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Wilford, 41
United States, Indiana, Vevay

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Father of 2 girls 5 &6 that keep me on my toes. I am not a outside summer person, but I do like to do somethings outside if it's not ***in the shade. I am getting out of a 8 year marriage, and would like to start slow. No drugs or heavy drinking please. I am looking for a Woman with honor and knows how to take car of herself. Someone i can not worry about if i don't talk to her everyday.Someone that doesn't require all my time to keep them happy with their world.I would like to one day make them all my life, but now understand my worries are my kids and myself.I don't like or play games, and i need truth and truth about all of her past. I am not judgemental, people make mistakes all the time, but do you learn from them or keep hitting your head on the wall.I am moving forward with my life for my family and would like to share some of it with someone that can enjoy it.I am NOT looking for a booty call or fast sex. I can still count with both hand how many women i have been with and don't want to grow more hands. I like the chase, but i don't want to chase if you put me in the friend zone.If i like you around you will know,of not stay away please.This is very new for me.I have never chased a women in my live, most of them i was friends with before we started anything.I do miss the (check in calls) about being with someone,but if your all ways calling me or tracking me down something is wrong with you.I am just not into that kind of girl.I am not picky with women's looks,but a woman with pride in herself. UPDATE ***Ok I know that online dating is a vague action for some and Most are looking for a Easy way to meet people for sex, but I am not.I have taken this very serious and would like someone i can send a long time with, and maybe the rest of my life.Also the Ladies that Don't respond to any messages ***Why are you here. If you are with someone or looking for a self lift up Delete your account and save some of us the headache.Any maybe it's me but *** wonderful tool to weed out the Tools,just saying.Update ***Well thank you all that have been so nice and understanding on here so far. Many ladies have started up a chat only to not understand that i have no time for drama and i can't and won't take them out and drop ***bucks on a first date.I can spend that kind of cash on my wonderful kids and get to keep their happiness at home with me.Please understand i have worked hard to raise my kids and if i have to do it alone i will. It will suck because i need time for me.I have a few friends and some family that support my desire to be a real man and keep my kids with me.I don't use my kids a pawns in my life.I happily chose them over my wants and needs any day.So thanks to the cool understanding real women i have chatted with so far.Maybe we can meet up one day and have a real chat.Update ***Wow Is there any normal women on here?? I understand everyone has issues, but are you dealing with them? I am not a normal man. I have my kids with me and i would never leave them behind to start over. I have had my set backs like most but they have made me a stronger happier person because them. I don't need a women to play mommy to my kids and i don't want a women that has lost her kids for any reason.If that mean i will never meet someone from here, i am great with that.I refuse to give into my need over my kids to be happy.Now i would like to find a normal woman that can keep her life in order and has the time and need to be happy.And if we do meet please understand me when i say i very picky about what i like in a woman, and i will tell you.That don't make you a bad person, just not for me.Take it like a man.Don't send me hate mail with your reasons why i am a ***hole.I won't settle for someone i have nothing with cause you will.Update ***Turning 41 in 3 days and i can't wait. No party no fuss just the way i like it.And age is just a number to me,but having a 19 year old beautiful girl asks you if you want someone to spend time with on a Friday night my first thought was "Holy Crap She Has Daddy Issues" then after some time I started thinking "Babysitter". Was i wrong? Is there some rule about fishing in your own pond?Update ***Made a few changes in my life and i learned that i have more self worth than i though.That being said......Everyone is beautiful in some way to someone,but i know what i like and the only way i can put this is "There are no fat men,just fat women" Peter Griffon.If this offends you then your not for me.I want my heart to jump when i see you for the first time.I just can't lower my standards and lie to myself and waste your time.Also the "hot to trot" messages don't work for me at all.If you going to get drunk stay off meetville. Meet for coffee and a lot of talking

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    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

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    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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