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Mallie, 50

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About Me

All I'm really trying to do is to live the best life I can, make some friends along the way, and maybe make a difference. I live very simply. I just appreciate all I have and don't want for much. Having said that, I do enjoy indulgences from time to time, like my yearly 2 day retreat. (My profile picture was taken on October 27, ***while relaxing and reconnecting with me.) I am a nurse by profession, which means I am a nurturer to a fault, and sometimes I forget to take care of me. So, I escape from time to time to just "be". Not many can understand that. But they don't have to. It makes me a better person and I understand it. I am a contradiction on most days, and as a Gemini, sometimes hard to keep up with. I don't apologize for being me, but will apologize for how that may make you feel at times. I am honest and I am loyal. My favorite quote is from my favorite film, The Shootist: "I won't be wronged. I won't be insulted. I won't be laid a hand on. I don't do these things to others and I require the same in return."I do believe people can change under extraordinary circumstances and those circumstances cannot be imposed by another person. So, no, I don't try to change people. I accept them for who they are and hope they accept me for who I am. That doesn't mean I wouldn't want to be a better friend or lover. I just know that expectations can really ruin a relationship.I like a man who is polite and protective, but understands that while I am a strong and independent woman, sometimes I need and WANT to be taken care of. Not in a materialistic sort of way. there's a difference between taking CARE of me, and taking care of ME. He can expect the same in return. I want someone who can share some of my interests, but also introduce me to his. It's okay if we disagree, respectfully. But just as I'll try his activities at least once (twice to be fair in my assessment), I like him to try mine as well. So for my favorites that are kind of non-negotiable, I mean, real deal breakers...; Orders, CSIs, NCIS, Criminal Minds, etc.), and spontaneous drives on beautiful days with the top down and no particular place to go. I'm also a fan of experimenting with food, flea markets, tourist traps, and sleep with windows open and the fire roaring on a cool night. My perfect match will be mature enough to respect boundaries. I am interested in a long term relationship but am in no hurry to get there. I don't give out my phone number after one ***, but I also don't like to engage in endless *** text messages. I pay a hefty sum to Verizon to talk on the phone and prefer that method of communication once we've agreed we'd like to talk to get to know each other a little before we set up a "date".If any of this sounds interesting, why not ***? An *** a response; winks do not. I still can't believe I'm doing this.;call the LAFD"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Carine

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am an energetic, positive, passionate and independent woman. I see life from "the glass is half full" perspective. I live a healthy lifestyle, (except I do have a sweet tooth and I love my coffee!). I take care of myself physically and I love to workout on a regular basis. I am not a supermodel, but I am attractive and fit. I try not to take myself or life too seriously. I can be feisty, sarcastic, playful and rebellious! I'm sociable and enjoy being around people, but I also need to recharge my battery with down-time at home. I believe that communication is an essential part of a healthy relationship. . I have overcome plenty of trials and tribulations and I have learned and grown from my experiences. I live a balanced life. I know who I am today and I'm comfortable in my own skin. I have two wonderful college-aged kids that are my pride and joy. My biggest accomplishment in life has been to raise my children and watch them grow into incredible young adults. I have an amazing job which I thoroughly enjoy. I love learning and I'm not just a teacher, but a life-long student. I am passionate about travel, language, and discovering different cultures. There are so many countries to explore and so little time to do it! Volunteering and being of service to others is also an important part of my life. I'm searching for a friend,companion, lover and ultimately a committed, long term, monogamous partner with mutual values to share this journey with. I would love to share my passion for travel with the special man in my life. Life is so much sweeter when it's shared with someone you love!If you can identify with my profile and you like what you see, send me an *** not, best of luck on your search. Either way, enjoy the process! Let's meet somewhere outdoors to get to know each other and see if there's mutual chemistry between us. A walk at the beach or bay, a hike, or we can play 20 questions at Starbucks!

  • Lovie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm open to trying all activities, and love to be shown new things. I also have many activities of my own that I'd love to share - scuba diving, sailing, hiking, camping, golf, skiing, and travel. Plus I love outdoor dining/people watching. Farmer's markets, wine-tasting, beer festivals, movies, concerts. I like coffee more than tea, but still like tea. Dogs over cats, but still like cats. Red wine over white wine, but still...no, on that one I have to stay firm - I only like red. ;-) Goals and aspirations? Well, I'm not that goal driven (which is NOT to say I'm aimless and shiftless***I just enjoy making the most out of time here, treating people well, and am perfectly content if I don't change the course of the world. World-changers never seem all that happy. I really don't like it, but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, so I won't say anything about it. But it clouds my ability to bond with someone. No preference as long as everyone is nice. :-)

  • Natalia

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Dear universe, show me a sign, a clue where my life partner may be???? It is a big world out there.To my love: my promise to you is a lifetime of togetherness. I will be loving, understanding, and will embrace you with my whole heart My first date could be anything from a cup of coffee to dinner.

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