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Luci, 43
United States, Kansas, Atchison

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About Me

I've been here on and off. Met some nice people. Some not so much. I'm looking for quality and not hook ups. I ask that you don't send spam messages, lie about our height (if you say you're 5'9" and I'm taller than you...red flag!), don't ask for dates if you are married, in a relationship or newly out of one and still hooked on her. I am an honest person who deserves the same in return. I coach kids. Little ones and adult ones. This is my passion. It provides for my family and allows me to travel the world. I love music. Just not top 40 or country. I love the music that comes from the soul. Not all the contrived garbage found on the radio. I love to sing. Im not good but I just have to do it. I get a lot of funny looks while driving my car. Sometimes there's a dance party going on too. So far this summer I have spent my free time with my boys and friends at the lake- hammocking, slack lining over water, swimming and cliff jumping. So I don't check this site often as its way more fun playing outside. I really don't know what else to say. I'm nice? Yes, Friendly? Yes. Smrt? Somewhat. My friends love me. My boys adore me. I guess that makes me pretty lovable. Yay! So let's see where this fish bowl leads to... Best of luck everyone! I've had some good first dates and some not so good first dates. The new ones are the planned ones with spontaneous follow up dates. I have no expectations other than both of us showing up. From there, enjoy whatever happens. Laughing is the best. Lets see if we make each other smile.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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