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Shanika, 50

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About Me

It is no fun to hang from the chandelier if there is no one to push you.... Looking for new friends. I like to cook, travel, do just about anything outside. Cycling being one of my favorite. Like all food as long as it is not Dead. Unless running or cycling I only wear skirts or dresses, sorry don't have any jeans. I am a girl after all.[twice] and the USVI's....Camping can be as fun as five star....sometimes.Do you like the outdoors and can you have fun doing even simple things. From dishes to Theme Parks.I am hoping to meet someone who,Is tactilewho likes holding handsthat likes laying in grass and watching clouds go bylike's kissing anywhere, outdoors, even in the rainsomeone who likes to laughI am a single mother and very happy with my boys and all they bring into my life.Perhaps I might be someones Miss Right, but am no ones Miss right Now.In the end,am looking for a best friend/Lover... someone to grow old disgracefully with!This seems a necessary evil...... I do not date outside my race. I am not attracted to men that are not height/weight proportionate. I have never been attracted to men with facial hair. It is what it is.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ji

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I\'m honest, trusting, and loyal. If I like something I will tell you. If I don’t like something I will tell you. Not looking for someone to take care of me and or someone else. We all should make it on our own steam.

  • Hiedi

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hey…’t willing to drive here to meet me, don’t bother…I’m not coming to you! If we get past the first meeting, then we can share travel time. I’ve been independent for a very long time and have developed a bit of an attitude about stupid people, please don’t be stupid because I will call you on it. I am NOT looking for a booty call I don’t need this site to get one of those! DO NOT ask me for pics of my body parts! They are spectacular but I'm not sending you pictures or showing you on cam...get a grip and go buy a magazine!!!!Okay…now that those are out of the way I’ll tell you what I want from you. I want honesty, respect, and a partnership. I’m mature enough to know that we both have pasts and some of that baggage will follow, but it shouldn’t define ‘us’. I have no regrets in my life. Everything I’ve done has made me who I am. I wouldn’t change anything because if I did, everything after it would change as well. I want you to always tell me the truth even if it hurts…I can’t change or deal with things I don’t know about. I want you to respect me and what I have to offer our relationship…I’m not dumb or inferior to you in any way. I want a partner…someone who asks my opinion on things that affect ‘us’. I won’t stop you from doing things you want to do, but I want to know about them before you do them. I know that a partnership is not always ***, it’s a give and take, but neither of us should ever feel that we are giving more than we are getting back. I'm not looking for someone to look after me, I've done a pretty good job of that for the last 28 years, and have no intentions of handing over control to someone else. lolIf you’ve made it this far I thank you for reading my profile. I’m hoping this one gets me closer to finding the man that I am looking for. I know he’s here. He just has to trust himself enough to reach out and give happiness a try. There is much more to me but I have to leave something to talk about when we meet. PS If I send you a message it doesn't mean I want to marry you, relax and take what I said as a compliment! F*** some men on here are so full of themselves!!!!! Surprise me! I love surprises!!!!

  • Jodene

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    "Nothing is perfect. Life is messy. Relationships are complex. Outcomes are uncertain. People are irrational." It is one of my favorite quotes. If you never take a chance, wonder what could be, or dare to step out of your comfort zone, you will never reach your potential and will forever stand in the shadow of complacency. My life is a healthy balance between brain power and happy hour ***with the emphasis on happy. Lawyer by day helps feed this Gemini's need for mental stimulation and a challenge. But like any good Gemini, when the buzzer rings, I shed any illusion conservative demeanor prone to most attorneys and reach for the most comfortable pair of jeans and t-shirt I can find. I think what makes me unique is the dichotomy of my person - from unconventional appearance and thoughts to conventional job - from knowledge seeker to mindless TV watcher. I can be outspoken but know when to back down [learned from the best - thanks dad]. I am quirky but playful and sexy, and have been told that my laugh is infectious and should be recorded as a ringtone. Not sure if that is good or bad. I try to make my aspirations come alive in 3-D and I have a penchant for the absurd. My nature is generous, sometimes sassy but I am always first in line to help of stand up for those who matter most in my world. I don't think you want to hear any of those stories just yet - and we can decide what will be a perfect first date for us when and if the time comes.

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