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Tommy, 44
United States, Kansas, Atchison

Offline, last seen Sat, 29 Nov 2025 22:43:58

About Me

I am looking for someone that can be my friend and maybe turn into something more. I believe that relationships are better as friends first. I'm divorced and do not want to play games. I like listening to country music but also like other kinds, 80's music, soft rock, oldies. I like to go dancing but haven't been in a while. I am very independent. I have one child that is my world and will always come first. I work every day, over time if possible. I am very close to my family. Family means a lot to me. Its hard to find the right words to say on these sites, I'm not perfect but come close, just kidding, I'm not looking for a one night stand but maybe someone to talk to, hang out with see what happens. I have not been on a first date in a while. I would like to meet for drinks or dinner possibly. I think communication is very important. I feel like if the conversation is flowing then something is going well. I think physical attraction is important, I'm not trying to sound shallow but let's be honest, attraction and able to keep the conversation flowing is good! I want someone that can make me laugh. Maybe go to a comedy movie.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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