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DevorahOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I don't think any of us really expected to be where we are today. I know I never would have thought that I would be sitting on some website looking at different men's profiles seeing who my "perfect match" is. You want honesty? A real person? Well, here it is. I have been married 3 times and I have four kids. LOL....don't freak out yet....my kids are grown and while all relationships take two to make it or break it and I accept responsibility for my part in that, they would not have ended had addictions not been a part of the equation. You can only fight for so long. I have been single for awhile now, so any anger or other junk that was a result of a failed marriage is in my past; but it has made me wiser in what I look for in a man. I actually maintained a decent relationship with my first two exes because we had children together. The 3rd one and I had nothing together and therefore I never felt a necessity to carry on a relationship once the marriage ended. I am a very honest and loyal person and being that kind of person I find it a waste of time to respond to those I am not interested in. That may seem a little rude but I tried to answer all messages at first and it made saying I'm not interested very difficult. I look for honest, trustworthy men that act like men. Meaning you hold a job and do what you say. I expect to be treated properly, with respect. If your just looking for a hookup....I'm probably not the woman for you. If we get to a point that I give you my number so that we can get to know each other, it is not so I can send you pics....LOL... and if you want to meet then we should actually do that. I think one of my biggest pet peeves is lack of communication....meaning that if your interested, then talk to me and if something falls through or you lost interest...tell me. I see myself retiring someday, living on the beach and sitting in my rocking chair with my life mate sitting beside me....here is to hoping anyway. I work nights fulltime as well as attend school fulltime so give me a day or so to respond...I may jump on and check my messages but I do not always have time to respond. What I want: A friend, lover, and partner. I look for good communication, honesty, faithfulness, nice looking, with a great personality (meaning be yourself!). I like men that are taller than myself and height/weight proportionate (usually athletic to average). I do not interracially date...no offense, it is just not my thing. I can not have any more children, so if you are hoping to have a baby; I'm not the one. I guess age wise, I am looking for someone in there late 30's to mid to late 40's. I like to be as active as I can so I do not want someone that never wants to go do anything....LOL. I am not into anyone that does drugs or drinks too much....this includes pills. I do not mind dating men that have children; although, I never have before. I also am fine with most pets; however, my son is allergic to cats so that would be a problem if we took this relationship further. I am fine with tats and piercings but please do not have them on your face. I can't look at you if you have writing all over your face...LOL. You must have pictures before I will contact you and if you are married or separated I will not respond because unfortunately a lot of men say they are separated in order to "hookup." I do not believe in having relations with someone that is in a relationship. So, I guess that is all for now....If I didn't loose your interest, feel free to send me a message! :-) Coffee or dinner.
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DesiraeOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I am a 43 year old woman with a lifetime of struggle! Have you ever wondered why? Why do I have to go through all of this to get to the place I want to be? I'm there, my life has been struggle after struggle! I'm looking for a soul mate, and all I want is someone to love me for who I am, and what I'm all about. I have 3 children, 24, 23 and 16. I have 2 grandchildren. I've been a singleparent most of that time, our life isn't perfect, but we have struggled through a lot and made it this far! I'm in the midst of losing everything right now, but I'm not giving up because I have god in my life! My kids aren't perfect (but whos are) but I love them with my whole heart! If your looking for someone to live the rest of your life with that has a passionate zest for love and romance no matter what life may bring then I'm that person! I just want a soul mate! And I'm looking for you, you know who you are! I would like for a first date to be a such:Meet somewhere nice and quiet so we can talk and get to know each other. If things are going okay I wouldn't mind going for a walk or going for a drive. Of course out to dinner or a movie would be great as well! I'm a very easy going person, I could just sit at home and watch a movie as well!
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EthylOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I am a single mom an my kids always come first so I'm looking for s friend to get to know first then see how things go from there. I work a fulltime an I'm not into games or drama getting too old for that. Just to go someplace quiet where we can talk and get to know each other maybe have a drink or bite to eat, just kind of depends on weather an wat may be going on at the time