Maxton, 44
Offline, last seen Sun, 21 Dec 2025 02:09:45
About Me
UPDATE: Okay, so I really don't have a problem getting dates - ever - and I'm not even that good looking; but I do know a few things about women and a whole hell of a lot more about men, seeing that I am one. Now as of late, it seems you women here on meetville are getting SERIOUSLY desperate. So let me give you all some tips on what NOT to do, then what you SHOULD do. Why should you listen to me?Because I'm a guy (a good one at that) and I'm laying it out straight here for you (you're welcome in advance - you'll see why if you keep reading). FIRST: The first thing that 90% of the women here do, that will make people like me (educated, intelligent, fit, self- You do this because you're afraid if we see your body we'll skip right over you. Well, there's a solution to that: it's called TAKING CARE OF YOUR BODY! LOSE THE FAT. The reason (and I'm speaking NOT for 90%, but more like 99.9% of the men here) that most men skip you is not because you have a few wrinkles on your face or a bad hairstyle or a lame profile summary. It's because you're F-A-T. Period. Plus, your inability to respect your appearance tells us all that if you don't respect yourself, you damn sure aren't gonna respect us. So there's a start - get off your butt and get MOVING!!! It's simple: burn more calories then you eat. 90 days later, and voila - you're a new person! Just watch The Biggest Loser TV show. 10 weeks in and these peoples' lives are changed - for the better. SECOND: If you have a headline that says "Take me as I am" or "I'm just me" or something along those lines, it's a veeeerrrry shallow attempt to tell us that you're not worth pursuing - ever. It's just code for "I've given up in life, but if you are that desperate message me." You may FEEL better by using a headline like that, but we're not buying it. Go look at the hottest women you can find on meetville, and they will NEVER have a headline like that - I know, I've dated my share of them. Ditch the lame "What you see is what you get" headline - NOW - and your profiles views and messages will go up and you will attract more quality. THIRD: If your profile summary starts with "I am a wonderful mother of two boys/girls who are my world" or "...who will always come first...", you need to re-phrase that IMMEDIATELY. Why? Because while YOU think those phrases show us what a responsible mother you are, what they REALLY tell us is that we're 'second' - no matter WHAT. Not gonna fly, sweetheart. Real men don't do 'second'.While you DO have a responsibility to your children (and society) to raise them right, you ALSO must know that a real man is not going to put up with being put on the back burner in the desperate hope that you MAY show him a LITTLE bit of attention when YOU feel like it. It doesn't mean you *** kids at the expense of some douche bag loser - it means you make sure that you set aside an appropriate amount of attention for your significant other.Those are the big three things NOT to do to attract a quality guy. Now...what you SHOULD DO: 1. GET IN SHAPE! Now...what do you do if you're NOT in shape yet? Have no fear...make a personal commitment to GET in shape and then tell EVERYONE YOU KNOW that you are doing it - and include that fact in your profile! This will make you accountable and put pressure on you to DO IT. We all know that no one's perfect - but if we know you are DOING something about it, it tells us you have GOALS - so here's a tip on how to do it: Make sure that you post it on ***, your meetville (and other dating sites) profile, and as you get in shape, POST UPDATED PICS!!! This shows us that you're a woman of your word and it gives us a chance to root for you! I can't tell you HOW MANY women's profile pics I've seen where I said to myself "DAMN! If that woman lost 30 pounds she would be fu**ing HOT!" *NOTE: Why are guys stuck on appearance (a.k.a. playboy magazine)? For the same reason you're stuck on romance novels and romantic comedies: it's your emotional porn. It's how you're wired. We're wired by appearance. Period. Does than mean that we DON'T need to know your personality, quirks, and all the other great things that make up YOU as a person? No - but you're body will come as the FIRST thing we see and care about. Your face comes in second, and the rest comes as we get to know you - and funnily enough, it's 'the rest' that will get us to stay. Lure us in with your body, put A LITTLE makeup on your face, then wow us with your brains, charm, personality and humor. We'll be putty in your hands. That's the b*tch of it though: Ya gotta LOOK GOOD FIRST!!! Don't believe me? Ask any guy you know - any HONEST guy who's not trying to bang you - and they'll tell you the same thing. In the words of Si...That's a FACT, Jack! Moving on...2. Use a headline that draws us in WITHOUT seeming like a stuck-up b*tch, and WITHOUT seeming desperate.Examples of what NOT to use: (Stuck-up B*tch: "You know you want this" (ugghhh)..."Only Real Men Need Apply" (worse). (Desperate: "Are there any good guys left???"..."Where have all the good ones gone?") First, the Stuck-up B*tch: You're living in la-la-land and will attract nothing BUT losers. Why? Because you're trying to come across as strong and independent right up front, and I'll say it again, those are only qualities than men want to see in you AFTER they realize HOW HOT you are. If you ARE hot, you won't NEED to try and double-whammy us on your profile page with hot pics of yourself telling us how strong and independent you are. Just be hot and tell us your interests, etc. We'll get to the rest later and have fun doing it!Second, the Desperate: The problem you have is that you've mad a T-O-N of B-A-D choices in the past and your vision is clouded by the experiences you had with the very people YOU chose! You chose the bad-boy(s) and now you're paying the emotional toll. That is not OUR fault. The very fact that I have to mention it would be almost comical if it weren't so tragic. Did it for ***years). You know where the good guys are? They're (mostly) HAPPILY married with kids. They stuck it out, and got the reward. What about the rest of the good guys (like me)? We are few and far between. And we'll ALL tell you (to varying degrees) what I just told you. I GUARANTEE you that if the 'good guys' here on meetville could express themselves as I just have, they would tell you the same thing. Now...for those of you who have actually stuck around...and want to know what I'm all about - send me a message and ask ;-) Don't really have too many thoughts on a first date...I'm pretty much like everyone else - dinner and a movie? It's getting to know the person I'm with that counts, not so much what we do. A restaurant is a pretty non-threatening environment to get to know someone, and if things go well there then a good flick is a natural followup for the evening.
PERSONAL INFORMATION
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Looking for
woman
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Relationship
Divorced
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Have kids
No
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Wants kids
No
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Ethnicity
Caucasian
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Faith
Christian
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Body type
Athletic
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Height
6'2"
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Eye color
Blue
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Smoke
No
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Drink
Yes, socially
INTERESTS
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