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Mallie, 50

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About Me

All I'm really trying to do is to live the best life I can, make some friends along the way, and maybe make a difference. I live very simply. I just appreciate all I have and don't want for much. Having said that, I do enjoy indulgences from time to time, like my yearly 2 day retreat. (My profile picture was taken on October 27, ***while relaxing and reconnecting with me.) I am a nurse by profession, which means I am a nurturer to a fault, and sometimes I forget to take care of me. So, I escape from time to time to just "be". Not many can understand that. But they don't have to. It makes me a better person and I understand it. I am a contradiction on most days, and as a Gemini, sometimes hard to keep up with. I don't apologize for being me, but will apologize for how that may make you feel at times. I am honest and I am loyal. My favorite quote is from my favorite film, The Shootist: "I won't be wronged. I won't be insulted. I won't be laid a hand on. I don't do these things to others and I require the same in return."I do believe people can change under extraordinary circumstances and those circumstances cannot be imposed by another person. So, no, I don't try to change people. I accept them for who they are and hope they accept me for who I am. That doesn't mean I wouldn't want to be a better friend or lover. I just know that expectations can really ruin a relationship.I like a man who is polite and protective, but understands that while I am a strong and independent woman, sometimes I need and WANT to be taken care of. Not in a materialistic sort of way. there's a difference between taking CARE of me, and taking care of ME. He can expect the same in return. I want someone who can share some of my interests, but also introduce me to his. It's okay if we disagree, respectfully. But just as I'll try his activities at least once (twice to be fair in my assessment), I like him to try mine as well. So for my favorites that are kind of non-negotiable, I mean, real deal breakers...; Orders, CSIs, NCIS, Criminal Minds, etc.), and spontaneous drives on beautiful days with the top down and no particular place to go. I'm also a fan of experimenting with food, flea markets, tourist traps, and sleep with windows open and the fire roaring on a cool night. My perfect match will be mature enough to respect boundaries. I am interested in a long term relationship but am in no hurry to get there. I don't give out my phone number after one ***, but I also don't like to engage in endless *** text messages. I pay a hefty sum to Verizon to talk on the phone and prefer that method of communication once we've agreed we'd like to talk to get to know each other a little before we set up a "date".If any of this sounds interesting, why not ***? An *** a response; winks do not. I still can't believe I'm doing this.;call the LAFD"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Wildcherry

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-46

    Hi! My name is Wildcherry. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Greensburg, Indiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Gaby

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm forty somethin...feel 30 somethin...and want a man who is the same :) I'm really much better in person, but I'll do my best to show you who I am in writing...I'm outgoing and easily make friends...I have a huge heart (willing to share lol) and I can have fun doing almost nothing with the right person. I don't mind a guy who is a little shy or quiet at first, as long as he has a sense of humor and a great personality underneath it all. I promise you will have fun when we spend time together!! Although I have lots of energy and can keep up just fine with my younger friends and family, I have a relaxed side too...I equally enjoy going out for sushi, going out dancing (to hip hop - haha, I'm serious, I love dancing to that!!), concerts in the park, backyard barbeques, out to the movies, golf...(well, minitiature golf, but I would love to learn how to play the real thing...will you teach me?!!), and kicking back at home to take in a movie or watch a football game with you - we can cuddle on the couch, or have a bunch of friends over to watch the game - I'm good either way!! I want somebody who's not afraid to cut loose and have a good time...we don't have to be serious all the time just because we're 40 something!! But at the same time, I want to be able to just relax and hang out at your house or mine sometimes and enjoy each other's company. I like to listen to all kinds of music...not a fan of constant country music or oldies tho...if you are, you may have to work hard to get me to enjoy it - I'll try, but no guarantees!! Again, I want somebody who's fun, not necessarily the life of the party, but somebody with "life" in them!! I like tall guys, 5 ft 10 in or more, but I'd never say no to someone not quite that tall if they had beautiful eyes, or a great smile...the most important thing to me, other than the obvious which is that we have chemistry and a natural attraction, is that we enjoy one another and the time we spend together. This is a *** who I truly am...if it appeals to you contact me...If not, we probably wouldn't be a good match anyway so no worries :) On a first date I'd like to meet you for a drink or coffee and see where it goes from there...BTW I'm not looking for a pen pal, I want a real live man lol...so I'd rather meet you sooner than later to see if there's any attraction and chemistry between us vs messaging back n forth for weeks on end. If you've been on here for a month or more you probably know exactly what I mean ;)WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

  • Francis

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I have been on meetville for a little over a year now. In that time I have drawn some conclusions about some of the men on the site.... Before I dish, let me also say that I have met some wonderful men and made a few great friends. It has been a nice way to get to know some very awesome guys, share some of Life's experiences and hear from a different perspective. That being said, some of the men on this site think that meetville means Plenty of Flesh.... I'm not a prude but I won't text any naked pictures. I've also noticed that some men are pretty impressed with their toys (4 wheeled, 2 wheeled and engines in general), their work out routines/bodies and their trophies (both the 4 legged and 2 legged varieties). Vehicles, sports and the gym are fine as Hobbies but if they are your LIFE you don't have time for anything else. This does not impress me. The words "shallow" and "self absorbed" come to mind.I am single, employed, financially responsible and raising 3 awesome kids. They are 19, 17 and 14 so while they are still my number one priority, they are getting more independent daily. Live music, cooking from scratch, spontaneous road trips, meeting new people and trying new things excite me. I love to read (almost anything), garden, dance, be in the woods and in the water, watch movies (I don't have cable and I don't game), laugh (I'm very comfortable laughing at myself) and hang out with friends and family. I am passionate, romantic, sexy and confident.I don't believe that a man and a woman have to spend all of their time together, like all the same activities, foods or people, or agree on all issues. I DO believe that a man and a woman need to respectfully communicate, be honest with each other, trust and accept each other for who they are. It's obvious that there are many single men and many single women looking for that one person to build a special relationship with. I don't believe in Soul Mates, relationships that 'just happen; fall into place; or are easy'. I DO believe that intimate relationships are a vitally important part of a Life fully enjoyed and lived. Best of luck to all Fishermen.Love has more to do with the person you become in its presence than it does with anything else. You must always be yourself, honest and true. I think a first date should be casual and relaxed. No worries over being over or under dressed. Not a movie or concert - too loud to talk. Suggestions? Extra points for creativity.

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