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Augusta, 41
United States, Kansas, Atchison

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About Me

OK I'm gonna rant for a min... I usually try to message most everyone back.. even when it's a "thanks but we're not a good match. Best of luck to you". For those of you that need to then message me back and go off on me because I don't think we're a match need to grow the hell up! YOU'RE NOT A MATCH FOR EVERYONE.... NEITHER AM I. That's life... suck it up and move on. Life isn't fair and the sooner you realize that the better off you're gonna be. So if you can't handle not being the "one" then it's best if you don't even bother sending a message. The odds are against any of us finding what we're looking for here... but once I think I've found him he will have my undivided attention!Like everyone else I would like to find the one that makes my heart race.. however more importantly I'm a big believer that it should start out as friends. I'm very happy with my life so I don't see the need to rush anything. I'm slow to open up at first but I'm easy going and can get along with almost anyone. My daughter will be 18 soon and is doing her own thing most of the time... so I have time for the right one.I enjoy simple things in life. I listen to a variety of music and like to spend time with friends, riding motorcycles, the lake, hiking, bowling, gym, shooting pool, road trips to no-where, festivals, I love love love the beach.. However I'm just as good at home cooking, watching a movie & snuggling. I don't watch much TV and like it that way, anything really as long as the company is good... I believe in keeping your word and think that if you don't mean it then you better not say it. Actions speak louder than words and relationships need compromise on BOTH sides. I'm not perfect and don't expect you to be either. You should take care of yourself physically as I try to for my guy. I want someone that's up for a little adventure together!! No smokers... because I like to kiss but not that!** For the guys that like to bullsh**... save it for your friends or the kinda women you usually go out with... Something simple...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bowling
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I don't think any of us really expected to be where we are today. I know I never would have thought that I would be sitting on some website looking at different men's profiles seeing who my "perfect match" is. You want honesty? A real person? Well, here it is. I have been married 3 times and I have four kids. LOL....don't freak out yet....my kids are grown and while all relationships take two to make it or break it and I accept responsibility for my part in that, they would not have ended had addictions not been a part of the equation. You can only fight for so long. I have been single for awhile now, so any anger or other junk that was a result of a failed marriage is in my past; but it has made me wiser in what I look for in a man. I actually maintained a decent relationship with my first two exes because we had children together. The 3rd one and I had nothing together and therefore I never felt a necessity to carry on a relationship once the marriage ended. I am a very honest and loyal person and being that kind of person I find it a waste of time to respond to those I am not interested in. That may seem a little rude but I tried to answer all messages at first and it made saying I'm not interested very difficult. I look for honest, trustworthy men that act like men. Meaning you hold a job and do what you say. I expect to be treated properly, with respect. If your just looking for a hookup....I'm probably not the woman for you. If we get to a point that I give you my number so that we can get to know each other, it is not so I can send you pics....LOL... and if you want to meet then we should actually do that. I think one of my biggest pet peeves is lack of communication....meaning that if your interested, then talk to me and if something falls through or you lost interest...tell me. I see myself retiring someday, living on the beach and sitting in my rocking chair with my life mate sitting beside me....here is to hoping anyway. I work nights fulltime as well as attend school fulltime so give me a day or so to respond...I may jump on and check my messages but I do not always have time to respond. What I want: A friend, lover, and partner. I look for good communication, honesty, faithfulness, nice looking, with a great personality (meaning be yourself!). I like men that are taller than myself and height/weight proportionate (usually athletic to average). I do not interracially date...no offense, it is just not my thing. I can not have any more children, so if you are hoping to have a baby; I'm not the one. I guess age wise, I am looking for someone in there late 30's to mid to late 40's. I like to be as active as I can so I do not want someone that never wants to go do anything....LOL. I am not into anyone that does drugs or drinks too much....this includes pills. I do not mind dating men that have children; although, I never have before. I also am fine with most pets; however, my son is allergic to cats so that would be a problem if we took this relationship further. I am fine with tats and piercings but please do not have them on your face. I can't look at you if you have writing all over your face...LOL. You must have pictures before I will contact you and if you are married or separated I will not respond because unfortunately a lot of men say they are separated in order to "hookup." I do not believe in having relations with someone that is in a relationship. So, I guess that is all for now....If I didn't loose your interest, feel free to send me a message! :-) Coffee or dinner.

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  • Sharlene from Atchison | Woman | 41 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love to sing, classic literature, and poetry.I am looking for someone that wants a relationship.I don't date fat guys or black men I prefer my men tall and fit.I love to fish, horseback riding a long walks in the park. I'm not opposed to trying new things.I am not a barbie I am a curvy girl but I'm not lazy on working out everyone will tell u I love to laugh and have fun. I like baseball my favorite team the reds since I was old enough to understand t.v.I love all kinds of music especially country I love the new and old love johnny cash and patsy cline.I like to go out and play sports too I like volleyball I used to play in school a little.I love to play pool anyone for a game or 2.I think someone needs to show me how to golf. Coffee, or lunch and a movie

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  • Mirtha from Atchison | Woman | 44 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Country girl! I enjoy life. I have a great sense of humor. I like to watch the Buckeyes and the Bengals. I enjoy being outside. I can listen to most kinds of music, although I do not enjoy Rap. I really have a lot to offer. I want to find someone with a sense of humor. I love to laugh! I'm not on here for a 1 night stand.I am tired of being alone. I just want to find someone who loves me for me! Would like to go some place with lots of people for the first date. Just to be safe.

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