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Kate, 49
United States, Indiana, Greensburg

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About Me

Single Apple looking for my other Apple to become a Pear! OK, I am just testing the water :) But I need you to know that I am taking a break from dating, because I have been injured on ***, and now I am in a wheelchair, I broke a bone on my left foot, and not able to walk, it may be temporary or not, so I just have to wait and see how I am going to heal first... Now that this part is out of the way and in open, this is what I think you need to know about me.The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people, but when each individual learns to live with the imperfections of others and can admire the other person's good qualities. Humm..what a real woman wants?In a brief conversation, a man asked me: “What kind of man are you looking for?”I sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, ‘Do you really want to know?’Reluctantly, he said,”Yes.”I began to expound…“As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can’t do for myself?I pay my own bills. I take care of my household needs without the help of any man…or woman for that matter.I am in the position to ask, ‘What can you bring to the table?’”The man looked at me. Clearly he thought that I was referring to money.But I quickly corrected his thought & stated, “I am not referring to money.I need something more.I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.”He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked me to explain.I said, “I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because Ineed conversation & mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded man.I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don’tneed to be unequally yoked…believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipefor disaster.I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don’tneed a financial burden.I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as awoman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies andgame-playing are not my idea of a strong man.I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader andprovider to the lives entrusted to him by God.I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I mustrespect him.I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. Ihave no problem being submissive…he just has to be worthy.And by the way, I am not looking for him…He will find me. He willrecognize himself in me. Hey may not be able to explain the connection,but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help- I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself.”When I finished my spill, I looked at him.He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said,”You are asking alot.”I replied, “I’m worth a lot”. Must be fun, adventurist who likes to go on a weekend or a cruise get away... the best way to know each other... Of course if our first date bring a good vibes and positive chemistry...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Torri from Greensburg | Woman | 49 years old | Aquarius
    Torri

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Reared in NYC and vestiges of it remain (fast-talkin, fast- Although I am becoming LALA- Much of who I am is contradictory, straddling the line between thoughtful and spontaneous, conventional and rebellious, off-beat and witty, and often cannot choose between that little black dress or tight jeans.My heart is as big as my smile, and I smile often. I tend to keep friends and family close forever. Loyal and giving, I am a good cook who enjoys sharing. And yes, I too, like walking on the beach, anytime of day, not just at sunset with wine and cheese. Movies with popcorn. A well-thumbed, annotated book, I have tried a kindle, it did not light my fire.Although I have achieved professionally, raising my three kids is what I am proudest of. Who gets down with silly. Being a good athlete is a turn-on, but so too is a critical thinker who knows about love and affection, and values the companionship of a woman as a friend and a lover. A good kisser would be a home run.

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  • Gaby from Greensburg | Woman | 47 years old | Aquarius
    Gaby

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm forty somethin...feel 30 somethin...and want a man who is the same :) I'm really much better in person, but I'll do my best to show you who I am in writing...I'm outgoing and easily make friends...I have a huge heart (willing to share lol) and I can have fun doing almost nothing with the right person. I don't mind a guy who is a little shy or quiet at first, as long as he has a sense of humor and a great personality underneath it all. I promise you will have fun when we spend time together!! Although I have lots of energy and can keep up just fine with my younger friends and family, I have a relaxed side too...I equally enjoy going out for sushi, going out dancing (to hip hop - haha, I'm serious, I love dancing to that!!), concerts in the park, backyard barbeques, out to the movies, golf...(well, minitiature golf, but I would love to learn how to play the real thing...will you teach me?!!), and kicking back at home to take in a movie or watch a football game with you - we can cuddle on the couch, or have a bunch of friends over to watch the game - I'm good either way!! I want somebody who's not afraid to cut loose and have a good time...we don't have to be serious all the time just because we're 40 something!! But at the same time, I want to be able to just relax and hang out at your house or mine sometimes and enjoy each other's company. I like to listen to all kinds of music...not a fan of constant country music or oldies tho...if you are, you may have to work hard to get me to enjoy it - I'll try, but no guarantees!! Again, I want somebody who's fun, not necessarily the life of the party, but somebody with "life" in them!! I like tall guys, 5 ft 10 in or more, but I'd never say no to someone not quite that tall if they had beautiful eyes, or a great smile...the most important thing to me, other than the obvious which is that we have chemistry and a natural attraction, is that we enjoy one another and the time we spend together. This is a *** who I truly am...if it appeals to you contact me...If not, we probably wouldn't be a good match anyway so no worries :) On a first date I'd like to meet you for a drink or coffee and see where it goes from there...BTW I'm not looking for a pen pal, I want a real live man lol...so I'd rather meet you sooner than later to see if there's any attraction and chemistry between us vs messaging back n forth for weeks on end. If you've been on here for a month or more you probably know exactly what I mean ;)WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

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  • Meridith from Greensburg | Woman | 47 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Seriously....is there anyone out there that isn't into a bunch of games??????First off....I have a lot of ink....I dispatch for the Police Department.....I smoke..but would love to quit.....I am not into one night stands or into a texting or sexting relationship. So if you have an issue with any of the above....PLEASE DON'T MESSAGE ME!!! I love to joke a round and have fun....so if u are too serious I am not the girl for u. I am not trying to be mean....just want it to be clear who I am and what I'm about.I love the outdoors...riding my Harley camping. ...hiking. ...gardening pretty much anything outdoors and especially in the mountains. I enjoy spending time with my Boxer "Ozzy" ... I have a lot of tattoos and enjoy motorcycle rallies and car shows. Prefer rock but do like some country and love to go to concerts. My friends and family are very important to me. I believe trust and communication are very important in a relationship and you can never take your partner for granted I am not into games.... and once they are played I am gone. Say what you mean and mean what you say. I love to laugh and have fun and enjoy life....and am always willing to try something new...with in reason. ...no skydiving lol.I am kind of a Tom Boy. ..Girly Girl all in one. I don't mind playing hard and getting dirty. ..but I love my showers and getting my hair, nails and toes done.;) I am easy going. ...whatever we both feel comfortable with....maybe a bike ride somewhere quiet to get to know one another....or meet for a couple drinks. Something fun but simple fir the first date ;)

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