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Rik, 40

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About Me

I'm a single guy looking for that special someone to be in my life. I work for a bi-state agency as a emergency responder handling fire . emergency medical and service calls. I am also a volunteer firefighter for the last 20 years and the fire chief for the last 8. I am very laid back and enjoy many things from just hanging out to a night out having dinner and some good company. I enjoy many types of music and movies. I like to cook when I have someone to cook for. I have a 4 year old son who is a big part of my life I see him as much as I can, he lives full time with his mother. Can't hurt to ask me some questions find out some more

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Allin

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    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    How does one distill one's entire being into a few text boxes, I mean typical biographies are books that have hundreds of pages...*sigh*.I consider myself an old soul who's young at heart. I am 100% certain that I am 0% sure of most things, and 50% positive that I am 100% right. There, I'm done, can I go home now?I am a fun, interesting, gentleman looking for warm, humorous, adverturesome woman. Ultimately, I would like to find my team mate, my cheerleader, side kick, partner, and co-pilot all wrapped into one.I am not in a hurry, so friends are great too. In the very least, someone to go thrift store shopping with, maybe have a few water balloon fights.I am not in a hurry, so friends are great too. In the very least, someone to go thrift store shopping with, maybe have a few water balloon fights. Someone fun, trustworthy, and dependable.What am I doing with my life?· Learning as much as I can.· Checking off bucket list items.· Finding pleasures in the small things.· Unravelling myself from the American Dream/Nightmare. · Unsubscribing from the status quo.My varied interests include the outdoors/nature, cooking, design, architecture, landscaping, typography, movies, music, travel.I like D.I.Y shows, TLC, Discovery Channel, HGTV, I like to learn. I like creativity.Parks & Recreation, 30 Rock, The Office (both the U.S. and U.K. versions), Portlandia, The I.T...all somewhat intellectual comedies., something relatively low key without distractions. As much as I enjoy the movies, it's probably not the best place to try and get to know someone first time around.You're looking for someone who is intelligent, honest, dashingly handsome, respectful, and fun. Someone who tries to accept their own flaws and the flaws of those around them.I have to say that I disagree with women who display their kids in their pictures. I don't believe that a complete stranger should be allowed to see someone's children until much later.I also think it's somewhat tacky for people to show gigantic margaritas, a line full of shot glasses, etc. What am I to extract from that, that you're bragging about your borderline alcoholism? HA!I've been asked what my "perfect" match would be. No one, in my opinion, has a "perfect" match, we only strive to get close and we make compromises, note I didn't say "settle."

  • Kyle

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    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    So what do I type here that is going so impress you that you just have to meet me???I don't know ... so I will just be honest!I think that I'm guy who's confident most of the time, but has enough humility to know not to quickly pass judgement on others. I value loyalty and honesty. I'm still learning patience ...:) Sometimes people just need to hurry up:) but I'm working on it:)I have a very good sense of humor, sarcastic and silly at the same time. If initial attraction is by looks only ... humor definitely can sustain a relationship. I think what makes me unique ... is that I hear "I've never met a guy like you before" all the time. I think it's my mix of humor, honesty, fairness, and charm that people are drawn too. I think "What you see is what you get" sums it up best. No surprises later on, no games. Just be honest about what you want and what you are looking for and take it from there. I think a first date should be just that ... a first impression of who the other person is. Something simple, but not 15 minutes over coffee. Something that could be spread out over a day. Obviously something we could both enjoy doing. BUT I understand if that if it's clicking, then no need to waste each other's time. Whatever it may be, it would involve you and me, and just having fun getting to know each other:)

  • Gregg

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    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    --bird specials down here!). I'm a fun, easy-going kind of guy who can get along with just about anyone. I enjoy working with kids, love animals, and have a great appreciation for life in general. I love to make people laugh and smile, and I've been told I have a great sense of humor. More importantly though, I'm a good listener with a very big heart. I would have to say that the best first date is one where neither one of you wants the date to end. That's always a great feeling when you spend all that time with someone, and you just can't wait for the second date to begin!

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