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Tomika, 41
United States, Kansas, Atchison

Offline, last seen Sat, 16 May 2026 14:18:21

About Me

Here goes... I was convinced by friends to try this out. I have been happily single for 10 years, but thinking it may be time for me to see if that special someone is out there. If you are not a man of christain faith, please move on. If you are not stable in your life, ie steady job, your own place.... etc. please move on. Thank you. Sorry to sound so ugly, but none of us want to waste each other's time, right? :) My main "interest" or "hobby" for several years has really been focusing on raising my daughter. I enjoy working out, being outdoors and spending lots of time with my family and friends. I would love to obtain my Masters Degree in Psychology someday, and work with juveniles. I love to be silly and laugh. I have fun no matter where I am or who I am with. You have to laugh, a sense of humor is a must. LOL. I like adventure, but also love relaxing with friends and watching movies at home (dang, that just sounds so corny) I enjoy all music, but I would have to say I listen to Country the most, probably because I am a Mid western farm girl.Please know that I am seeking a man of christian faith that wants to grow in Christ. I am super low maintenance, and I will dress up and do the whole make up and hair thing, but if you are looking for barbie... I am not her. Life is too short for all that. I love my sweats and T-shirts. :) Thanks. Hmmm. That would probably be the standard meet for coffee somewhere. I would expect the first encounter to be a short visit, and who knows, if we are enjoying ourselves, then we could just go where ever we want to wander.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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