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Erykah, 42
United States, Kansas, Atchison

Offline, last seen Sun, 07 Jun 2026 09:57:41

About Me

I don't believe in lying or leaving ANYONE hanging. Its a respect thing.after all how can i call myself a woman if like that. I do not perform a type of job that I can keep my cell phone in my hands or on me all day to be able to text. Sorry. I perform a job that my hands have to be stable and ready for anything that may possibly happen. I can have a brief conversation not a problem but you will have to call because I won't have my phone going off every couple seconds with alert sounds due to somebody wanting to chat back and forth a full blown conversation in text messages. Again. Not being rude. Respecting others around me and of course myself and the person that needs to talk. Don't be afraid to pick up a phone and call to say what you have to say. I don't bite, and its gonna be your best resort to letting me know you need or want to tell me. My volume is off to text, so if I'm working god knows how many hours or wherever i may be its not going off and causing a problem. I cant always keeo my cell in my hand I won't hear you. If you call and i dont hear or cant answer ,i will respond as soon as i can.deal? :) ;)OK now that , THATS done hahahaI'm a happy,caring, loving , pleasing person (this doesn't mean that I'm going to jump in a bed and please you) sorry! Lol simply means I love people and do love to please people I love and people I care for. Hahaha. I'm sure the right minded men will understand and the right man , not men, will know one day ;) I have a thing for rodeos, quality time, children, crafts,singing, music,excelling more in any interest I may have, farm and ranch, i love witnessing the success of my children and others and seeing,feeling the proudness from, sweet tea, working out a lot I MEAN A LOT. I HAVE PLENTY OF WITNESSES. THEY SAY I HAVE AN ADDICTION TO IT AND THAT IM A WORKAHOLIC.alway being told to slow down or take a break even from people that may barely briefly meet me.Much much more to know about me, but let's leave something for the imagination and more future conversations. After all my profile is for longterm. If I told you everything here then there would be nothing left and THAT would mean no future. What do you say? ;)Update: i explain myself i think very well when it comes to phones and me and my jobs. That is a controlling ,abusive personality. A person doesnt keep on and on when you clearly have to text because they arent man or woman enough to pick up the phone or better yet come to you personally and talk,listen AND hear you and let yoU EXPLAIN. THIS type of behavior pattern is conyrolling,possibly abusing,and definitely cowardly. I chose not to live so nor be treated in a way. This isnt a loss to anybody, if anything its a gain and give youraelf a high five,hold your head high and be proud of who you are. Because you are the one that matters.you are the winner,not the loser. Nobody deserves that. ;) Lets see

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

English Indian Comedy Music Romance Sci-Fi
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