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Joss, 44
United States, Indiana, Westport

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About Me

Despite some traveling, I generally am content right where I am, though I frequently feel the impatient nudge to move on to the next thing, despite the fact there is no "next thing." Character defect #1? Oh, let's save that list for a fireside chat, or, better yet, washing dishes. Ha! I'd rather be tromping around in the dunes behind the beach on a late Spring day when the native dune vegetation is in full show.My job, along with much of my recreation and fitness pursuits are outdoors and mostly off the grid, so I cannot claim that as a preferred activity- it's just the way things are. I'm happy with the way the path has unfolded so far despite a few bumps and potholes along the way. I enjoy people who have their own suite of interests - some in common, some not, though I find myself drawn to those who are active, fit and treat their body well. On the topic of potential partners, let's box this venture into a journey of friendship, romance, or maybe even the bright green area where things are just easy, natural and a conversation is picked up like it never ended.I prefer direct conversations wherever feasible: conversations that can run deep but alternate with light-hearted chit-chat, emotional awareness and all that comes with being present.And while I cook early and often, and have even been known to cook up a meal for a special guest, these are prolonged sessions tipped with anxiety, edginess, and just plain mal-focus over mundane things like the proper set on salmon, over-caramelizing roasted tomatoes, or the lack of a good leopard char on a 5-day fermented dough. I like knowing the story of the food from start to finish. To that end, gathering mushrooms, preserving lemons, making my own toothpaste, laundry soap and canning/freezing all kinds of goodies is one way to know what's going into my body. And I especially like it when there's enough to barter around - your peaches for my salmon - ha! Despite all this, I'm a perfectly imperfect human being that comes packaged with all the quirks that online profiles cannot and, arguably, should not capture. And dishes should be washed by hand. I suppose the obligatory informal coffee meet-

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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