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Brenton, 42
United States, Indiana, Sullivan

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About Me

I'm a musician / writer / technologist / entrepreneur and full-time college student. I recently decided to go back to school and study music theory in depth plus take some enrichment, and exploratory classes. I love knowledge and learning; always seeking to improve myself and my contribution to society.-energy technologies. I like gardening and want to grow my own food as well as some rare and different things.I'm liberal at heart so I love life; love people; and would like to see everyone treated fair and just. I like discussing politics but I don't blindly follow one party like it's my favorite football team and no matter how good or bad, stay loyal. I'm for the people out there that are doing the right thing for every single person -- not just their race, ethnic background, state, community, etc... I'm for all Americans and the ones who wish to become, Americans.I like to volunteer but with my recent class load I haven't had much time. I'd like to find opportunities where I can inspire kids or even adults to pursue higher education and help keep kids in school.I've spent a while single and sent many a nice message to no reply. I am a unique person. There's no doubt that I'm not like most men you have met and I've heard that my entire life -- good or bad as it is, I have always kept originality and creativity foremost in my life. I do not like to follow fads or trends and I don't watch TV. I don't listen to the radio often (some classical or jazz). I mostly find what I want via the internet and other resources. Mass media is a manipulation machine and the major conduits (cable/radio) are advertising machines and often don't care about the legitimacy of their ads or content as long as it keeps numbers high. I am principled and stick to them unless the situation changes and with that, I am open and can adapt to change.Music is a huge passion of mine and as I mentioned, I'm studying music theory, composition, and harmonic analysis. I compose music as well as songs and wish to enhance my knowledge and vocabulary as well as enhance my creations and continue to grow. I write and blog often and have many people who enjoy my writing and think that I'm a fair and decisive writer and have mentioned repeatedly how I have no problem going straight to the point, and exposing the bad parts. I maintain 3 blogs currently, including my own personal site where I mix my music with my essays and opinions. I'm also a simple person in ways. If anything, it taught me a lot about how not to be, but there were some good points and lessons and I'm not sure if I'd trade that -- it did make me the person I am.I'm a moderately hyper and quick minded person who knows a lot about a lot and keeps learning more. I talk and walk fast. I think dynamically and tend to have several ideas rolling around my brain, be it solving a problem, to a piece of my music I want to expand or evolve, or maybe pondering new things to explore. I'm not a frantic or excited person but to those of you who are not like me -- I would probably seem excited or intense when I'm just quick and passionate. I have nothing I hate except I do detest injustice and suffering... I believe in a positive attitude about myself and my fellow humans -- even if they might not share the same in kind.I've messaged a lot of ladies on here this site to no reply, and from my investigation, that's just the way it is. Like it or not, we men are leveled and the playing field gains a different sort of balance ***that gives the woman, as it should be, a safe barrier. Yet the standard protocol still seems to be in place and it is up to me as a man to reach out and initiate an interaction. I'm more discrete about who I message these days and have never just blanket spammed women -- I read your profile, and hope you have detailed enough information to get a better idea of what you're about. We should exchange DNA and make sure you're human. Or maybe coffee would be easier...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Adventure Animation Documentary Fantasy Martial Arts
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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

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