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Pat, 46

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About Me

Hi! And thanks for stopping by!NOTE: I am NOT looking for a 20 something or 30 something year old man...sorry. NO younger men. I prefer men ***. I am ONLY interested in white men. ALSO, no picture, NO reply.I have a great job with a Judge and I love my job ***years and going strong)I have great friendsI have an outgoing personalityYou give me an inch, I will give you a mileI am down to earthI don't play mind gamesNot looking for a "texting" relationshipLooking for my best friend and who is ready to get off this siteI have been divorced for 8 years-no baggage-took care of that long agoI enjoy grillingHelping others I love doing just about anything outdoorsI love any kind of football (high school,college,pro)I LOVE BEING A "BIG SIS" TO MY 9 YR OLD "LIL SIS" WITH BIG BROTHER/BIG SISTERSI really enjoy working out at 24 Hour Fitness. Joined in January, ***.I love to travel. Just went to NY in September in ***and am going back in May, ***and took my first cruise in Apri of last yearl. I have a passport and I am ready to go again!If you are honestly looking for a great lady who is faithful, fun to be around and is a great friend and good to others and who enjoys doing things at home as well as outside the home. I might be who you are looking for!What am I looking for? Friendship first, without that there is no foundation. Someone who can handle the good and the bad. I am an average built woman. I am currently really riding my bike long distances. I have also ridden the "Hotter N' Hell" bike ride....not once, but twice! I joined 24 Hour Fitness in January, ***and I LOVE going! I workout ***days a week doing Zumba, riding my bike outdoors, or fast passed walking. I would just like to find a mature man, not shallow who can accept me for who I am as I would do the same for you. If you are looking for a woman with the perfect face or the perfect figure, I am not her. I am who I am! I would like to find a man who is financially stable, who can afford to go and try new things. I am not high maintenance, but I want to enjoy going out! I am looking for a christian man. Not overly religous, but someone that believes in God! SOMEONE READY TO SPEND TIME WITH ME.....quality time, I'm not saying being glued to each other as I have a great circle of friends and I'm ok being on my own as well. I would love nothing more then to be a part of a family, as both of my parents are both deceased, and I do not have children of my own or nieces or nephews. Being around a family atmosphere would make me feel so proud.I am not a clingy woman. Looking for someone to enjoy doing things together with, and along with other couples, yet being ok by being apart.I am not looking for a perfect man, but a great man!There is a lot more to know about me! If you are somewhat interested...contact me! A great first date would be going to a nice dinner. Maybe have him surprise me on where we are going!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hello..I am a tall blond with blue eyes. I like travel and adventure, swimming and shopping. I have high standards and I hope you do too. Looking for a professional guy, successful, handsome with a great sense of humor. A good man.Look forward to hearing from you to see if there is a connection, thanks!

  • Lashanda

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Love to golf, go to concerts, watch UFC, see a great movie, whatever. I enjoy entertaining - whether for 30 or 1. I'm looking for a friend first, someone who I have fun with, and someone who is generally happy and likes to get out and enjoy life.I'm looking for someone to curl up with for a great movie, go out to dinner with, make me laugh and generally enjoy the ride with. I have run my own business for over 20 yrs. now and absolutely love it! I work hard and long and am privileged to have that in my life. I'm a mom first, to any and all children, but adult time is definitely a high priority for me. I am a loyal, trusting friend and am looking for the same from a partner.I love a great communicator – someone who is fluent in English and can confidently carry on a great conversation, laced with a bit of sarcasm and humour. If you list "Enjineer" as your occupation and spell it with a "j", we probably aren't a good fit. (I can't count how many times I've honestly seen that on here, lol)Let's go for a drink and see if we can make each other laugh.I haven't been on this site for a few years, so I'm not sure on the etiquette for responding to "someone wants to meet you"? Sorry if I haven't replied.I won't do that *** thing, nothing personal, I'm just not interested in online chatting. If I add you as a Favourite, it means I'm swamped with work, just checking an *** caught my eye. I'll send a note and say hi when I find a few minutes - or better yet, if you are interested as well, please do send me a message. I don't do the coffee date, as a business owner, I do enough of those all day at meetings, and would like to unwind with a glass of wine on a patio, or chill in a pub with a cold pint of Sapporo or Creemore :)

  • Alverta

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I`m 53 not 50 not sure what happened there, if I was going to reduce some years, I`d go back to 35 not 50 lol .. Halloween is my favorite day of the year, what other time of year can you dress up, look like a total reject and get away with it? lol This year I plan on being a Rainstorm...hopefully I can pull it off, summer favorite season, not too keen on the bitter cold... brrrrrr however I also enjoy Christmas with the grandkids. About you The most important trait I am looking for is emotionally stableSomeone who can make me laugh, has the ability to communicate about anything. Not afraid to show how he feelsIs happy & content in lifeGreat sense of humour, more off the wall the better Allows me to be me, don't try to control me Is comfortable being himself Open, honest, caring, Doesnt feel a need to discuss bodily functions during meals lolAble to compromise without Jeopardizing your own morals. Stand up for what you believe it but at the same time able to see someone elses point of view. LoyalBelieves that cheating in any form is cheating. be supportive, yet give me your opionions/ideas, thoughts, feelings not afraid to show you careAbout me: I am what I am, nothing more, nothing less. Readers Digest Condensed Version ........All of the above and......Yes I have faults, who doesn't? However I can admit and take responsibilty for them. I don't say things in anger, words cannot be taken back. I work full time so I don't get on here much besides as much as I'd like to meet someone to share things/life with, my life does not evolve around meetville also I have grown kids that have kids of their own, my time is mine to do what I want, when I want, so with that being said I am not interested in someone with younger kids that need to be watched all the time. If that sounds cold & harsh? than I'm not for you, I am outspoken & I don't believe in beating around the bush, I give it straight & I expect the same in return. I will not tolerate bs, lies, cheats or lots of baggage. I believe there is something positive in almost anything if you look. & I try to live by that rule, sometimes I don't succeed, however it doesn't take me long to get back up again. Unlike some women, I`m not a doorknob where everyone gets to take a turn, I`m more like a Casino, where only the lucky ones get to hit the jackpotold fashioned morals, which means, I don't care if we are 2 adults I will not under any circumstances jump into 'bed' with you until there is a trust, a comfort, and some sort of 'bond', Sex is supposed to be 'sacred' between 2 people & I just don't understand how that can be if a person has no self respect and will 'jump' with anyone that happens to 'turn their crank' for a few minutes. If what your looking for is a p.o.a. or a notch on the belt, move on. Long drives to nowheresville, Yes there is a nowwheresville, been there many times :) Yes I talk to myself & I get answers back, scared yet? I usually have a camera with me where ever I go, as I usually see something picture worthy. I can find beauty in a dead tree,its all in perception lol comfy in jeans, skirts, runners or heelslove the beachprefer summer/spring over wintertwisted humor, I can find something funny in almost anything some of my favorite websites are wtf tattoos, people of walmart, jawdrops, notalwaysright.com or just google images lol spontaniousalways open to suggestion for things to do, places to go Have a job I love, and have been a workaholic long enough, time to take some time for me now and get a life. 4 grandkids Music, can't live without my music. enjoy all kinds but rap crapcooking, usually experimental, in all the years I've been cooking I had one really bad experiment and to this day my daughter will not allow me to live it down. lol reading, Divorced since ***, so my baggage has been dealt with, & packed awayCommunication is a huge part of any relationshipI'm confident, I'm happy, I'm not looking for a man to complete me I am complete, however I would like to share my life with someone that cares about me, the way I care about him, to see that 'look' in the eye , to feel that warmth, the closeness & the unity . Definitions: Unless in a relationship, then the meanings change, ask any woman what they prefer to be called when they don't know a man.... Hot: means your looking at a female as a piece of meat Sexy: again a piece of meat Beautiful, means your seeing the woman as she isHowever all definitions still mean you want to ....... ;)Thats it for now, any questions ask. Have a great day/night & happy fishing The first time is not a date, its a meeting, somewhere to talk, get to know each other, if I'm not your cup of tea be honest, I'm a big girl I swear my heart won't be broken & I won't stalk you. lol

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