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Lashay, 45
United States, Kansas, Atchison

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About Me

I am a dreamer! This doesn't mean I am not firmly grounded in reality, it means I am always thinking and creative. I see potential in people and in life! I believe humans are made to love and to seek love and that things are made to be used...not the other way around. I have a sweet life and I'm hoping to share it-everyone should have it so good!I am competitive and compassionate at the same time...if we were running a race and you fell down, after I stopped laughing, I'd make sure you were ok, I'd kiss your owie better, then run away to win the race (although I find running and laughing very difficult).I love my job, but I LOVE being on vacation and travelling! I have amazing friends in far off places and as much as I want everyone who is special to me to be living on my street, I feel lucky to be able to travel to see them in all the glory of where they live! I've been in a 5 year love affair with Puerto Vallarta, it is an amazing spot in this world!..I love to be outside. Pure and simple, doing whatever... I love to cross country ski but since breaking myself in a non-gracefull fling down some stairs I have been unable to for a few winters...maybe this year I will be brave!I like all kinds of music, I love a few types of music and I adore the Beastie Boys...gotta get up to get down!I have a dog, he's a little love and fully dedicated to missing me when I'm gone and celebrating when I get home! I've managed to teach him his right and left and have made him hopelessly addicted to treats, I am the treat pusher! I like strong earthy guys who aren't trying to be prettier than me and are comfortable having a conversation or just relaxing in the peace and calm. Sometimes, I secretly feel like a princess (being purely honest) and want exactly what I want, but I'm really easy going and very realistic. I don't pout (or stamp my feet when anyone is looking!)Mostly I feel like fabulous little me and just want to find that certain soul to fit with mine, the rest is just fluff... a picnic, coffee, dinner, dancing, rollerskating... who really knows but when the time comes I'll have a plan made!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Everyone seems to agree that in this age of technology, online dating is the best way to meet people.Lots of people will look at a picture and decide yes or no based solely on one image. Some may read the details and say probably not because of one particular detail. Very few actually read what is written to see if there is anything worth value in the words we type on here. All of that basically doesn't matter until we sit across from each other and carry on a conversation about who we really are an what we really want. Ask me when I see you face to face and I will tell you anything you want to know. Get to know eachother, if we both agree to another date, then surprise me.

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  • Glenn from Atchison | Woman | 41 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Looking for the right words to describe myself.....I guess I would say I have a great sense of humor,honest,caring and witty. I look terrible in pictures. I have a great friends who know me inside and out. They have been with me for over 25yrs. Which I think says something about my ability to maintain relationships. I moved her 4 years ago from NY. I do miss Christmas in NYC, the ocean and the people. I emjoy going to see plays (ok not so easy in AZ), traveling, making people laugh, having people make me laugh. I feel I have a great deal to offer, I'm educated, funny, open to most things and too old for drama. For those of you who can handle a strong independent woman I look forward to hearing from you. :o)All I can say is, I'm tired of being on this site and getting nowhere fast. If you think reading a book is a waste of time, you sit around watching NASCAR(nothing wrong with it, just not my thing) and drinking a case of beer, please do not respond. I am looking for someone who has gone to college, can have an intelligent conversation regarding world events and makes a good living. I don't want ex-wife (girlfriend, baby mama drama) If you have kids with more than one woman do not contact me. If you dont take care of the kids you have don't contact me. I want someone with GOALS, who likes to travel, go to nice restaurants, etc

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