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Ryder, 44
United States, Indiana, Sullivan

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Cool. Be cool. Or get that way. Find your center, and engage your observing-ego. Have a sense of yourself.I am intelligent, articulate, sincere, energetic, enthusiastic, and aware. I live an American lifestyle. I am grounded, honorable, connected, appreciative. I think about who I am, what I do, how I do it. I plan, I address, I commit, I see things through, I learn, I advance, I improve. I work, live, play, cook, survive, read, watch, listen- and hear. I'm easy and I'm serious, and I will surprise and make you laugh until your sides hurt. Maybe. I've fooled around, dated, known crazy love, been within sight of marriage. Life has made it's choices for me. I am here, and that is all. I'm all about health and fitness, active and in some groups, getting strong and building bonds. I'm not going to tell you who you need to be. Find yourself in my words, feel a connection, know that we align, and say something.We'll talk about everything, and when we don't talk, we are still communicating. We'll randomly occur around one another, spinning circles within each other's space.I don't dig self-entitlement. I won't lose time entertaining dialogue about your approval. Whoop-dee-doo that you get ***e-mails a day- be thankful that you got one from me. Get your gratitude straight. BLUF: some of you ladies need to decompress. Yell at the mirror. Do a million sit-ups. So uptight, angry little blockers. Have a picture up. No exceptions. Ducky face? some strange guy's arm around you at a bar? - big zero's.It would be better if you were politically moderate to conservative, center, right, awake. I've been city for much of my life, but I've also been Country, and generally would prefer someone not exclusively resigned to city life.Have your act straight, be truthful, just, honest, mature, sincere. The good stuff that everybody is looking for is the result of both sides giving and receiving, doing their respective parts, seeking a healthy balance, and accepting the responsibility to keep it that way.Catch me at home, and we'll chat. An art exhibit; a museum; a festival; Seaworld; Metrozoo; a sunset cruise; a dance class; a lecture on something we both like; a forest hike; a mountain side. Be daring. Step out. Expose yourself a little. Lets talk a little first. Show me some solid character, with consistent honesty and mature boundaries, and then we'll plan some things together. After that? - anything, everything. Take me to dinner. ****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action against me with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee, agent, student or any personnel under your direction or control.The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, and the violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. UCC ***ALL RIGHTS

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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