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Devorah, 43
United States, Kansas, Atchison

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About Me

I don't think any of us really expected to be where we are today. I know I never would have thought that I would be sitting on some website looking at different men's profiles seeing who my "perfect match" is. You want honesty? A real person? Well, here it is. I have been married 3 times and I have four kids. LOL....don't freak out yet....my kids are grown and while all relationships take two to make it or break it and I accept responsibility for my part in that, they would not have ended had addictions not been a part of the equation. You can only fight for so long. I have been single for awhile now, so any anger or other junk that was a result of a failed marriage is in my past; but it has made me wiser in what I look for in a man. I actually maintained a decent relationship with my first two exes because we had children together. The 3rd one and I had nothing together and therefore I never felt a necessity to carry on a relationship once the marriage ended. I am a very honest and loyal person and being that kind of person I find it a waste of time to respond to those I am not interested in. That may seem a little rude but I tried to answer all messages at first and it made saying I'm not interested very difficult. I look for honest, trustworthy men that act like men. Meaning you hold a job and do what you say. I expect to be treated properly, with respect. If your just looking for a hookup....I'm probably not the woman for you. If we get to a point that I give you my number so that we can get to know each other, it is not so I can send you pics....LOL... and if you want to meet then we should actually do that. I think one of my biggest pet peeves is lack of communication....meaning that if your interested, then talk to me and if something falls through or you lost interest...tell me. I see myself retiring someday, living on the beach and sitting in my rocking chair with my life mate sitting beside me....here is to hoping anyway. I work nights fulltime as well as attend school fulltime so give me a day or so to respond...I may jump on and check my messages but I do not always have time to respond. What I want: A friend, lover, and partner. I look for good communication, honesty, faithfulness, nice looking, with a great personality (meaning be yourself!). I like men that are taller than myself and height/weight proportionate (usually athletic to average). I do not interracially date...no offense, it is just not my thing. I can not have any more children, so if you are hoping to have a baby; I'm not the one. I guess age wise, I am looking for someone in there late 30's to mid to late 40's. I like to be as active as I can so I do not want someone that never wants to go do anything....LOL. I am not into anyone that does drugs or drinks too much....this includes pills. I do not mind dating men that have children; although, I never have before. I also am fine with most pets; however, my son is allergic to cats so that would be a problem if we took this relationship further. I am fine with tats and piercings but please do not have them on your face. I can't look at you if you have writing all over your face...LOL. You must have pictures before I will contact you and if you are married or separated I will not respond because unfortunately a lot of men say they are separated in order to "hookup." I do not believe in having relations with someone that is in a relationship. So, I guess that is all for now....If I didn't loose your interest, feel free to send me a message! :-) Coffee or dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Marilou

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a big tomboy. Just new to the area and hoping to make some friends and build some wonderful relationships. I am looking for Friends. I am an old fashioned type of gal that believes there is a proper way to court a lady. So Please move on it you are wanting more. I do service work/maintenance on my vehicle, can roof or build a house, can hang and finish sheetrock, do my own electrical work, do almost anything a man can do. Some men are intimidated by this but that's okay....just saying if you prefer the timid type.....it's not me. I love to listen, more than talking..... but I am a very outspoken person. If you ask my opinion you will get the honest version....nothing sugar coated. There isn't a filter between my brain and my mouth, however I am very diplomatic in my presentation because I am very considerate of others feelings.Recently separated from a 25 year marriage and at this point in my life I am honestly not sure what I want, so I just really want to take things slow, have fun and find out what makes me happy again. If God intends, the right man will come along in the meantime. Yes, If I Find The Right Person I Will Reconsider My Status. I am not a booty call kinda girl! I have a very demanding job that requires long hours, but also enjoy going out and having fun in my downtime. I enjoy anything outdoors. I am a very self sufficient, independent person and do not require a man in my life however thoroughly enjoy the company. I love passionately, but I also like things a little slow and to come in their own time.Big Turn Offs: Mama's boys, man with the squeaky ladies voice, wanting to make out on the first date, and arrogance. I am not easily impressed by material possessions (your cars, motorcycles, boats, etc.). If you still live with momma or you don't have a job please don't apply! Too much talking before we finally meet, I will get easily bored with you no matter how great of a person you are. If we talk too much before we meet is there really anything else left to say. If you *** not get my attention by a simple hi or hello. It shows me lack of effort on your part! I try to respond to most *** if I am not interested.Turn Ons: Secure confident man without being overly arrogant. A positive energetic attitude, I do not surround myself with negative people. Spontaneous people are great. The quickest way to win me over is a good sense of humor, with a little touch of sarcasm! Iam easily charmed by a handsome country boy.WARNING TO MEN: NEVER Underestimate The Power Of A Kiss To A Ladies Neck And Never Use It Too Quickly! First date a simple meet and greet. Date should be less than an hour for the first meeting... you typically know in the first 30 minutes or less if there is a connection. Like to meet at a crowded and safe place, yet private and quiet enough for conversation.I am a spontaneous person so please don't feel like you have to *** week before you invite me for a meeting.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Looking for someone honest, funny, and down to earth. Hoping to meet someone that just clicks with me and I click with him. A sense of humor and honesty are both a must. If you can't laugh and be honest in life, it gets too stressful. Love going to see live music, live sporting events (Sunday is usually reserved for football and hockey. Yes, really lol) I love hiking, camping, anything near water, fall walks, nature, etc. My kids are now out on their own, but are still my world. Since I now have a lot of free time, I am planning quite a big adventure in the next year or so, and it would be cool to share it with someone. I find myself at an interesting point in life, so looking forward to new possibilities near or far. Something casual.

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  • Jeannine from Atchison | Woman | 44 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Im Looking to spend time with that special someone,maybe more. I want to make a lifetime of memories with Mr. Right. I've never been married,have no children, but Im definitely ready if it came to that. I've never done one night stands and never will. I definitely don't flaunt myself inappropriately, so guys looking for someone like that, need not to bother. Don't worry Im not a high maintenance woman, I do take care of myself 100%. I like listening to most genres of music.. I enjoy watching Nascar, NFL football.I love going to carnivals,fairs,flea markets,auctions,etc. I love to cook and I really enjoy camping,swimming,quad riding,fishing,playing horseshoes, playing cards,bowling,shooting pool,darts,just about anything really! I love to have fun. Definitely not into the bar/club scene. It's nice to go out occasionally with that special someone for a drink,or to just shoot a good game of pool. I enjoy going out to the movies or staying home having a glass of wine and relaxing to a good movie,it doesn't matter....Also, Fall is my favorite season of the year. Im a driven person who knows what she wants. Im an honest, sometimes shy, really down to earth girl. Im faithful,caring,thoughtful and a loving person with a great sense of humor. I only have eyes for the man Im with... Im not into drama. Im a very outgoing/easy going person, also a good listener. Communication is key.I would finally like to meet someone who knows exactly what they want and not afraid to take the chance. Life is too short!!!! Im very affectionate and definitely not afraid to show that to the man Im with. I truly love kissing,so you would have to love kissing too,LOL~seriously :) There are a few things that I have not done in my life that I would love to do with the right person. Please don't get the wrong idea! I know looks are not everything,but I feel a nice smile and nice teeth are important to me. Especially teeth~I feel no matter what, taking care of yourself and (teeth) says alot about a person. If you want to know anything else just ask. Sorry Im only into white men ages ***!!! 5'7+ taller. Guys"RECENT" photos. NO PICS.=NO RESPONSE. Whatever we decide on.

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