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Aleena, 41

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About Me

I am an outgoing and adventurous person that loves to travel when possible. I work to live not live to work. I like to do just about anything, but my passion is music, I support live music and local talents and get out when possible to enjoy that.I love anything outdoors. Packing up a tent and camping out at the lake or river is one of my favorite things to do even though I don't get to do it as much as I like. I'm not a materialistic person, I would much rather have a handful of home made coupons for back rubs and such than some ridiculously overpriced and impersonal gift....I am currently in college in hopes of improving mine and my children's future. My kids are my world...Things i am looking for: Although my career is important, I maintain a healthy balance between work and play. I am looking for someone with a similar view on this. I am an independent woman, own my home, work to pay my bills, and raise my kids. I only ask that you are maintaining these things in your own life. I get that people fall on hard times because I've been there myself but I'm not in a place in my life to be with some one who is not already self sufficient. I'm not here for just a hook up, and although I feel it's highly unlikely I find it here, I am looking for that one person I can connect with and hopefully it will develop into a lasting committed relatIonship. i have no use for liars or cheaters or douche bags, think I've had enough of that in this lifetime!! Just be real, say what you mean and mean it. I don't have the energy to play Mind games nor have them played on me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Devorah

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I don't think any of us really expected to be where we are today. I know I never would have thought that I would be sitting on some website looking at different men's profiles seeing who my "perfect match" is. You want honesty? A real person? Well, here it is. I have been married 3 times and I have four kids. LOL....don't freak out yet....my kids are grown and while all relationships take two to make it or break it and I accept responsibility for my part in that, they would not have ended had addictions not been a part of the equation. You can only fight for so long. I have been single for awhile now, so any anger or other junk that was a result of a failed marriage is in my past; but it has made me wiser in what I look for in a man. I actually maintained a decent relationship with my first two exes because we had children together. The 3rd one and I had nothing together and therefore I never felt a necessity to carry on a relationship once the marriage ended. I am a very honest and loyal person and being that kind of person I find it a waste of time to respond to those I am not interested in. That may seem a little rude but I tried to answer all messages at first and it made saying I'm not interested very difficult. I look for honest, trustworthy men that act like men. Meaning you hold a job and do what you say. I expect to be treated properly, with respect. If your just looking for a hookup....I'm probably not the woman for you. If we get to a point that I give you my number so that we can get to know each other, it is not so I can send you pics....LOL... and if you want to meet then we should actually do that. I think one of my biggest pet peeves is lack of communication....meaning that if your interested, then talk to me and if something falls through or you lost interest...tell me. I see myself retiring someday, living on the beach and sitting in my rocking chair with my life mate sitting beside me....here is to hoping anyway. I work nights fulltime as well as attend school fulltime so give me a day or so to respond...I may jump on and check my messages but I do not always have time to respond. What I want: A friend, lover, and partner. I look for good communication, honesty, faithfulness, nice looking, with a great personality (meaning be yourself!). I like men that are taller than myself and height/weight proportionate (usually athletic to average). I do not interracially date...no offense, it is just not my thing. I can not have any more children, so if you are hoping to have a baby; I'm not the one. I guess age wise, I am looking for someone in there late 30's to mid to late 40's. I like to be as active as I can so I do not want someone that never wants to go do anything....LOL. I am not into anyone that does drugs or drinks too much....this includes pills. I do not mind dating men that have children; although, I never have before. I also am fine with most pets; however, my son is allergic to cats so that would be a problem if we took this relationship further. I am fine with tats and piercings but please do not have them on your face. I can't look at you if you have writing all over your face...LOL. You must have pictures before I will contact you and if you are married or separated I will not respond because unfortunately a lot of men say they are separated in order to "hookup." I do not believe in having relations with someone that is in a relationship. So, I guess that is all for now....If I didn't loose your interest, feel free to send me a message! :-) Coffee or dinner.

  • Marilou

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a big tomboy. Just new to the area and hoping to make some friends and build some wonderful relationships. I am looking for Friends. I am an old fashioned type of gal that believes there is a proper way to court a lady. So Please move on it you are wanting more. I do service work/maintenance on my vehicle, can roof or build a house, can hang and finish sheetrock, do my own electrical work, do almost anything a man can do. Some men are intimidated by this but that's okay....just saying if you prefer the timid type.....it's not me. I love to listen, more than talking..... but I am a very outspoken person. If you ask my opinion you will get the honest version....nothing sugar coated. There isn't a filter between my brain and my mouth, however I am very diplomatic in my presentation because I am very considerate of others feelings.Recently separated from a 25 year marriage and at this point in my life I am honestly not sure what I want, so I just really want to take things slow, have fun and find out what makes me happy again. If God intends, the right man will come along in the meantime. Yes, If I Find The Right Person I Will Reconsider My Status. I am not a booty call kinda girl! I have a very demanding job that requires long hours, but also enjoy going out and having fun in my downtime. I enjoy anything outdoors. I am a very self sufficient, independent person and do not require a man in my life however thoroughly enjoy the company. I love passionately, but I also like things a little slow and to come in their own time.Big Turn Offs: Mama's boys, man with the squeaky ladies voice, wanting to make out on the first date, and arrogance. I am not easily impressed by material possessions (your cars, motorcycles, boats, etc.). If you still live with momma or you don't have a job please don't apply! Too much talking before we finally meet, I will get easily bored with you no matter how great of a person you are. If we talk too much before we meet is there really anything else left to say. If you *** not get my attention by a simple hi or hello. It shows me lack of effort on your part! I try to respond to most *** if I am not interested.Turn Ons: Secure confident man without being overly arrogant. A positive energetic attitude, I do not surround myself with negative people. Spontaneous people are great. The quickest way to win me over is a good sense of humor, with a little touch of sarcasm! Iam easily charmed by a handsome country boy.WARNING TO MEN: NEVER Underestimate The Power Of A Kiss To A Ladies Neck And Never Use It Too Quickly! First date a simple meet and greet. Date should be less than an hour for the first meeting... you typically know in the first 30 minutes or less if there is a connection. Like to meet at a crowded and safe place, yet private and quiet enough for conversation.I am a spontaneous person so please don't feel like you have to *** week before you invite me for a meeting.

  • Annabelinda

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hey guys, what's up? I am a tall divorced white female that has a child! I am not really sure if what to say on this because, most of you men just use this as a sex thing... Puddles ***at me dot com So, what am I to say? What am I to do? They want me to write more and it's not like any guys really read this unless it is something about anal sex or a three some or something like that!

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