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Brantley, 44
United States, Indiana, Sullivan

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Can you still open your heart for a relationship? I'm looking to change directions, and to find someone to walk the path with. I am not here to date around endlessly, but to find someone to really connect with. I am a complex mixture of razor-sharp intelligence combined with pitiful naivete. Works efficiently (some people mistake it for 'hard'), so I can be lazy. Generally laid-back, but occasionally stubborn/temperamental, just to keep you on your toes. Decent vocabulary, but big pottymouth (yes, I can restrain it around your mom). Won't use spellcheck. Enjoys athletic endeavors, but paradoxically, not team sports - therefore I will still talk to you during football season, LOL. Likes science and reading.....and the UFC. Go figure. I hate alarm clocks so much I taught myself to wake up on time without them. I cry sometimes watching the "Dog Whisperer". I don't think I have ever built a snowman. Books -*t and Philosophy, The Giving Tree, The InfernoMostly I read magazines, and occasionally comic books. My attention span is pretty sho......hey! What that over there?Movies - SciFi and action, although I can fidget through the occasional whiny chick-flick.Music - I play drums! Jazz and rock are my main things. I also listen to mostly anything but rap and country.** I do like bluegrass, but not country pop.Food - If you take me to Cheesecake Factory, you'll have me at "hello".I prize honesty, communication and togetherness. Talk to me and I will listen. Listen, and you will understand who I am. I am looking for a patient, low maintenance, non-smoking soul who loves dogs and cats - please note that my pets and I are a package deal. Fairly liberal in politics, so Republicans may wish to look elsewhere. I do appreciate spontaneity, yet I am a creature of habit. Change for the better is all good, though. I am a sucker for redemption. Although apparently, I am more often just a sucker ;) But this is what I really want - I want to wake up in your arms every day.I want to be sure that you really need me now and in the future.I want to see your smile and know that this smile is for me.I want to be awakened up by you rather than some kind of alarm clock.I want love and understanding to overcome our differences.I want you to warm your hands up in the back pockets of my jeans.I want you to pay me with your kisses for the rental of my jeans pockets.I want to believe you and never question anything you say.I want "you" and "me" to become "us" and "we". Talk, eat, get to know one another. Play pool or bowling, take a walk together. Show up and we'll figure something out!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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