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Kum, 47
United States, Indiana, Hagerstown

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Bonus if you know where my headline came from. A little about me: I've been told I'm intelligent, sweet, smart and funny and I believe it. I'm also pretty much a music fanatic, especially Alt Rock, but I love all genres so going out and exploring the music scene is one of my favorite things to do. I also like to go to the theater and movies, (I love the arts in general), cook, dine out, shoot pool & play darts, go to sporting events and I have a penchant for most things "Nerd" or "Geek". I am also financially responsible, live on my own and yes I own a car so I am looking for a man who is financially responsible as well. I am also working on getting in better shape so it would be nice to find someone I could work out with from time to time all though it's not a deal breaker. I am on the curvy side of the fence, but not overtly so, I have great legs and pretty nice backside if I do say so myself. ;)Like most women, I'd love to meet a guy who is intelligent, funny, compassionate, sweet, generous and laid back and of course someone who has some common interests but the most important thing is chemistry and connection. Those adjectives I just sprouted won't mean much with out a good mental, emotional and physical connection. Speaking of which, physically all I can tell you is that I prefer guys who are on the tall side (5'9 or taller) and guys that look on the young side like I do. As far as body type, it's more about how a man carries himself and that he takes a little pride in his health and appearance than his body type so there is definitely no need to be a gym rat. Lastly, I'm looking to be friends with someone as well as romance. To me that is someone you have mutual respect, caring and admiration for, someone you share common interests with and have FUN with and someone who has your back no matter what. Someone who wants to spend time with you and who wants to see you happy. Throw in some chemistry and sexual attraction and voila', you have yourself the potential for a great relationship. One thing I really miss doing is cuddling up with a good guy in front of a movie or listening to some music and just relaxing into him. I can't think of a better way to spend a cool fall or winter's day. Interested? Do you think we might connect? If so, send me a message. I'd love to meet a guy like you. First MEETING, I like to do a half an hour for coffee (or something equally casual) and if all goes well, then we can talk about a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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