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Charmaine, 50
United States, Kansas, Baxter Springs

Offline, last seen Sun, 11 Jan 2026 18:25:47

About Me

I am a resilient, dedicated, driven, strong, independent woman who isn't afraid to stand on her own and fight for everything that is valuable and precious to me. *YES my photos are CURRENT within a year or two at the most! I am not looking to jump into a relationship - rather take it slow .. see how it goes and the fun is in getting to know each other and enjoying the journey! *I have been on this site sine June .. and there is a definite pattern .. make contact - *** - advance to texting.. maybe talk . - DISAPPEAR. So if this is your pattern.. DO NOT WASTE mine time and yours. ... MOVE ON !!I am an administrative professional in my field for 27 years. I also teach fitness classes during the week and weight train ***times a week. Being healthy in mind, body and spirit is essential to me. YES I eat a healthy, bodybuilding diet and I love how it makes me feel and look. It's a LIFESTYLE and I love it.I am an honest, hardworking, natural person .. and I don't take myself too seriously.. I am LOW maintenance and far from a pampered princess. I dislike ego, vain, narcissistic, boasting people who are beautiful outside and ugly nasty people inside.I prefer to get to know someone via LIVE conversation - I do not want a 'text' and 'email' relationship where you hide behind words and written communication. While I value taking the TIME to get to know someone initially by *** conversation - you don't really know if you will click or interact until you physically meet. I personally think the process should NOT take WEEKS to develop. Now for the *fine print*.. I AM ON HERE seeking a serious, monogamous, dedicated relationship. I do NOT do one night stands, I am NOT a booty call and I am ABSOLUTELY not a friend with benefits..! Friends first, good communication that grows into something deeper and more meaningful - take it slow - see where it goes. DO NOT contact me if you are married, cheating, looking to flirt only, aren't over your EX and emotionally unavailable. If you are still reading my profile.. you may actually be interested .. so -- let me know and I would love to chat. I feel a first date should be something you BOTH enjoy .. agree upon a mutual interest or place to meet. Coffee, conversation, doing something active or meeting at a restaurant are all great ideas for a first date!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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