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Ashlea, 50

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About Me

I feel a need to change my profile, this may seem harsh, but lets make it simple as I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings when I don't write back.1. I have children, do not want to date them. Totally complimented that you 20 somethings want to go out with me, but I'm not into it.2. I am really busy, know that...my interest must be really piqued to go out.3. Wearing sunglases in your profile pic or sitting on your car?4. Do not text message me as a form of communication. If we know one another cool, but I'm not a fan. Make a call , 5. If I don't write you back, it means I'm not interested, I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but please respect my choices as I respect yours.6. I am a bit traditional although I don't look like it.7 I am a single mother of an AWESOME 20 yr old(who lives on her own) and 17 yr old(who lives with me)8. I own a a young and thriving business so again if you get that, you are driven, smart, successful and confident I'm intrigued. Not trying to be a snob, or hurtful just honest.9.And finally, I am a romantic, love LOVE...but how after looking at a picture and one conversation, or date can you fall in LOVE?Love is an action word, being in love is sacred and takes time to see if you are truly in love not fantasy or lust I'm open

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Vicenta

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    ;My son, there's a battle between 2 wolves inside us all. One is evil, it is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies and ego. The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindess and truth." The boy thought about it and asked, "Grandfather, which wolf wins?" The old man quietly replied, "the one you feed." So, a little about me: I am the oldest of six children. I am close to my family, although I don't get to spend as much time with them as I'd like. I have two daughters, 11 and 12, both are very smart and they do make it all worthwhile. I am passionate, expressive, playful, generous, thoughtful and fiercely protective of friends and family. I am slow to anger, but a good person to have in your corner if you have been treated unfairly and need an advocate. I will not run from a fight, but I believe in choosing my battles. When I love, I love completely and with abandon, much like Ronny and Loretta in "Moonstruck". If you are looking for a playmate only, please don't respond to me. The word "intimate" has nothing to do with sex although many people make the mistake of believing that they are one and the same. True intimacy is the deep connection of two souls, and I won't accept anything less in my next relationship. Some things I like in a man: Honesty for one, for ***, exclusive means that you don't see other women romantically (a duh moment, I know) I like someone who can take charge, without being bossy. Someone who knows enough about cars to hazard a guess as to the cause of a smell or a sound emanating from the engine but doesn't know TOO much. I like a man who will wrap his arms around me and pull me in close when its cold or when I'm sad or worried and make me feel as if the world can't stop spinning as long as his arms are wrapped around me. I like a smart, educated man, that can match wits with me and that realizes I am truly a prize and doesn't take me for granted. I don't need to be catered to or pampered. I do, however, value attention from the man I love and reciprocate gratefully. But you should know that all the things that make me interesting can also make me challenging at times (I've been told) and if you can't handle a strong woman who will challenge you to be your best self, than move on to the next profile. When we meet for the first time, I may be quieter than you are expecting. I will likely listen more than I talk because I want to know what makes you tick and whether together we are a "yes" or a "no". I don't like endless *** phone conversations with men I have not yet sat across a table from although a short initial conversation is totally okay in the beginning. If you have had or still have women in your life with whom you've had on again off again relationships that never really ended, please don't *** used to tell people that I never re-cross a bridge and I didn't really understand why I felt that way. I have discovered that when relationships end, there's a reason, and revisiting those relationships often creates an endless cycle of heartache and dysfunction. I am learning to accept the ends of things and be open to new opportunities. Whether it is physically or emotionally, I strive to be healthier every day, and be true to myself. I know that I'm never going to stop falling in love and that I will always be risking a broken heart. It is a risk that must be taken. I know that when I meet the one I am supposed to be with for the rest of my life, I will continue to fall in love with him every day until I take my last breath. There is no true victory without significant risk. Something casual. Happy hour works well for me....coffee on a Saturday morning...anything that will allow me (and you) to know whether there's a spark.

  • Myra

    Online

    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Just looking for a nice guy who I think is attractive. Someone with a good sense of humor, family oriented, to date and have fun with. I like to travel. Love the beach and the mountains, going out to restaurants, movies, weekends away, day trips, etc. Not looking for anything serious right away (you can't just jump right in) but will consider something serious with the right person in time. A little about me...I just retired from a government job after 23 years. Taking some time off and then finding a new career! My girls are grown, 28 and 31 and I have 5 grandchildren ages 13, 12, 9 and my youngest daughter has twin girls that are 2! If I am not what you are looking for I wish you luck! It is a tough dating world. Not looking for perfect, just perfect for me! Just to meet for dinner or drinks. It would of course be different if we weren't meeting on here, but when you don't know someone yet you have to keep it simple!

  • Maile

    Online

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hi there, thanks for stopping by. Like so many others, I am on meetville to hopefully meet someone I genuinely connect with. Has not happened yet, but I remain open to the possibilities. I believe it is important to find someone I connect with, am attracted to, and share some similarities with. I do feel some different interests keep things exciting and I love learning something new.I am looking for a man who believes that true romance still exists, has a sense of adventure, and is willing to to let someone into his his life for more than just a hot minute. Life and people are sometimes less than perfect, but I feel we have to still be open to the possibilities that are out there. I have a kind heart, know how to truly keep a secret, and am fiercely loyal to those I count as friends. I have a grounded, responsible side and a very good job. However, I definitely believe in work/life balance and know how to have fun! I like to listen to live music - and perform. Playing guitar is a passion of mine. I play at open mic when my schedule permits. Yes, I have quoted song lyrics for my headline from a song I really like playing.I totally believe in God and hope you do too! I am a non-smoker and totally NOT into drugs. Looking for the same - just keeping it real. Take a chance here - you just might be pleasantly surprised! Let's go out and have some fun!!**Please do not *** you are not single, available or free of past relationship/emotional attachments. I'm not talking about co-parenting here. It's the personal adult emotional commitment I am talking about. If you are on the rebound or not over an ex, it just will not work for me. Thank you for understanding. Peace. I see the first meeting as more of a meet-n-greet than a date. Let's go somewhere we can talk and get to know each other - coffee shops work well for this. Let's meet and see if there's a connection. Then we can plan the first date! :)

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