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Tomika, 41

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About Me

Here goes... I was convinced by friends to try this out. I have been happily single for 10 years, but thinking it may be time for me to see if that special someone is out there. If you are not a man of christain faith, please move on. If you are not stable in your life, ie steady job, your own place.... etc. please move on. Thank you. Sorry to sound so ugly, but none of us want to waste each other's time, right? :) My main "interest" or "hobby" for several years has really been focusing on raising my daughter. I enjoy working out, being outdoors and spending lots of time with my family and friends. I would love to obtain my Masters Degree in Psychology someday, and work with juveniles. I love to be silly and laugh. I have fun no matter where I am or who I am with. You have to laugh, a sense of humor is a must. LOL. I like adventure, but also love relaxing with friends and watching movies at home (dang, that just sounds so corny) I enjoy all music, but I would have to say I listen to Country the most, probably because I am a Mid western farm girl.Please know that I am seeking a man of christian faith that wants to grow in Christ. I am super low maintenance, and I will dress up and do the whole make up and hair thing, but if you are looking for barbie... I am not her. Life is too short for all that. I love my sweats and T-shirts. :) Thanks. Hmmm. That would probably be the standard meet for coffee somewhere. I would expect the first encounter to be a short visit, and who knows, if we are enjoying ourselves, then we could just go where ever we want to wander.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Devorah

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I don't think any of us really expected to be where we are today. I know I never would have thought that I would be sitting on some website looking at different men's profiles seeing who my "perfect match" is. You want honesty? A real person? Well, here it is. I have been married 3 times and I have four kids. LOL....don't freak out yet....my kids are grown and while all relationships take two to make it or break it and I accept responsibility for my part in that, they would not have ended had addictions not been a part of the equation. You can only fight for so long. I have been single for awhile now, so any anger or other junk that was a result of a failed marriage is in my past; but it has made me wiser in what I look for in a man. I actually maintained a decent relationship with my first two exes because we had children together. The 3rd one and I had nothing together and therefore I never felt a necessity to carry on a relationship once the marriage ended. I am a very honest and loyal person and being that kind of person I find it a waste of time to respond to those I am not interested in. That may seem a little rude but I tried to answer all messages at first and it made saying I'm not interested very difficult. I look for honest, trustworthy men that act like men. Meaning you hold a job and do what you say. I expect to be treated properly, with respect. If your just looking for a hookup....I'm probably not the woman for you. If we get to a point that I give you my number so that we can get to know each other, it is not so I can send you pics....LOL... and if you want to meet then we should actually do that. I think one of my biggest pet peeves is lack of communication....meaning that if your interested, then talk to me and if something falls through or you lost interest...tell me. I see myself retiring someday, living on the beach and sitting in my rocking chair with my life mate sitting beside me....here is to hoping anyway. I work nights fulltime as well as attend school fulltime so give me a day or so to respond...I may jump on and check my messages but I do not always have time to respond. What I want: A friend, lover, and partner. I look for good communication, honesty, faithfulness, nice looking, with a great personality (meaning be yourself!). I like men that are taller than myself and height/weight proportionate (usually athletic to average). I do not interracially date...no offense, it is just not my thing. I can not have any more children, so if you are hoping to have a baby; I'm not the one. I guess age wise, I am looking for someone in there late 30's to mid to late 40's. I like to be as active as I can so I do not want someone that never wants to go do anything....LOL. I am not into anyone that does drugs or drinks too much....this includes pills. I do not mind dating men that have children; although, I never have before. I also am fine with most pets; however, my son is allergic to cats so that would be a problem if we took this relationship further. I am fine with tats and piercings but please do not have them on your face. I can't look at you if you have writing all over your face...LOL. You must have pictures before I will contact you and if you are married or separated I will not respond because unfortunately a lot of men say they are separated in order to "hookup." I do not believe in having relations with someone that is in a relationship. So, I guess that is all for now....If I didn't loose your interest, feel free to send me a message! :-) Coffee or dinner.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a very sweet and giving woman and I want the same from a man. I have just left a relationship of 10 years. I am looking for someone where we can be friends first then maybe pursue things further. I have three kids. I have two boys that are 15 and 16 whom live with me. I like going to the beach, movies, going out to dinner, but I also like having a quiet evening at home. I enjoy all types of music, my favorite is jazz.I am very good to the person I am with, and I want someone that can love me and appreciate me for the woman I am. I have only been with 3 men my whole life, so I am very dedicated to the one I am with. I dont play head games and I am extremely faithful.

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