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Desirae, 43

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About Me

I am a 43 year old woman with a lifetime of struggle! Have you ever wondered why? Why do I have to go through all of this to get to the place I want to be? I'm there, my life has been struggle after struggle! I'm looking for a soul mate, and all I want is someone to love me for who I am, and what I'm all about. I have 3 children, 24, 23 and 16. I have 2 grandchildren. I've been a singleparent most of that time, our life isn't perfect, but we have struggled through a lot and made it this far! I'm in the midst of losing everything right now, but I'm not giving up because I have god in my life! My kids aren't perfect (but whos are) but I love them with my whole heart! If your looking for someone to live the rest of your life with that has a passionate zest for love and romance no matter what life may bring then I'm that person! I just want a soul mate! And I'm looking for you, you know who you are! I would like for a first date to be a such:Meet somewhere nice and quiet so we can talk and get to know each other. If things are going okay I wouldn't mind going for a walk or going for a drive. Of course out to dinner or a movie would be great as well! I'm a very easy going person, I could just sit at home and watch a movie as well!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Syd

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm looking for a funny, smart man who knows how to be in the moment. I laugh at myself all the time and have a great sense of humor...if you have quick wit we'll get along really well. You are health concious and active. I eat really well but on occassion I do like pizza and a really great cannoli (with chocolate chips)...maybe even a coke (fully loaded). I have been active all my life and when I'm not skiing, cycling, or doing some type of sport, I'm in the gym...however, I'm not a gym nut. I really don't have a "favorite" anything. I'm a girl who fits anywhere, with any type of crowd and always makes friends. I'm open to new experiences, but love the old ones too. Being with friends is great, but I also like my alone time. I love being around kids and being goofy with them, but if you don't have kids, that's ok too. I have one daughter in her 20's and that's it for me.I'm ambitious and need you to be too. If you just like getting through the day, then we're not a match. We go around once so let's make the best of it. I'm not a drama girl...it's just not my thing. There are so many things I want to do and am looking for my soulmate to experience those things with, many of which I've never done before...that's where the adventurer comes in. I'm looking for someone who has a young spirit and I wanted to ensure I come up in the right search results and was advised to modify my age to do that. I don't want to be deceptive, just find what I'm looking for. If you would like to know more, let's connect. Let's do something easy...just meet and learn about each other.

  • Tamia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Thanks for stopping by.I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh and make other people laugh. It can be described as sarcastic, dark and I'm the queen of puns. If you can make me laugh, there are bonus points :) I'm very easygoing and spontaneous. I think some of life's best adventures are spur of the moment...I can also be a bookworm and I love to keep learning. I enjoy the ocean (hence, the beach bum), kayaking, fitness (I'm a former group exercise *** personal trainer), and I also enjoy painting. I'd say I'm pretty outgoing and enjoy being with other people yet I still enjoy "me time."I love all kinds of music, ranging from classic rock to the 80's hits (especially those one hit wonders!), grunge to reggae (especially live and on the beach), some of today's hits, but not too much country, especially if it's twangy. I really like going to listen to live music at local venues.What I'm NOT looking for in a guy: a booty call, short-term sex only (you know who you are!), clingy, desparate, overweight, hung up on past relationships, or arrogant.What I AM looking for in a guy: a sense of humor, confidence, ability to communicate directly, fun, stable, goal-oriented.... Something casual, where we can talk and get to know each other....happy hour, coffee, sunset on the beach with a bottle of wine? One of my favorite first dates, we actually played Bingo, haha!

  • Joceline

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I enjoy flea markets yard sales fishing camping raceing movies cooking playing cards bon fires I am fun loving and down to earth. I love to laugh and see the bright side of things. Family is very important to me. I am shy at first but warm up quick. I am a very independant women but i do enjoy shareing with another person life experiences and quiet times. Coffeeor a walk to get to know eachother maybe a drink and conversation

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