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United States, Indiana, Rushville

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OK, time for a drastic re-write of my profile blurb.... I sincerely hope I don't come across as too much of a douche, but in an effort to save us both the time and trouble of recognizing compatibility / incompatibility I need to attempt to get specific. I'm writing this for you, the one in a million. I don't feel my life is an any way lacking fulfillment due to my single status, I don't need anyone else to define who I am. However, I do feel that certain others can inspire joy, motivation, and to be honest, a weird since of validation. It's late and what I'm writing may not make a lick of since, but hey.... all things subject to change weather it be a profile on an on-line dating site or long held beliefs and ideas. One of my mantras is "that for all I know, everything I know could be wrong." That keeps me grounded and helps me avoid becoming a prisoner to my convictions. Convictions make convicts.... yeah, I like that saying also. I like it so much I'm considering tattooing it somewhere on my body. Yes, I like tattoos.... unless they're bad. But of course it boils down to a matter of taste. Looks like I'm headed to the shallow end here, so lets get this out there. Looks. Yeah, usually the flame of passion is started with the spark of attraction.... I think I just threw up a little in my mouth.... ugh.... anywayz....."I like a full grown woman." I've lived awhile and I have been lucky enough to date a few different amazing (some more than others) women and I know my type. I'm just not into the skinny mini chicks.... but don't fret, plenty of dudes are... click, click, next. So, now that's out there.... hmmm.... I'm a musician and have always been drawn to artsy nerdy girls. My geek credentials are as follows.... I remember seeing star wars in the theater as a kid when I was 4 it was/is amazing. The rebels suck. I refuse to partake in the great star wars vs. star trek debate, they're both amazing franchises and I'm totally psyched to see what JJ does with the new star wars. I do have way more star wars toys on the shelf.... they're silently mocking my 4 year old son who hasn't figured out how to climb bookshelves (i read too!) yet.... I build my own gaming computers for fun. My steam game count is almost to ***which is both amazing and a little sad.... I don't have the time to game as much because I'm waaaay busy in real life. Lately I have been struggling with the notion that I try to do too much and can't devote as much time as I'd like to doing everything as well as I should. I need to simplify. I would like to find a strong woman who has her own life established. I don't have the desire to get involved with someone who is still in the process of getting their life together..... So, yeah.... real life stuff... my highest priority is being the best father I can be. That means living my life in a manner in which my son and parents would be proud. I've undergone some radical changes over the years...I have stories.... lots of stories. Let's just say for now that for me a rut was looking more and more like a grave and I decided to do something about it. I live life and am not merely content to exist... same as you. Oh yeah, the busy busy stuff.... dad = big busy, renovating my house ( I am not looking for a room mate! ), gardening, playing my bass (upright and electric fretted and fretless) ... not in a very active band at this time, but I still practice daily.... riding my motorcycle (NOT a harley), very very zen.... and travelling. I travel for a living and have amazing benefits.... nowhere in the world is inaccessible. Parenthood can make you do some crazy shit.... like live in the suburbs ;) Not a complaint though... I totally dig my ***'s cape and enjoy working on it. Oh yeah, I'm a very, very devoted atheist. I can not see myself getting involved with anyone who belongs to a cult or has cultish beliefs. But if you like the band the Cult, that's super cool. Bands.... I'm on a trip and don't have access to my music collection, but I do have my mp3 player and here are the first 10 bands that pop up on random..... ****in hilarious song! Ironic...), Modest Mouse, Deftones, Fatboy Slim, Rockabye Baby!, Mr. Bungle, crass, Slayer... and one more because this randomness is scary.... Desert Sessions. Hmmm.... I love music.... oh and photography... how could I forget that? I bring my camera everywhere because like I said, I travel for a living and get to see amazing stuff every time I go to work. I couldn't give a sh*tabout so called professional sports....really. Watching a bunch of millionaires play with a ball just seems retarded. I really didn't mean for this word vomit to come across as negative, I'm an optimist by nature, it's just that some of the messages I receive are from sports loving, gun shootin' jesus crispies who live with their parents and, well.... if you took the time to read this late night possibly in-coherent blurb then I've already taken enough of your time. City Museum! Stroll through Laumier. Long ride on our bikes... motorized or otherwise... if we think we could get along well enough to endure the long flight... seriously. pick a safe word and tie each other up.... oh... I see where this is heading.... I better step away from the computer :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

British German Japanese Korean Thai Adult Fantasy Cricket Dirt Bike Racing
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