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Carlene, 49
United States, Indiana, Highland

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About Me

Below was written a few years ago. Been off for a while....*If you read to the bottom of my profile, you will read MUST NOT BE MARRIED. Separated is married. Please be legally divorced.* Hi! This is my first experience with online dating. I'm a single woman who would love to one day meet my best friend to enjoy life with, long term. I'm smart, independent, (went on an 8 night cruise alone), and from what I'm told, attractive & fun to be around. I'm a girlie girl, but not high maintenance. I'm kind of old fashioned in the sense that I'm not into casual sex, like a lot of people these days. I don't take it lightly. I won't kiss on a first date either. Sometimes not for a couple, but it is worth the wait! LOL I have to feel very comfortable with the man & kissing can be more intimate than sex. I tend to be too trusting & giving with people & have gotten hurt many times because of it. I haven't been able to find a man who is truly honest & doesn't lie or deceive. I'm a very honest & open person, & I expect the same from others. WITHOUT TRUST, YOU HAVE NOTHING. I know the best start for a relationship is friendship, and that is all I'm looking for right now. If the right person comes along, who knows what else. I know I don't NEED a man in my life, but a good companion would make life that much better. I love to socialize & go out dancing. Music is my life & the only kind I really don't care for is Rap & heavy metal. I LOVE COUNTRY music!! I probably listen to it about 85% of the time, so if you hate it or just never listened & won't give it a chance, you're probably not the one for me. (Most guys, I've dated in the past, have ended up liking it) :-) I love the beach & the outdoors in general. I recently experienced snorkeling & am contemplating scuba diving. I haven't experienced a whole lot in my life & would love to try new things. I wanna go on a wave runner, so bad!!!(finally did on 4th of July) I took the boating safety course, but have yet to go. I want to go sailing too! Anyone have either?? LOLI love to go to concerts (usually country) & it would be nice to have someone to go with. Oh yeah, I can't live with a SMOKER, so I won't date one. Also, if you do any kind of DRUGS, (including smoking weed), or are into PORN, including movies, mags, internet, strip clubs, etc, DO NOT CONTACT ME. I do not want or need that in my life. I believe relationships should be one on one, no 3rd parties!!(porn) You can lie about it, but eventually I would find out & it would be over, so please don't waste either of our time. Physical attraction is one of the 3 most important things a couple needs for a relationship to last. I am not attracted to overweight & I also don't date outside my own race. The first thing I notice are eyes & smile. :-) A great smile is a big turn on. Another of the 3 most important things is having the same spiritual beliefs. You don't have to be a religious fanatic, but I do believe in God & if you truly don't, please don't contact me. I know what I DON'T want. I'm NOT SETTLING this time around. I'm not desperate nor in a hurry. Good things come to those who wait & sometimes when you least expect it..... Random thoughts: Why do men find it necessary to put that they are interested in sex, great sex, etc? Isn't that a given???? Whatever happened to good old MAKING LOVE to someone you LOVE???***Girls***are like apples***on trees. The best ones***are at the top of the tree.***The men don't want to reach***for the quality ones because they ***are afraid of falling and getting hurt---Instead, they just get the rotten apples***from the ground that aren't as tasty, --but easy. So the apples at the top think-something is wrong with them, when in---reality, they're quality. They just***have to wait for the right one to***come along, the one who's***smart enough to***climb all***the way***to the top***of the tree!***Btw, I "borrowed" that from a guy's profile.-IMPORTANT BULLETIN: NO CLASS / WARPED, TO POST WITH YOUR KIDS ON THIS SITE WHERE POTENTIAL PREDATORS LURK. KIDS SHOULD NOT BE USED AS SALES TOOLS TO MARKET YOURSELF,NO MATTER HOW CUTE THEY ARE!. PLEASE PETITION meetville TO CHANGE THEIR POLICY ON POSTINGS WITH CHILDREN TO AT LEAST MASK OUT THEIR FACES IF POSTED. FOR WIDER COVERAGE OF THIS MESSAGE, PLEASE COPY & PASTE INTO YOUR OWN PROFILE...THANKS..(Just as I did:) I'm pretty easy going, so just about anything would do. It would be better in an atmosphere where it's easy to talk & get to know each other....******Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one .

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Korean Portuguese South American Action Family & Kids Music Outdoor Hobbies
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