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Tommy, 44

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About Me

I am looking for someone that can be my friend and maybe turn into something more. I believe that relationships are better as friends first. I'm divorced and do not want to play games. I like listening to country music but also like other kinds, 80's music, soft rock, oldies. I like to go dancing but haven't been in a while. I am very independent. I have one child that is my world and will always come first. I work every day, over time if possible. I am very close to my family. Family means a lot to me. Its hard to find the right words to say on these sites, I'm not perfect but come close, just kidding, I'm not looking for a one night stand but maybe someone to talk to, hang out with see what happens. I have not been on a first date in a while. I would like to meet for drinks or dinner possibly. I think communication is very important. I feel like if the conversation is flowing then something is going well. I think physical attraction is important, I'm not trying to sound shallow but let's be honest, attraction and able to keep the conversation flowing is good! I want someone that can make me laugh. Maybe go to a comedy movie.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sage

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy hanging out with my children. I enjoy watching my children in thier various sports they r in. I enjoy scrapbooking, taking pictures..(out door pictures r the best), going boating, fishing( not scared of fish), going on walks and much more.I am 5 foot, blonish brown hair with blue eyes. I have a great smile ) my friends say I do).I have a great personality.I enjoy dancing. I want to find someone I can start off being good friends(hanging out with) and then down the road it could turn into something more.If it does become more I would like that guy to be able to put me #1 in his life( spoil me), if he has kids then put me #2. I understand about having children, becuz my kids come first to me before any man! I also want a guy / man to be able to talk to me throu the day,if it is on the phone, texting, computer or face to face. communication is the MAIN PART of a friendship, relationship or even marriage. Looks are very important!! What I would enjoy on my first date is to go out to dinner I would also like to go to a park or sit outside around a bonfire and get to know eachother.We could even go on a drive on the country roads....Peaceful!

  • Erykah

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I don't believe in lying or leaving ANYONE hanging. Its a respect thing.after all how can i call myself a woman if like that. I do not perform a type of job that I can keep my cell phone in my hands or on me all day to be able to text. Sorry. I perform a job that my hands have to be stable and ready for anything that may possibly happen. I can have a brief conversation not a problem but you will have to call because I won't have my phone going off every couple seconds with alert sounds due to somebody wanting to chat back and forth a full blown conversation in text messages. Again. Not being rude. Respecting others around me and of course myself and the person that needs to talk. Don't be afraid to pick up a phone and call to say what you have to say. I don't bite, and its gonna be your best resort to letting me know you need or want to tell me. My volume is off to text, so if I'm working god knows how many hours or wherever i may be its not going off and causing a problem. I cant always keeo my cell in my hand I won't hear you. If you call and i dont hear or cant answer ,i will respond as soon as i can.deal? :) ;)OK now that , THATS done hahahaI'm a happy,caring, loving , pleasing person (this doesn't mean that I'm going to jump in a bed and please you) sorry! Lol simply means I love people and do love to please people I love and people I care for. Hahaha. I'm sure the right minded men will understand and the right man , not men, will know one day ;) I have a thing for rodeos, quality time, children, crafts,singing, music,excelling more in any interest I may have, farm and ranch, i love witnessing the success of my children and others and seeing,feeling the proudness from, sweet tea, working out a lot I MEAN A LOT. I HAVE PLENTY OF WITNESSES. THEY SAY I HAVE AN ADDICTION TO IT AND THAT IM A WORKAHOLIC.alway being told to slow down or take a break even from people that may barely briefly meet me.Much much more to know about me, but let's leave something for the imagination and more future conversations. After all my profile is for longterm. If I told you everything here then there would be nothing left and THAT would mean no future. What do you say? ;)Update: i explain myself i think very well when it comes to phones and me and my jobs. That is a controlling ,abusive personality. A person doesnt keep on and on when you clearly have to text because they arent man or woman enough to pick up the phone or better yet come to you personally and talk,listen AND hear you and let yoU EXPLAIN. THIS type of behavior pattern is conyrolling,possibly abusing,and definitely cowardly. I chose not to live so nor be treated in a way. This isnt a loss to anybody, if anything its a gain and give youraelf a high five,hold your head high and be proud of who you are. Because you are the one that matters.you are the winner,not the loser. Nobody deserves that. ;) Lets see

  • Regana

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I really think they need an option for dating with potential for longterm. I tend to be pretty low key, low maintenance and the listener rather than the talker....I try to live an active life, not all consuming busy but enough to keep me off the couch. I enjoy an afternoon on the golf course if the weather is good or an afternoon with a bottle of wine and a movie if it isn't. In the summer I also like to get out for a walk or puttering in the garden. In the winter I enjoy reading, curling or baking up a storm, I really need someone around to eat it :)The last couple of years I have been bitten by the travel bug. I have gotten a taste of Europe and hope to return soon. I have fallen in love with active travel and hope that the next big trip has a great mix of relaxing and being active...perhaps a bike tour of wine country somewhere. Or maybe a walk around Quebec City. Hey the world is a big place and is full of options.I think I have a pretty great sense of humour but I guess that is all a matter of opinion. I also think I am a good driver... All in all, I have a pretty great life. I just got the dog I have wanted for years, a new new house but it is missing someone to share it all with. Drop me a line, I would love to chat. something low key with little pressure to be the perfect date, perhaps a walk by the water, a drink at the pub, a game of mini golf, a county wine tour, just a coffee or an ice cream.

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