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Carmelo, 45

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About Me

I hate this part; I never know what to type that doesn’t make me sound like an idiot. Opps, too late.Hobbies; haven’t had much time for them, work and keeping house keep getting in the wayGoals; I want to get to the point where I can enjoy life and I want someone to share it withWhat makes me unique; you’re going to have to tell me, I'm bias, lolmusic; I enjoy a wide verity, from 60's and 70's rock to today’s pop and club stuff (not too big on rap)I'm 6'1", about 195lbs (sorry to say some of it is in the wrong places) dirty blond/graying hair. I was hurt in a vehicle accident 6 years ago and I am just now trying to get back into shape but it’s hard to do when you hurt most the time. I grew up as a farm kid but I live in the city now. I am comfortable in jeans and a T-shirt as well as dressed up.I enjoy going out for live bands, dancing and can be dragged to museums and other cultural things without whining too much.I'm coming out of a long bad marriage (should have ended it long before, but I i didn’t want to give up) and I am not ready to start a new serious relationship (unless the right one drops in my lap). I'm looking for a woman that wants to have fun and enjoy life. I'm fed up with drama and someone trying to change me.I want a woman that will not only be my lover but my best friend.I do NOT live with my parents, havent since I was 18.I own a truck that is newer than ***.Single Moms --> while I never had kids, I really wanted them, and still do. I don’t care if they are mine or not. While I am from a broken family I think I have strong family values.Honestly, I've had no luck on here so far. Just dishonest people who like to play games. Honesty, respect and loyalty are all extremely important. If you make promises, follow through. Following through with plans is essential to gain trust, especially in a new relationship. I don't mean to sound harsh, I'm just being truthful. I'm not into drama and/or games. Also, if you are stuck on yourself, forget it! Warning: I havent been on a first date for over 17 years. lol.I think an ideal first date should be low key and casual to get to know each other. Meet somewhere convenient to both of us. For a drink / coffee / meal / walk ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Baptist

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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    I am looking to meet someone who enjoys life, loves friends and family. I pride myself on honesty, integrity, and being an open book. If you have a question just ask, I will answer it. I will always tell the truth, even if it is painful to do so. Respect also means a lot to me. I am not judgmental and pride myself on being a friend first and foremost and I am looking for the same. I attend Brown’s Bridge now, and secretly catch up on the sermons / series that I miss on those day I am out riding my motorcycle with friends. I am Veteran, having served in the US Army for over 8 years. I truly enjoy doing charity work for fellow Veterans, fallen Officers, and fallen 1st responders.’s Foundation, the DAV, and other charitable organizations. This is my way of giving back.I love to dance and I am not afraid to step out on to the dance floor. I have a pretty wide taste in music from 70’s, Classic RB, Classic Rock, Rock, and Country. I love live music, enjoy local bands, and excellent food at places like the Ridge, the Coo Coos Nest, Good Ole’ Days, 37 Main, and a couple more. I am not a big drinker, but I love being around a crowd of friends and enjoying music. "Going Out" is not a lifestyle for me, it's simply entertainment. I also enjoy staying at home, grilling out, and watching a good movie. I own a motorcycle and can be found lost in the mountains with my friends on beautiful days when I’m not working. I enjoy day trips, overnight trips, and going to some rally’s like Thunder Beach. If you like motorcycles, that's a big plus with me - but not a deal breaker. Riding is a recreation for me - not a daily lifestyle. Public place, Starbucks, Casual Lunch, Causal Dinner,

  • Uzia

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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    I think I'm a pretty funny guy. I do have a quick wit and sarcastic tongue. I am a single father of a 13 year old son and he is my priority. I am looking for that special someone. I like to go out and try new food experiences. Yes I am a foodie. If I like something well enough I go home and figure out how to make it then I do. I am a huge romantic and enjoy spoiling the person I am with. I could sit here and tell you I am kind, and tender and all the other catch words, which I am all of those and more, but if we weren't at least the basics what would be the point of even coming on here? I am sincere in my hope of finding that special lady that is as attracted to em as I am her. That can see beyond the short comings and accept me for me as I will for her.That can understand that as a guy, I sometimes need to go into my cave, that is my internal cave not a physical one, and mull over issues that have nothing to do with her. Its just a natural thing for us. I will also be there to listen and not try to fix or be the hero unless requested for my opinion or insight. Dinner or drinks and appetizers. Something relaxing and low key.

  • Benjy

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    I have decided to try again on meetville after many long months of disappointing attempts at trying to meet woman. The main reason is that the woman just didn't commit to meeting in person. i would chat a few times and even met a few nice ladies..but few ever decided to meet in person, and when they did we had no chemistry. So i am back to try again! I am a single father, a student, a hard worker, intelligent, inquisitive,and at a good point in my life. I am finishing my education, getting in shape after several years of dormancy..(mainly because of school).., and my daughter is at an age where she doesn't need all my attention. Therefore, i can devote some time to meeting nice woman. I have a wide variety of interests that include martial arts, jogging, yoga, and bike riding. i am an avid reader and have a voracious appetite for books and knowledge in general.i do love music, concerts, and road trips. I do go to meet friends for an occasional drink at the bar, and at times even like to go dancing. Even though most of my time has been spent with the basics of daughter,work and,school....i do miss female companionship. My pics are not the best and im in the process of updating them...sooooo hold tight! My goals are to get a job in my field after graduation..(only a few semesters away)..I'd like to teach or work in a museum setting, or even library science. I probably will go to grad school after graduation...i am undecided. I love to write and hope to finish a novel i have started in junior college. I would describe myself as an intellectual....thoughtful..pragmatic...intuitive... and sensitive. Yes i can have a temper, be pissy at times, and even have drama...(whoooaa..look out!) ,but everyone does. For the most part, i am very motivated to staying on track. my goal is to meet woman who are serious about the process of dating. You have to talk...and then meet and go from there. The internet makes it a smorgasbord of choices and if even one small thing bothers a person..they go on to the next! Gimme a break! No one is perfect...no one is drama free***no one is without issues. Honesty is key and communication has become a lost art. i encourage anyone looking to date to find that again! After a few messages on-line..lets talk on the phone if there's chemistry and go from there. dating takes effort. I'd like to meet over coffee, or a beer and just have a casual conversation. Its amazing how much you can find out about a person over a 30 minute conversation.!

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