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Desirae, 43

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About Me

I am a 43 year old woman with a lifetime of struggle! Have you ever wondered why? Why do I have to go through all of this to get to the place I want to be? I'm there, my life has been struggle after struggle! I'm looking for a soul mate, and all I want is someone to love me for who I am, and what I'm all about. I have 3 children, 24, 23 and 16. I have 2 grandchildren. I've been a singleparent most of that time, our life isn't perfect, but we have struggled through a lot and made it this far! I'm in the midst of losing everything right now, but I'm not giving up because I have god in my life! My kids aren't perfect (but whos are) but I love them with my whole heart! If your looking for someone to live the rest of your life with that has a passionate zest for love and romance no matter what life may bring then I'm that person! I just want a soul mate! And I'm looking for you, you know who you are! I would like for a first date to be a such:Meet somewhere nice and quiet so we can talk and get to know each other. If things are going okay I wouldn't mind going for a walk or going for a drive. Of course out to dinner or a movie would be great as well! I'm a very easy going person, I could just sit at home and watch a movie as well!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Stacy

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Seriously, I don't get that whole 'hashtag' thing??? WTH?? However........ Physical appearance is important but not everything. Do prefer to date guys who take care of themselves and are in good physical shape. If you are not emotionally available - skip this profile. If I have to hear about you talk about your ex for hours on end....you are NOT emotionally available!!! Just saying guys....No One wants to hear you blather on about an old flame who pisses you off for hours on end. I'm not here to be your psychotherapist....Too much to ask for??? Yes....I'm smart, I'm sweet, I'm confident, classy with a bit of a wild side - and like to think I have my priorities in line. Do you?? Am I perfect? Nope...but I do have a great deal to offer. I am a very compassionate person with a huge heart....don't let the direct style of my communication fool you. I'm very giving, loving.....and looking for the same. I love to laugh often and believe in working to live...not living to work! If you are incapable of moving from virtual reality to reality and to focus on one person ((IF the chemistry really sparks))...... then please pass me by and don't waste my time. :) I'm ready to put the time and energy into one person and to build something great - are you?Best of luck to all !! Cheers! ##### :) TBD

  • Augusta

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    OK I'm gonna rant for a min... I usually try to message most everyone back.. even when it's a "thanks but we're not a good match. Best of luck to you". For those of you that need to then message me back and go off on me because I don't think we're a match need to grow the hell up! YOU'RE NOT A MATCH FOR EVERYONE.... NEITHER AM I. That's life... suck it up and move on. Life isn't fair and the sooner you realize that the better off you're gonna be. So if you can't handle not being the "one" then it's best if you don't even bother sending a message. The odds are against any of us finding what we're looking for here... but once I think I've found him he will have my undivided attention!Like everyone else I would like to find the one that makes my heart race.. however more importantly I'm a big believer that it should start out as friends. I'm very happy with my life so I don't see the need to rush anything. I'm slow to open up at first but I'm easy going and can get along with almost anyone. My daughter will be 18 soon and is doing her own thing most of the time... so I have time for the right one.I enjoy simple things in life. I listen to a variety of music and like to spend time with friends, riding motorcycles, the lake, hiking, bowling, gym, shooting pool, road trips to no-where, festivals, I love love love the beach.. However I'm just as good at home cooking, watching a movie & snuggling. I don't watch much TV and like it that way, anything really as long as the company is good... I believe in keeping your word and think that if you don't mean it then you better not say it. Actions speak louder than words and relationships need compromise on BOTH sides. I'm not perfect and don't expect you to be either. You should take care of yourself physically as I try to for my guy. I want someone that's up for a little adventure together!! No smokers... because I like to kiss but not that!** For the guys that like to bullsh**... save it for your friends or the kinda women you usually go out with... Something simple...

  • Yuki

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy trying new things and am open to adventure. I have great friends but it is time to find that special someone. I want someone in my life that cares about me. I am loyal and ask for loyalty in return. I do not have children but am open to a relationship with kids. I believe the greatest romances and love stories, all start as friendships. Apparently having the app on your phone states you are always online. Trust me, I'm not.

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