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Lashay, 45

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About Me

I am a dreamer! This doesn't mean I am not firmly grounded in reality, it means I am always thinking and creative. I see potential in people and in life! I believe humans are made to love and to seek love and that things are made to be used...not the other way around. I have a sweet life and I'm hoping to share it-everyone should have it so good!I am competitive and compassionate at the same time...if we were running a race and you fell down, after I stopped laughing, I'd make sure you were ok, I'd kiss your owie better, then run away to win the race (although I find running and laughing very difficult).I love my job, but I LOVE being on vacation and travelling! I have amazing friends in far off places and as much as I want everyone who is special to me to be living on my street, I feel lucky to be able to travel to see them in all the glory of where they live! I've been in a 5 year love affair with Puerto Vallarta, it is an amazing spot in this world!..I love to be outside. Pure and simple, doing whatever... I love to cross country ski but since breaking myself in a non-gracefull fling down some stairs I have been unable to for a few winters...maybe this year I will be brave!I like all kinds of music, I love a few types of music and I adore the Beastie Boys...gotta get up to get down!I have a dog, he's a little love and fully dedicated to missing me when I'm gone and celebrating when I get home! I've managed to teach him his right and left and have made him hopelessly addicted to treats, I am the treat pusher! I like strong earthy guys who aren't trying to be prettier than me and are comfortable having a conversation or just relaxing in the peace and calm. Sometimes, I secretly feel like a princess (being purely honest) and want exactly what I want, but I'm really easy going and very realistic. I don't pout (or stamp my feet when anyone is looking!)Mostly I feel like fabulous little me and just want to find that certain soul to fit with mine, the rest is just fluff... a picnic, coffee, dinner, dancing, rollerskating... who really knows but when the time comes I'll have a plan made!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Stacy

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Seriously, I don't get that whole 'hashtag' thing??? WTH?? However........ Physical appearance is important but not everything. Do prefer to date guys who take care of themselves and are in good physical shape. If you are not emotionally available - skip this profile. If I have to hear about you talk about your ex for hours on end....you are NOT emotionally available!!! Just saying guys....No One wants to hear you blather on about an old flame who pisses you off for hours on end. I'm not here to be your psychotherapist....Too much to ask for??? Yes....I'm smart, I'm sweet, I'm confident, classy with a bit of a wild side - and like to think I have my priorities in line. Do you?? Am I perfect? Nope...but I do have a great deal to offer. I am a very compassionate person with a huge heart....don't let the direct style of my communication fool you. I'm very giving, loving.....and looking for the same. I love to laugh often and believe in working to live...not living to work! If you are incapable of moving from virtual reality to reality and to focus on one person ((IF the chemistry really sparks))...... then please pass me by and don't waste my time. :) I'm ready to put the time and energy into one person and to build something great - are you?Best of luck to all !! Cheers! ##### :) TBD

  • Cicely

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Are you looking for an energetic, fun-loving companion to share your life and love with? I could be that girl ;-) I'm a graphic designer so I enjoy most things that involve the arts like concerts, movies, street art fairs or visiting an exhibit at a museum. I'm open-;twerking" ;-). Healthy body and mind is priority which I achieve via diet, exercise, and a little meditation. FYI I'm also a vegetarian and quit eating meat over 2 years ago for health reasons. However, I don't expect my date to share my dietary choices - just to respect it and not judge. What makes a man attractive to me is one who is outgoing, articulate, sexy, fun and can light up a room with his positive energy. He's well-groomed, smells good and changes his undies every day ;-) A sense of humor is a must! A mutual interest in the arts like movies, theater, music is also desirable. Openly affectionate and embraces his sensitive side. Respectful of each others' feelings, opinions, lifestyles and time. Knows that you can gain influence people more using compassion than ruling with an iron fist. In love matters, he may have had his heart bruised in the past but he's still open to the possibility of finding committed, lasting love again. Must be emotionally and physically available for a relationship (i.e. not separated, married or still carrying a torch for another woman, or looking for a long distant relationship). I've been able to work through my relationship blocks and expect the man that I date to have worked through his too. The bottom line is that I'm not looking for perfection but I need to be with someone who will make me feel like I'm that shiny new "toy" that he never wants to stop playing with. If you think we might make a good fit, shoot me an *** something short and sweet like meeting for coffee or glass of wine someplace quiet so we can talk and see if there's anything worth pursuing further. If we find there's no chemistry between us, I won't waste your time and expect the same in return.

  • Nydia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a nice girl.I love my family.I'm loyal and non-judgemental.I love animals.I don't drink but I still liketo shoot pool and see a bandevery once in a while.I love playing cards andgames. I'll play a fightingvideo game and take my beating like a champ. I love camping and bonfires.I love nature and little creatures.I like spiders but hate other creepy crawlies.Winter is coming and I need to snuggle.I'm always looking to meet nice people who would rather talk and meet up, rather than text indefinitely.Hope to hear from you :)Carolyn Coffee.Bookstore. Dinner. People watch.Walk.Laugh.Whatever.:)

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