy it is what's on the inside that counts. I would much rather find someone who has a wonderful personality and a good heart then someone who only wants a trophy on their arm. The perfect first date would be going to dinner or cooking dinner in and getting to know each other through conversation.

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