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Mallie, 50

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About Me

All I'm really trying to do is to live the best life I can, make some friends along the way, and maybe make a difference. I live very simply. I just appreciate all I have and don't want for much. Having said that, I do enjoy indulgences from time to time, like my yearly 2 day retreat. (My profile picture was taken on October 27, ***while relaxing and reconnecting with me.) I am a nurse by profession, which means I am a nurturer to a fault, and sometimes I forget to take care of me. So, I escape from time to time to just "be". Not many can understand that. But they don't have to. It makes me a better person and I understand it. I am a contradiction on most days, and as a Gemini, sometimes hard to keep up with. I don't apologize for being me, but will apologize for how that may make you feel at times. I am honest and I am loyal. My favorite quote is from my favorite film, The Shootist: "I won't be wronged. I won't be insulted. I won't be laid a hand on. I don't do these things to others and I require the same in return."I do believe people can change under extraordinary circumstances and those circumstances cannot be imposed by another person. So, no, I don't try to change people. I accept them for who they are and hope they accept me for who I am. That doesn't mean I wouldn't want to be a better friend or lover. I just know that expectations can really ruin a relationship.I like a man who is polite and protective, but understands that while I am a strong and independent woman, sometimes I need and WANT to be taken care of. Not in a materialistic sort of way. there's a difference between taking CARE of me, and taking care of ME. He can expect the same in return. I want someone who can share some of my interests, but also introduce me to his. It's okay if we disagree, respectfully. But just as I'll try his activities at least once (twice to be fair in my assessment), I like him to try mine as well. So for my favorites that are kind of non-negotiable, I mean, real deal breakers...; Orders, CSIs, NCIS, Criminal Minds, etc.), and spontaneous drives on beautiful days with the top down and no particular place to go. I'm also a fan of experimenting with food, flea markets, tourist traps, and sleep with windows open and the fire roaring on a cool night. My perfect match will be mature enough to respect boundaries. I am interested in a long term relationship but am in no hurry to get there. I don't give out my phone number after one ***, but I also don't like to engage in endless *** text messages. I pay a hefty sum to Verizon to talk on the phone and prefer that method of communication once we've agreed we'd like to talk to get to know each other a little before we set up a "date".If any of this sounds interesting, why not ***? An *** a response; winks do not. I still can't believe I'm doing this.;call the LAFD"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Selene

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a very active,upbeat,spicy, creative,down to earth,fun loving woman who loves to laugh and live life to the fullest . I enjoy being outdoors & love nature and surround myself with beautiful things we are so blessed to have on this earth. Having a good attitude and living a healthy lifestyle is extremely important to me and should be for you as well. I am into working out, walking, hiking and just started doing yoga and meditation....I am looking to meet someone to share and enjoy life with and build a future together with. Someone who is Outdoorsy, healthy and fit, intelligent,stable,kind, loyal, funny and has a good sense of humor. Someone who likes to laugh,and have great conversation. Family kind of guy. I love adventure and have an entrepreneur spirit who is into traveling, road trips, exploring, spiritual developement, going to the beach,camping, boating taking long walks. I also enjoy Art, Fashion, Music, Dancing, Shopping for antiques/vintage items, going out to the theater and concerts.. I am also very content just staying home and cooking for others, crafting and working on home projects. I enjoy spending time with my friends and family and do a little gardening which keeps me very busy. I have raised two awesome kids and they are still a huge part of my life. If you want to know more just ask me..If you think we could have a good connection and would like to meet ... message me. Meet for coffee or a drink and determine if there is a mutual interest. If there is a connection then we should go out on a second date. I would prefer to go to lunch or dinner.

  • Bianca

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm a positive person by nature....so I will make an attempt to stay positive about online dating. I'm positive I'm not going to lose faith and I'm going to keep trying cause I'm only looking for one. I just wish the pond was a little smaller. lol. I'm starting to feel like the little engine that could. "I think I can. I think I can." ;-)I'm not going to put it all out here, cause I have found that most don't read it anyway... But, I'm an open book. If you ***, I will answer your questions IF I'm interested. No bad feelings intended, I just don't want to waste anyone's time. But PLEASE know that I'm not interested in men that are separated or recently divorced (less than a year). Drama always follows these situations in one form or another and I treasure my peaceful existence. :-)

  • Shirley

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    After having written (and re-written) several of these little informational essays, I find that it would be so much easier to sort of make a list. Something stream-of-consciousness like this: I’m very smart, I’m always cold, I drive in silence often, I forget to eat when I’m working, I snort when I laugh, I’m really clumsy, I love to lie on the couch and read a book, I’’’d rather clean up than cook, I’m often like the absent--Gos, Stevie Wonder, Snow Patrol, and the Lady herself... Ga-Ga), and also I love my friends, my family and my life. There, so much easier.As for detailing what I'm looking for...maybe I should make a list that too:Please be intelligent; please take good care of yourself; please don’t eat a lot of fast food; please bathe at least once a day; please have a working knowledge of pop culture before ***; please don’t ***, Twitter, or be *** minutes; please be articulate; please be able to laugh at yourself; please don’t pick your teeth, your nose, your ears or your butt in public (or - dare I say it - habitually "rearrange" yourself either); please...having teeth is NOT optional!; please like to dance - anything from Salsa to Line dancing; please enjoy singing in the car or at least tolerate it when I do it; please be generous of heart mind, and spirit; please don't throw like a girl; please understand that being an avid reader - to me - means reading a novel, not a magazine; please have good table manners; please be liberal; please don't mind getting your hands dirty; please say please…and thank you.Oh, and also: please think the sun rises and sets on me (What? A little too much?). I'll do the same for you ;)UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES IS THE INFORMATION OR PHOTOS CONTAINED IN THIS PROFILE TO BE USED IN ADVERTISING, PROMOTION, BY meetville OR ANY OTHER ENTITY*** WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies,projects or any other uses-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. -It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

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