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United States, Indiana, Highland

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;My son, there's a battle between 2 wolves inside us all. One is evil, it is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies and ego. The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindess and truth." The boy thought about it and asked, "Grandfather, which wolf wins?" The old man quietly replied, "the one you feed." So, a little about me: I am the oldest of six children. I am close to my family, although I don't get to spend as much time with them as I'd like. I have two daughters, 11 and 12, both are very smart and they do make it all worthwhile. I am passionate, expressive, playful, generous, thoughtful and fiercely protective of friends and family. I am slow to anger, but a good person to have in your corner if you have been treated unfairly and need an advocate. I will not run from a fight, but I believe in choosing my battles. When I love, I love completely and with abandon, much like Ronny and Loretta in "Moonstruck". If you are looking for a playmate only, please don't respond to me. The word "intimate" has nothing to do with sex although many people make the mistake of believing that they are one and the same. True intimacy is the deep connection of two souls, and I won't accept anything less in my next relationship. Some things I like in a man: Honesty for one, for ***, exclusive means that you don't see other women romantically (a duh moment, I know) I like someone who can take charge, without being bossy. Someone who knows enough about cars to hazard a guess as to the cause of a smell or a sound emanating from the engine but doesn't know TOO much. I like a man who will wrap his arms around me and pull me in close when its cold or when I'm sad or worried and make me feel as if the world can't stop spinning as long as his arms are wrapped around me. I like a smart, educated man, that can match wits with me and that realizes I am truly a prize and doesn't take me for granted. I don't need to be catered to or pampered. I do, however, value attention from the man I love and reciprocate gratefully. But you should know that all the things that make me interesting can also make me challenging at times (I've been told) and if you can't handle a strong woman who will challenge you to be your best self, than move on to the next profile. When we meet for the first time, I may be quieter than you are expecting. I will likely listen more than I talk because I want to know what makes you tick and whether together we are a "yes" or a "no". I don't like endless *** phone conversations with men I have not yet sat across a table from although a short initial conversation is totally okay in the beginning. If you have had or still have women in your life with whom you've had on again off again relationships that never really ended, please don't *** used to tell people that I never re-cross a bridge and I didn't really understand why I felt that way. I have discovered that when relationships end, there's a reason, and revisiting those relationships often creates an endless cycle of heartache and dysfunction. I am learning to accept the ends of things and be open to new opportunities. Whether it is physically or emotionally, I strive to be healthier every day, and be true to myself. I know that I'm never going to stop falling in love and that I will always be risking a broken heart. It is a risk that must be taken. I know that when I meet the one I am supposed to be with for the rest of my life, I will continue to fall in love with him every day until I take my last breath. There is no true victory without significant risk. Something casual. Happy hour works well for me....coffee on a Saturday morning...anything that will allow me (and you) to know whether there's a spark.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French Spanish Adventure Drama Golf
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