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Hey Guys, For your information, I've paid my dues, and I'm ready for some me time. I have raised a son who is now in college. I have worked hard to support him and myself for the last 19 years, and he is now figuring out his life. My goals now are to enjoy the time I have, decide what things I want to achieve, and whom I want to spend it with. I am educated and intelligent. I like to explore local events and see interesting exhibits. I enjoy being active and taking care of myself. I go to the gym 4 to 5 days a week. That’s not to say I don't enjoy the occasional night out with friends laughing and partying! I am open new beginnings being able to enjoy time and sharing thoughts and experiences with like minded people. Perhaps there may be someone that actually meets more than these expectations, but we won't know, I mean I won't KNOW, unless you introduce yourself. I'm not here to play games or have one night stands that's just not me. I'm not into playing head games or drama.I only want to open the door to potential friendship and possibly more if things really feel right. If you are definitely serious about finding a relationship and want to see if we have a connection, send me a note. Good luck and happy fishing! Also please do not send me any obscene pictures I've had my fill. Thanks! Are you tired of the interview meet? I know I am. What can you really tell from a person by the Q & A. You can't tell if you have the same interests or even if you would have fun in another setting. Plus aren't you tired of the same old get a drink, coffee, or dinner? Remember when we were young we didn't plan those kind of dates. We went out and had fun at playing miniature golf, walking a park and taking a picnic, going to see a live band or seeing a sporting event at the event or even at a sports bar. There are countless other fun things to do than what we have now resorted to in the world of on-line dating. Isn't the point of dating having fun meeting people and hopefully finding someone in the process who we have fun with and enjoy his/her company for a LTR? Last time I checked we are not dead yet and time is ticking away, so let's let go of the same old date/meet and have fun with the life we have left. I look forward to hearing from like minded men.Phone app says I'm on line all the time. I do not live on meetville. JUST FOR FUN:Olny 55% of Pepole can raed tihs. I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Azanmig huh?yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt! fi yuo cna raed tihs, palce it in yuor porflie

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elois

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Can't really say what my ideal match would be, but I do know what I don't want .... Liar, Thief, Mooch, Control freak ,Unfaithful, Jealous, Bad Temper, .... HAHA now with that said. I love to laugh, have fun, Dinner in or out, Movies, Quiet time, Dance clubs, I'm usually up for trying just about anything. Just want to meet my best friend and soul mate. So please all you young ones pass on by. : ) Memorable

  • Elfrieda

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I still believe there is that special someone out there for everyone. Mine however, just happens to be hiding really good! Lol A great sense of humor and positive attitude is a MUST! I love to laugh A LOT and have fun in everything I do. I enjoy golf but hate to lose, so if you aren’t good it doesn’t matter as long as you have fun doing it. I like to cross country and downhill ski in the winter….enjoy a good glass of wine at the end of my day. I have a bright young spirit, am comfortable with who I am and know what I want. Love to try new things…be spontaneous, go on new adventures. I want someone who is settled in life and knows what they want.I don’t need anyone to take care of me; I can take care of myself. I want someone to share life with… the victories and well as the defeats. To build me up when needed or talk some sense into me when that may be needed (although I assure you that isn’t often..lol)So…if any of that sounds like you, then come out of hiding and say hello! Meet for a drink...and if conversation goes well...on to dinner!

  • Coretta

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am soon to be a retired combat veteran. WOW.... I never thought would finally get here that I could say that. One chapter closed, looking to start my next chapter. If a man is going to have any interest in me, he needs to know; I love back rubs. Yes. Yes, I do. I cuss when I am mad, sad, frustrated, around other folks in the military, at the cable company, and when the heck I want to. :-) I am very passionate and I get frustrated when life is so unfair. (yes, I know... who said life was fair?)I can shoot, and my favorite date would be a walk in the woods, and target practice. I do love nice restaurants once in a while. It does feel good to splurge on ourselves when we feel like it. I do clean up well. I love to go to fancy dinners on occasion, just to prove I can.... and to eat the shrimp. JK :-) I love CAKE! OMGOSH, I LOVE CAKE! I am a dreamer. I will stamp my foot and shed many tears about the injustices that happen in this world. I will take the time to write many, many letters to those in charge of shit, even though I know it will never do any good. I love hard, and fall fast, but if you screw with me, I will drop you out of my universe so fast you will find yourself in the gamma quadrant. And if you happen to know where the gamma quadrant is, you already get bonus points. I am a serious redneck nerd. I love guns, and walking outdoors, but I also love science and space. I love action movies, but a really great science fiction movie is awesome too! Chic flicks are not my style. I love nature, and I would love to own a little farm one day. Anything ***acres would be nice. BUT, I would be happy with a huge garden -- as long as someone is willing to help. If you are a couch potato, we would never work out. I question EVERYTHING! You will find me reading my Bible, with a copy of a Science Magazine right behind it. I believe if God did not want us to ask questions, why did he give us a brain? Speaking of brain, yes, you must have some education, or some sense of drive to do the best you can in this life! I am a serious A-type girl, and you can either keep up, or get left in my dust. BUT.... AND this is serious, weekends are for beer and bon-fires, and holidays are for eating. I know how to relax. I am tight with my money, but if my cat gets hurt, don't even question me about how much money I spend at the VETs. My cat is one of my kids, has been here longer than you, and I can replace you, but not my cat. End of story. Speaking of kids. I have kids. They come first. Period. I would hope you would be the same. If you are in my life, then you need to know how to burn brush, run a chain saw, mow grass, drink a beer, and know the basics of handy man work. IF I am the only one who knows how to do these things, why do I need you around? :-) Just kidding. Ok... not really. :-) You need clothes WITHOUT holes in them. Even Walmart jeans and Polos are not that expensive. You will not be in the yard with a big hole in your shirt. Do you want me walking around in ugly clothes all the time? Well, it doesn't look good on a man either. Go topless, or change your shirt. Facial hair is acceptable, as long as it looks trimmed and kept. Do I demand a lot from my men? YES! If I am settling for you, then you might be settling for me, and neither one of us should settle.Now dammit, put some jeans on, put on a nice flannel shirt, put your hat on correctly, grab your gun, and lets go on a date. Seriously, on a date, almost anything you want to do will probably be fun to me. (But, NOT Bungy Jumping :-) I have a huge range of interests. Feel free to surprise me. I also like helping in the community. Do you? Maybe we could volunteer at some Saturday morning event. Building a ramp for a Veteran, running/walking a 5K for charity, building a home for Habitat for Humanity. I do like giving back to the community, and it is more fun with a friend. :-) I am not one of these women who are looking for a "free meal" -- Someone actually sent me a message like that once! I am always amazed about how strange humans can be. :-) LOL We can go dutch, or I will even pay! :-) I just like having fun with another grown-up. The first date could be something fun and light. Somewhere we can talk, but not too much pressure to be perfect. I love to listen. So, I will love to hear all your stories. :-) Heck, I will even listen to you about your ex. I just love good stories and a lot of laughter from the daily events of life. :-) I love simple things in life. Zoo? Hot Dogs in the park? Coffee and bagel in the morning? Museums, Scientific Center, fishing, coffee, wine, dinner, picnic, movies, BBQ, fishing, hiking, racing, jumping from a plane (LOL, just seeing if you are reading :-), etc? There are so many things we can do! I can dress up for a party, or dress down for a motorcycle ride in the country. Do these sound good? I like them all. :-) I love all dancing. Including Bachata, Salsa, Merengue, Hip hop, Oldies, Swing, Clog,..... almost anything. If it has a beat, I am willing to try dancing to it. If you can dance, that is awesome! If it is a movie, don't feel the pressure of chic flicks, I will tell you up front a bonus with me... I DO NOT like chic flicks. :-) I have never once watched The Notebook. (YUCK!) :-) Do any of these ideas interest you? Again, I love just about anything. These are only ideas. What do you like to do? Dealers choice? Let's go do it! :-)

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