SIMILAR PEOPLE
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ElihuOffline
Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52
Ask. My account was hacked...anyway, later GUYS, ~~ I'm re-cooperating from a horrific accident right now. I'll have my body back up to "climbing" condition.OK, I have to go study the LAW (I've been studying at an L3/3L level. I was able to start working out again...just the basics...crunches, push-ups, constant isometrics.I have thoughts of having offspring before I get too much older...probably with-in a year??? That is in no way an open invitation...js (just Saying) I'm the Read Deal, and a keeper but you'll discover that on your own. I'd like to be a stay-at-home-dad, it would free up my time to write, study, do research, et cetera...you would enjoy coming home to me. The "connection" is the most important part of a relationship to a girl...I get it. You can trust me to choose a great place.
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AlessandroOffline
Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51
So yes, I like to communicate. I'm not really looking for someone to hang around and have fun with. Sure, I want that, but I'm looking for someone with whom I can connect on a deeper level, someone who wants to get to know me... all greatness and complexity, compassion and understanding, and the stuff that's way down deep.. That's where I like to be, deep in the depths.. but I come up every so often (pretty often, actually) to show myself, greet the sun and laugh. I really do love the city, but probably not more than I love the woods, desert, mountains. I am not simple, that much is for sure. I want you to challenge me. I want you to know a host of things with which I have no knowledge. And we can teach each other stuff, and we can take risks together and jump out of planes together and make soup on a cold day! Hey, you know, just be you, I will be me, and maybe there will be something there... Either way, I will treat you with kindness and respect.. and I love to make friends too... :) James Well, since they asked, I will give you my fantasy dream date. It has been on my mind lately, not really sure why, but here it is... and please realize that this is fantasy, not a requirement. Ok, we meet for the first time in the dark. We have already seen pictures, spoken and have established that there is the strong potential for some kind of physical attraction. I don't know where it could be done. I would guess either of our homes would be out, but there must be some way it could be worked. I just think it would be fun to get to know someone in the dark. We could talk for hours and sip wine while we eat thai food or something. And maybe we could light one candle at a time after a while so we can slowly get the visual... Even if you hate the idea, it would still be fun to talk about. Tell me what you think...?
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WilfordOffline
Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48
Father of 2 girls 5 &6 that keep me on my toes. I am not a outside summer person, but I do like to do somethings outside if it's not ***in the shade. I am getting out of a 8 year marriage, and would like to start slow. No drugs or heavy drinking please. I am looking for a Woman with honor and knows how to take car of herself. Someone i can not worry about if i don't talk to her everyday.Someone that doesn't require all my time to keep them happy with their world.I would like to one day make them all my life, but now understand my worries are my kids and myself.I don't like or play games, and i need truth and truth about all of her past. I am not judgemental, people make mistakes all the time, but do you learn from them or keep hitting your head on the wall.I am moving forward with my life for my family and would like to share some of it with someone that can enjoy it.I am NOT looking for a booty call or fast sex. I can still count with both hand how many women i have been with and don't want to grow more hands. I like the chase, but i don't want to chase if you put me in the friend zone.If i like you around you will know,of not stay away please.This is very new for me.I have never chased a women in my live, most of them i was friends with before we started anything.I do miss the (check in calls) about being with someone,but if your all ways calling me or tracking me down something is wrong with you.I am just not into that kind of girl.I am not picky with women's looks,but a woman with pride in herself. UPDATE ***Ok I know that online dating is a vague action for some and Most are looking for a Easy way to meet people for sex, but I am not.I have taken this very serious and would like someone i can send a long time with, and maybe the rest of my life.Also the Ladies that Don't respond to any messages ***Why are you here. If you are with someone or looking for a self lift up Delete your account and save some of us the headache.Any maybe it's me but *** wonderful tool to weed out the Tools,just saying.Update ***Well thank you all that have been so nice and understanding on here so far. Many ladies have started up a chat only to not understand that i have no time for drama and i can't and won't take them out and drop ***bucks on a first date.I can spend that kind of cash on my wonderful kids and get to keep their happiness at home with me.Please understand i have worked hard to raise my kids and if i have to do it alone i will. It will suck because i need time for me.I have a few friends and some family that support my desire to be a real man and keep my kids with me.I don't use my kids a pawns in my life.I happily chose them over my wants and needs any day.So thanks to the cool understanding real women i have chatted with so far.Maybe we can meet up one day and have a real chat.Update ***Wow Is there any normal women on here?? I understand everyone has issues, but are you dealing with them? I am not a normal man. I have my kids with me and i would never leave them behind to start over. I have had my set backs like most but they have made me a stronger happier person because them. I don't need a women to play mommy to my kids and i don't want a women that has lost her kids for any reason.If that mean i will never meet someone from here, i am great with that.I refuse to give into my need over my kids to be happy.Now i would like to find a normal woman that can keep her life in order and has the time and need to be happy.And if we do meet please understand me when i say i very picky about what i like in a woman, and i will tell you.That don't make you a bad person, just not for me.Take it like a man.Don't send me hate mail with your reasons why i am a ***hole.I won't settle for someone i have nothing with cause you will.Update ***Turning 41 in 3 days and i can't wait. No party no fuss just the way i like it.And age is just a number to me,but having a 19 year old beautiful girl asks you if you want someone to spend time with on a Friday night my first thought was "Holy Crap She Has Daddy Issues" then after some time I started thinking "Babysitter". Was i wrong? Is there some rule about fishing in your own pond?Update ***Made a few changes in my life and i learned that i have more self worth than i though.That being said......Everyone is beautiful in some way to someone,but i know what i like and the only way i can put this is "There are no fat men,just fat women" Peter Griffon.If this offends you then your not for me.I want my heart to jump when i see you for the first time.I just can't lower my standards and lie to myself and waste your time.Also the "hot to trot" messages don't work for me at all.If you going to get drunk stay off meetville. Meet for coffee and a lot of talking