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United States, Indiana, Jasper

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About Me

I`m 53 not 50 not sure what happened there, if I was going to reduce some years, I`d go back to 35 not 50 lol .. Halloween is my favorite day of the year, what other time of year can you dress up, look like a total reject and get away with it? lol This year I plan on being a Rainstorm...hopefully I can pull it off, summer favorite season, not too keen on the bitter cold... brrrrrr however I also enjoy Christmas with the grandkids. About you The most important trait I am looking for is emotionally stableSomeone who can make me laugh, has the ability to communicate about anything. Not afraid to show how he feelsIs happy & content in lifeGreat sense of humour, more off the wall the better Allows me to be me, don't try to control me Is comfortable being himself Open, honest, caring, Doesnt feel a need to discuss bodily functions during meals lolAble to compromise without Jeopardizing your own morals. Stand up for what you believe it but at the same time able to see someone elses point of view. LoyalBelieves that cheating in any form is cheating. be supportive, yet give me your opionions/ideas, thoughts, feelings not afraid to show you careAbout me: I am what I am, nothing more, nothing less. Readers Digest Condensed Version ........All of the above and......Yes I have faults, who doesn't? However I can admit and take responsibilty for them. I don't say things in anger, words cannot be taken back. I work full time so I don't get on here much besides as much as I'd like to meet someone to share things/life with, my life does not evolve around meetville also I have grown kids that have kids of their own, my time is mine to do what I want, when I want, so with that being said I am not interested in someone with younger kids that need to be watched all the time. If that sounds cold & harsh? than I'm not for you, I am outspoken & I don't believe in beating around the bush, I give it straight & I expect the same in return. I will not tolerate bs, lies, cheats or lots of baggage. I believe there is something positive in almost anything if you look. & I try to live by that rule, sometimes I don't succeed, however it doesn't take me long to get back up again. Unlike some women, I`m not a doorknob where everyone gets to take a turn, I`m more like a Casino, where only the lucky ones get to hit the jackpotold fashioned morals, which means, I don't care if we are 2 adults I will not under any circumstances jump into 'bed' with you until there is a trust, a comfort, and some sort of 'bond', Sex is supposed to be 'sacred' between 2 people & I just don't understand how that can be if a person has no self respect and will 'jump' with anyone that happens to 'turn their crank' for a few minutes. If what your looking for is a p.o.a. or a notch on the belt, move on. Long drives to nowheresville, Yes there is a nowwheresville, been there many times :) Yes I talk to myself & I get answers back, scared yet? I usually have a camera with me where ever I go, as I usually see something picture worthy. I can find beauty in a dead tree,its all in perception lol comfy in jeans, skirts, runners or heelslove the beachprefer summer/spring over wintertwisted humor, I can find something funny in almost anything some of my favorite websites are wtf tattoos, people of walmart, jawdrops, notalwaysright.com or just google images lol spontaniousalways open to suggestion for things to do, places to go Have a job I love, and have been a workaholic long enough, time to take some time for me now and get a life. 4 grandkids Music, can't live without my music. enjoy all kinds but rap crapcooking, usually experimental, in all the years I've been cooking I had one really bad experiment and to this day my daughter will not allow me to live it down. lol reading, Divorced since ***, so my baggage has been dealt with, & packed awayCommunication is a huge part of any relationshipI'm confident, I'm happy, I'm not looking for a man to complete me I am complete, however I would like to share my life with someone that cares about me, the way I care about him, to see that 'look' in the eye , to feel that warmth, the closeness & the unity . Definitions: Unless in a relationship, then the meanings change, ask any woman what they prefer to be called when they don't know a man.... Hot: means your looking at a female as a piece of meat Sexy: again a piece of meat Beautiful, means your seeing the woman as she isHowever all definitions still mean you want to ....... ;)Thats it for now, any questions ask. Have a great day/night & happy fishing The first time is not a date, its a meeting, somewhere to talk, get to know each other, if I'm not your cup of tea be honest, I'm a big girl I swear my heart won't be broken & I won't stalk you. lol

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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