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Andreas, 44
United States, Indiana, Sullivan

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Hi! Thanks for looking at my profile . Well here is the hard part . I am a educated country boy . I like to fish , hunt , ride ATVs and a good bonfire at the river . With that said I am also well read and like all diffrent kinds of movies and like gourmet coffee . I like to cook and grill out but like to got out from time to time . I am family oriented but also understand alone time with that special person in my life . I am happy with my life I have my own home and vehicles and a job . Now I am looking for the only part that is missing a special person to share it with .Ok for the next hard part . Who I am looking for . I guess I am looking for the female version on me . Lol Looks are grate but mean nothing unless you are beautiful on the inside . I really do not have a type if I did this part might be easy . I hope to find someone happy with themselves and their life and just wants to share that with someone . The thing below is for fun because it seems to be all i am finding lol good luck in life and hope chat with you soon :-) I am seeking a like-minded woman to share a disastrous ***month relationship with, ending in acrimony, emotional chaos, and possibly legal proceedings. I am looking for an attractive female who will at first give me obsessive love, praise and devotion - but whose paranoia, self-loathing and fear of rejection and abandonment will eventually lead her to alternately push me away and pull me closer in a love/hate cycle that will lead to infidelity, consensual sexual violence, and the eventual emotional breakdown of one or other party - or if we're lucky - both! You should: * be 21 to 50 years old; * have a history of short, intense, drama-driven relationships; * have undergone negative psychiatric evaluations in the past; and * be willing to threaten self-harm and/or annihilation as a weapon to control your partner and make them stay with you and care for you. Although not completely necessary, I would prefer women: * with nice smiles and eyes; * who are married or already in unstable relationships; * that drink to forget; and * who have had a previous established diagnosis of Borderline or Dependent Personality Disorder, Manic Depression, Anxiety Disorder or Bi-Polar Affective Disorder - or who are currently taking Lithium Carbonate antidepressants. If you think you meet these requirements (and wow, I'm getting excited just writing them!), please don't hesitate to get back to me as soon as possible. In the meantime, thank you for reading my ad, and do take care.Notice:I don't date women that date multiple people and I will not date multiple people either. I feel that it's a respect thing... if I'm going to spend time with someone, they will be the only person on my mind and will receive my full attention. Comparison shopping for a woman isn't my style. This doesn't mean that it moves immediately into a relationship, that still takes time to develop, but I give it every opportunity by not muddying the water.If you agree with all of this. Firstly, I'm selective in whom I "date" because dating, to me, isn't about just having an activity partner . It's about allowing myself to truly grow feelings for someone, and to try to grow feelings for multiple people at the same time seems dishonest to myself and rude to the women, as I'd be allowing them to feel for me too, only to be left behind for no reason besides "I like this woman more than you." It shouldn't be about one woman being better or worse than another; it should be about whether I see potential with one specific woman. If a woman were dating me and other man at the same time, I'd tell her to go to hell because I don't want to be seen as some item on the grocery store shelf that can be picked up and sampled with all the other brands. Either like me or don't, but don't internally compare me to other men or allow me to feel something for you while you're feeling something for other men.It shouldn't take long periods of time and many "dates" to know whether or not you click with someone and want to spend more time with someone. Dividing your attention between multiple people is a defense mechanism to protect yourself from getting hurt -- after all, if you never allow yourself to develop deeper feelings for someone (as is natural when one makes a commitment to someone), then you'll never get hurt --> you'll also never, however, feel how great it is to be in love and have someone love you in return. First date should be about getting to know each other so most likely somewhere semi quite so we can talk dinner and then coffee or drinks we decide if we click or not lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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Italian Thai
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