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Mallie, 50
United States, Indiana, Greensburg

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About Me

All I'm really trying to do is to live the best life I can, make some friends along the way, and maybe make a difference. I live very simply. I just appreciate all I have and don't want for much. Having said that, I do enjoy indulgences from time to time, like my yearly 2 day retreat. (My profile picture was taken on October 27, ***while relaxing and reconnecting with me.) I am a nurse by profession, which means I am a nurturer to a fault, and sometimes I forget to take care of me. So, I escape from time to time to just "be". Not many can understand that. But they don't have to. It makes me a better person and I understand it. I am a contradiction on most days, and as a Gemini, sometimes hard to keep up with. I don't apologize for being me, but will apologize for how that may make you feel at times. I am honest and I am loyal. My favorite quote is from my favorite film, The Shootist: "I won't be wronged. I won't be insulted. I won't be laid a hand on. I don't do these things to others and I require the same in return."I do believe people can change under extraordinary circumstances and those circumstances cannot be imposed by another person. So, no, I don't try to change people. I accept them for who they are and hope they accept me for who I am. That doesn't mean I wouldn't want to be a better friend or lover. I just know that expectations can really ruin a relationship.I like a man who is polite and protective, but understands that while I am a strong and independent woman, sometimes I need and WANT to be taken care of. Not in a materialistic sort of way. there's a difference between taking CARE of me, and taking care of ME. He can expect the same in return. I want someone who can share some of my interests, but also introduce me to his. It's okay if we disagree, respectfully. But just as I'll try his activities at least once (twice to be fair in my assessment), I like him to try mine as well. So for my favorites that are kind of non-negotiable, I mean, real deal breakers...; Orders, CSIs, NCIS, Criminal Minds, etc.), and spontaneous drives on beautiful days with the top down and no particular place to go. I'm also a fan of experimenting with food, flea markets, tourist traps, and sleep with windows open and the fire roaring on a cool night. My perfect match will be mature enough to respect boundaries. I am interested in a long term relationship but am in no hurry to get there. I don't give out my phone number after one ***, but I also don't like to engage in endless *** text messages. I pay a hefty sum to Verizon to talk on the phone and prefer that method of communication once we've agreed we'd like to talk to get to know each other a little before we set up a "date".If any of this sounds interesting, why not ***? An *** a response; winks do not. I still can't believe I'm doing this.;call the LAFD"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Stefany from Greensburg | Woman | 48 years old | Virgo
    Stefany

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I love life... a lot! Whether it be hiking through the back canyons to escape the cacophony of the city or strapping on some dancing heels and strutting to some tunes, I always try to keep in mind that life is short and I'm blessed to be here enjoying it. I'm a great conversationalist in that I can hold my own, yet I know how to listen. I have a rather ribald sense of humor inherited from my dad and love to trade witty repartee with a like individual. I do have two self sufficient older teens and a menagerie of animals which keep my life full and interesting. I'm seeking a man who has similar qualities yet can bring something different to the mix. I enjoy a man who is confident and funny and is searching for a strong woman who will complement him. Honor and integrity are important qualities I feel completes a well rounded man. I'm open to stepping beyond previous boundaries and stretching my imagination in regards to my ideal man... I don't want to box myself in with a huge list of must haves! Thanks for taking the time to read this far... so take a few more minutes and send a message!One of my favorite quotes: “Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for MeaningBy the bye... That arm in my Ren pic is a Ren buddy... NOT an ex! Trying to describe a first date is difficult because each meeting should be tailored to the people meeting. I'm open to whatever ideas come up in the initial contact. Who knows?? It could be something crazy like a tandem bike ride or something sweet and mundane like a cup of coffee!

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  • Abbie from Greensburg | Woman | 46 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am outgoing but can be quiet until I am comfortable or get to know those I am with. I have a wicked sense of humor, and love to be around those that have humor and a great personality. Ok, to prove my point I just got back from attending my first Comic Con event in San Deigo w/my son. WOW, that was unique and so much fun! ****After reading my profile can you tell me which part of this my profile true and what part I made up? Good Luck!I enjoy car shows (classic muscle cars and hot rods) , farmers markets, hiking, swimming, reading (when I have some down time), camping ** , spending time at the beach, Barbequing, baking, traveling to new places I haven’t been, history and getting a glimpse into another time. I prefer wine over beer or give me a mixed drink. And also prefer my guys clean cut and shaven…. When their hair is longer than mine, umm, no thanks . ;-)** And yes, I do enjoy camping with a few exceptions like working restrooms... sorry I don't enjoy using the tree to the left… as I no longer get paid for that kind of camping anymore. =) There are times when I will pack an overnight bag (yes only 1, I learned from my time in the military) and decided to pick a direction and hit the road and check out something new or different. I’ve learned life can be short so it’s time to enjoy it and let the adventures begin. I am in a management position and work a typical 8:***:30. My work side of me is so much different than my personal side. One of my staff has actually said that they think that I’m “” by day and “Lady GaGa” by night… funny thing is I’m not a fan of GaGa, but she actually had a point. ;-) I’d be happy to explain more about what they meant if you’re curious – just ask.I am a strong lady and in all honesty (which probably will work against me) I I am not looking for some to “complete me” but rather someone to enhance my life and add to it and share it. If that works for you that is wonderful. I am not looking for a quick hook-up, I’ve had enough offers. I am passionate about many things in my life and can take strong stances when I feel it’s important. If you think you can handle a strong woman and would like to get out and explore than send me a message, I’d love to hear from you. Hmm, maybe a quick coffee or drink to see if its a mutual feel and if so plan a lunch, a walk in a park, the Zoo... or something to be played by ear.

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  • Yung from Greensburg | Woman | 50 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    ***UPDATE*** store,preferably) and has a sense of "some kind" of style...well groomed from head to toe (and anything in between)...cares about his appearance, as do I (at least in public, lol)and wears clothes that fits his body (not 5 sizes bigger).....is that too much to ask ? Sure hope not because that is very attractive and appealing to me...always has been ;^)Well, for now I'm just going say this....I want to find a man who is willing to invest his time to see if something can develop between us. It does take some time to find that out and of course there has to be SOME kind of physical attraction and as I call it PERSONALITY (emotional, mental) attraction. Eventually I want to be in a loving relationship, so you must be open for that possibility. God, family and friends are very important to me.I have younger children so I need you to like/love kids. I am very open and willing to discuss just about anything so feel free to ask as I will ask you also.I want to experience more outdoor stuff than I have in my life now. I love all kinds of genre of music such as Jazz, R n B, Hip Hop, Blues, Old School certain Rock and even Christian Rock as I do attend Church but haven't been going enough recently, my bad...need my spiritual feeding..it's where I draw my strength from.I'm a very loving woman and loyal to a fault (with the right man) and I want/need the same from him.I want to believe that there is a wonderful,romantic,loving,funny,family man still out there for ME...I love romance 3Well,that's it for now. We can go into detail when we speak. God bless you in your search & life. ;^)WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. ***\\***Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Or whom maybe suffering from it***\\\***and say a little prayer !!***Women***are like apples***on trees. The best ones***are at the top of the tree.***The men don't want to reach***for the good ones because they ***are afraid of falling and getting hurt---Instead, they just get the rotten apples---from the ground that aren't as good, --but easy. So the apples at the top think-something is wrong with them, when in---reality, they're amazing. They just***have to wait for the right man to***come along, the one who's***brave enough to***climb all***the way***to the top***of the tree!***

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