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Mallie, 50

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All I'm really trying to do is to live the best life I can, make some friends along the way, and maybe make a difference. I live very simply. I just appreciate all I have and don't want for much. Having said that, I do enjoy indulgences from time to time, like my yearly 2 day retreat. (My profile picture was taken on October 27, ***while relaxing and reconnecting with me.) I am a nurse by profession, which means I am a nurturer to a fault, and sometimes I forget to take care of me. So, I escape from time to time to just "be". Not many can understand that. But they don't have to. It makes me a better person and I understand it. I am a contradiction on most days, and as a Gemini, sometimes hard to keep up with. I don't apologize for being me, but will apologize for how that may make you feel at times. I am honest and I am loyal. My favorite quote is from my favorite film, The Shootist: "I won't be wronged. I won't be insulted. I won't be laid a hand on. I don't do these things to others and I require the same in return."I do believe people can change under extraordinary circumstances and those circumstances cannot be imposed by another person. So, no, I don't try to change people. I accept them for who they are and hope they accept me for who I am. That doesn't mean I wouldn't want to be a better friend or lover. I just know that expectations can really ruin a relationship.I like a man who is polite and protective, but understands that while I am a strong and independent woman, sometimes I need and WANT to be taken care of. Not in a materialistic sort of way. there's a difference between taking CARE of me, and taking care of ME. He can expect the same in return. I want someone who can share some of my interests, but also introduce me to his. It's okay if we disagree, respectfully. But just as I'll try his activities at least once (twice to be fair in my assessment), I like him to try mine as well. So for my favorites that are kind of non-negotiable, I mean, real deal breakers...; Orders, CSIs, NCIS, Criminal Minds, etc.), and spontaneous drives on beautiful days with the top down and no particular place to go. I'm also a fan of experimenting with food, flea markets, tourist traps, and sleep with windows open and the fire roaring on a cool night. My perfect match will be mature enough to respect boundaries. I am interested in a long term relationship but am in no hurry to get there. I don't give out my phone number after one ***, but I also don't like to engage in endless *** text messages. I pay a hefty sum to Verizon to talk on the phone and prefer that method of communication once we've agreed we'd like to talk to get to know each other a little before we set up a "date".If any of this sounds interesting, why not ***? An *** a response; winks do not. I still can't believe I'm doing this.;call the LAFD"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Wavesofgrain

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-48

    Hi! My name is Wavesofgrain. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Greensburg, Indiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Livia

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm a happy, positive person! I genuinely enjoy life and I embrace it head on no matter the blessing or challenge. I also have enough self respect that you won't find sexy photos here; those are reserved for the man I choose to be with.Eating healthy and being active are important aspects of my life. Does that mean that I don't occasionally treat myself to dessert or that I'm in the gym every day? No. I seek a healthy balance every day. My preferences are outdoor activities such as walking, jogging, running, swimming, light day hikes, bicycle riding at the beach, spending time at the park playing volleyball (you also might find me on the swings or going down the slide too! I'm very young at heart and I like to have fun.) I have a great sense of humor--I'm very playful and maybe even a little goofy; I'm open-minded and big on communication; I'm easy-going and don't make mountains out of molehills. My perspective on life is that it is meant to be lived with an adventurous and inquisitive spirit. Each day is an opportunity to right wrongs, learn lessons, be kind to others, and leave a positive impact on those we meet. It's all about choices: we are never too busy for the people or tasks we choose to make a priority. I already love my life as it is but I know it will be enhanced when shared with the man I'm compatible with. Everyone has an off day, but we are a great match if at the heart of who you are is fun, fit, happy, confident, loyal, honest, kind, hard-working, humorous, faith/family/friend-oriented, full of integrity, spontaneous, affectionate, a great kisser, as well as healthy in mind, body, and spirit. All these things, and more, encapsulate what I have to offer. I like who I am when I'm in a relationship versus casually dating because I can truly be me and give my all uninhibited. Of course we have to start somewhere and that means dating so we can get to know each other; however, once we have some dates under our belt, the perfect day starts with us enjoying the outdoors, cooking dinner or ordering takeout, and curling up together on the couch to watch a movie...but the best part is when we enjoy each other's company so much that the movie doesn't get watched. (Hey now, where did your mind just go?! We might not get to watch the movie because we are talking so much.) LOL! ;- Oh, one more thing...wait for it...this seems to be very important to you guys...I have no drama! Hahaha, sorry, I couldn't resist. :-) I told you I was a little goofy.WARNING: Any ***, organizations, or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects--you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum, both current and future. If you do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. A first date is after the initial meet/greet, which means we agree there is an in-person connection/chemistry and want to see each other again. To me, that also means it doesn't matter what we do, where we go, or how we get there...I just want to get to know you better and vice versa.

  • Yung

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    ***UPDATE*** store,preferably) and has a sense of "some kind" of style...well groomed from head to toe (and anything in between)...cares about his appearance, as do I (at least in public, lol)and wears clothes that fits his body (not 5 sizes bigger).....is that too much to ask ? Sure hope not because that is very attractive and appealing to me...always has been ;^)Well, for now I'm just going say this....I want to find a man who is willing to invest his time to see if something can develop between us. It does take some time to find that out and of course there has to be SOME kind of physical attraction and as I call it PERSONALITY (emotional, mental) attraction. Eventually I want to be in a loving relationship, so you must be open for that possibility. God, family and friends are very important to me.I have younger children so I need you to like/love kids. I am very open and willing to discuss just about anything so feel free to ask as I will ask you also.I want to experience more outdoor stuff than I have in my life now. I love all kinds of genre of music such as Jazz, R n B, Hip Hop, Blues, Old School certain Rock and even Christian Rock as I do attend Church but haven't been going enough recently, my bad...need my spiritual feeding..it's where I draw my strength from.I'm a very loving woman and loyal to a fault (with the right man) and I want/need the same from him.I want to believe that there is a wonderful,romantic,loving,funny,family man still out there for ME...I love romance 3Well,that's it for now. We can go into detail when we speak. God bless you in your search & life. ;^)WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. ***\\***Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Or whom maybe suffering from it***\\\***and say a little prayer !!***Women***are like apples***on trees. The best ones***are at the top of the tree.***The men don't want to reach***for the good ones because they ***are afraid of falling and getting hurt---Instead, they just get the rotten apples---from the ground that aren't as good, --but easy. So the apples at the top think-something is wrong with them, when in---reality, they're amazing. They just***have to wait for the right man to***come along, the one who's***brave enough to***climb all***the way***to the top***of the tree!***

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