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Lake, 40

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About Me

I’m looking for a woman who is comfortable in her own skin, intelligent, and has her own set of beliefs and values. I am looking for someone who will talk to me about problems, so they can be solved. Unless she wants me to just listen, as long as the problem doesn’t concern me. She needs to be active or go to the gym, for her health and my attraction. I go to the gym for likewise. She doesn’t have to be stunning, although I wouldn’t turn away a gorgeous woman ;).I’m looking for an exceptional woman who isn’t defined completely by our culture. She is proficient in the bedroom and understands that being sexy is also an attitude. I’m looking for the love that is expressed through sex. Sex is an expression itself and can take many forms. I want to be free with her and her with me.She is gentle with me, because I am sensitive and intelligent enough to understand her without irritating emphasis. I will always listen to her.I will always try to be in the present moment with her, and it’s something I’m working on. I’m really not looking to get married, because it generally makes people complacent. This, along with other things, kills relationships. However, I might be convinced in time by the right woman.I’m not looking to jump into something serious. I’ve learned that something substantial takes time to build. There are also values given to behaviors and acts that are defined by time. More on that during a date.Whatever you want, please be honest about it. If you’re not sure, expect me to err on the side of caution. I want to go out and have fun, too. And, I don’t want to give the impression that everything has to be serious (as far as I laid out the previous), but I also want to be clear. I don’t want either of us to be hurt.Money is a means to an end—not an end. I work to live. I don’t live to work. I’m satisfied with my job, but it’s not the be all end all of my existence. I might decide to get a better/different one soon. When the time is ripe, I’ll know it. I’m comfortable for now.I’m making new friends here, going out, hosting gatherings, and doing short trips here and there. I have an inexpensive apartment in a great neighborhood. And, I’m thankful for all of it. I like to read from time to time, and I’ve gotten pretty exhausted with our politicians lately. Lately, I’ve been thinking that argument (philosophically) may not be very effective with most people. I have also been studying Zen and emotional intelligence.There’s a whole lot that I’d like to say, but there’s something to be said for actions, as well. The rest can be worked out in time.I like being outdoors, but I also like staying home sometimes. I like almost all styles of music. Generally, I like artists more than styles.Right now, I'm pretty happy living day to day. I've been taking dance classes, and I really enjoy the tango. I really just like dancing altogether, although I'm not sure about the just humping on the dance floor "dance." I'm sure that could be hot at times ;).Anyway, message me, if you'd like to get to know more. I look forward to finding out more about you, as well.2 P. S.es: I'm a Pisces, not a Libra (I'm not going to put my exact birthday online, I'm 40). My sons don't live with me, as well. It's an odd and long story, and I just wanted to be open and honest about my living situation. There's a lot to do around the area, and it's dynamic! So, why don't you message me, and let's talk about it :)?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    I have grown to appreciate the person I have come to be and continue to discover. I would like to find a person that really has a sweet heart, has integrety and brings something to the table. That heart needs to appreciate the rugged. Fun, laughter, adventure, warm relaxation, gung ho, intellect, compassion and someone that smells nice. I really am a sucker for a beautiful woman with beautiful eyes and a walk but I wont be content if there isn' t something special in the inside. "cliche but I am learning,, it is often rare" I am by no means a city slicker. I can wear a lot of hats and a lot of people would say I wear my own hat. I am happy, inspired and fulfilled but I also want to share it with someone that is beautiful and thoughtful.I get along with all types but I cannot tolerate people that play emotional games and that are narcissists. I always have a lot on my plate and I am going in a lot of different directions. I need someone that can accept that I am not a typical 9 to five guy but I do believe I have a heart of gold, a genuine back bone, I am a hard worker, I squeeze the most out of life that I can and without any hidden agendas. My first date?? Good Grief.. When and where and how?? Make it interesting, engaging, fun. Can we please laugh. You can start with laughing at me. but be gentle and have tact. I so appreciate the honesty of making light of awkward and having the skills to make it into something and someone that is comfortable to be in the presence of. If the beautiful and feminine gal has sparkly eyes and is up for climbing a tree on a first date. That is a pretty good indicator that they are a keeper.

  • Arley

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    I can promise you that I will be honest and will not waste your time if I don\'t see the relationship working out for the long term.. Look for same honesty back on me, I want it all to be fair.

  • Matania

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    Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46

    I know it and you know it - this thing is just retarded! No offense to any retarded babes that may be interested. Anyway, If you want to know more about me, then you're going to have to ask. I am a versatile guy with many interests as you can see. I am sweet, loving, loyal and funny - like milk shoots out your nose funny. I am looking for a light-hearted start to an amazing forever.I'm also very curious by nature. Give me something to be curious about and the rest will take care of itself. If I am interested, I will let you know. If you trigger a gag reflex, well... then not so much. Prom

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