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Gerda, 48

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About Me

Hi there! I haven't done the online in many years, so I'm not too comfortable with it yet. I enjoy working out, being outdoors, softball, tennis, swimming, bike riding, the beach, and doing many of those things with my beautiful daughter. I am open to meeting someone with or without children. I'm healthy, happy, have a great career, and I'm grateful everyday for all the blessings in my life. Meeting someone to share these experiences with will make it even better. I am an eternal optimist and always try to see the best in everything. I'm also a realist, so I know life isn't always rosy. What you see is what you get, I'm not interested in playing games. Just want to get to know a great guy who likes to have fun, but can be serious when necessary. I mostly listen to hip hop and country, but don't hold that against me if your taste differs. I'm not going to say what I think you want to hear, just the truth. If anything I've said interests you, feel free to say hello.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tamson

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm, wondering if there is really such a thing as an equal..... I would like to find an open, honest, emotionally available,stable man (who I find attractive) to share my life with. The problem is that I am very picky and I have high standards. This is can be tricky because it's difficult to describe "what" or "who" I'm looking for. But I will know it when I see it.:) None of us are perfect but if you are interested in a relationship where we can celebrate the good and work together through the rough then we are thinking on the same level.I don’t really believe in soul mates but I want a relationship where 2 people come together as equals and form something greater than the sum of its parts.I've decided to with hold some information, because these things can get too long and boring. This I will share , I take care of myself by maitaining a healthy diet, work out 4+ days a week ,enjoy Bikram Yoga, music(mostly rock), running in the rain, easy Sunday mornings, finding that cold spot in the sheets and laughing until it hurts. I love my life, my family, love my work and consider myself lucky to have amazing supportive friends. BTW Guys, I have to wonder what is with all the photo's of fishing, sunglass wearing and baseball caps?? Not my favorite when seeking a date... wondering if I would only be taken on fishing trips and what are you hiding under that cap and behind those dark sunglasses.. Boating, not a favorite either.... love the water but I get motion sickness in small boats so if you're looking for a second mate keep looking because you won't find it here., . New Note to those who choose to message me:1. If you don't read my profile, I will know. 2. If you message me and I don't respond, please don't take it personally I will read your profile and if I'm interested I will respond. 3. Remember there are "Plenty of Fish" in the sea..;)I wish you all the best of luck in finding that "special" someone,"date" "girlfriend", "partner" or "hookup" you're looking for because we all deserve to be loved however we choose to find it.:)I truly believe we live the life we choose, so if it's not the life you want it is your responsibility to change it. Let's see,coffee, wine, a walk, the park, a museum...Or you choose I'm sure you can come up with something.

  • Hassie

    Online

    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    ~ Its crazy that cyber~dating is just like going for a job interview; Such a sales pitch. After my first attempt to swim around in this pond, I took a break from the "catch and release" that was happening. So Im back to the watering hole to see what might come of it .....Alright , I'll give a few adjectives to describe myself ~. Im intuitive, a good communicator (I've learned the art of listening), Im relational, social, affectionate, sensative, hardworking, opinionated, silly/playful, intentional, adventurous, generous, creative productive, tranparent, forgiving, nurturing. I love the laid back livestyle where i live here on Whidbey Island ~ I enjoy what island living has to offer, kayaking out to the mussel beds to see the resident seals, beautiful hikes along the cliffs at Ebeys Landing, beachcombing and rock picking on our shores. My exercise of choice is hiking, walking, & swimming. Health and nutrition are important to me. Cooking is a pleasure. Its an art form, since I rarely follow a recipe. I have a small garden. Eventhough Im not an "over the top" greenie, i get into recycling, composting and generally attempting to minimize and simplify. its turned into a kind of purposeful hobby. Im also an aspiring writer. Im working on a book and a memoir for my kids. I studied interior design *** My home is a reflection of my creativity.My 2 youngest are still in my nest and my 3 goregous, accomplished older daughters are young adults, living their lives. All of my kids amaze me. wherever we are or whoever we are with, people constantly tell me the impression they've made, and how interesting and enjoyable they are. I could never accomplish a greater goal than to produce and raise such wonderful human beings. I love being a mom ~ I love being their mom!Well guys, thats me in a nutshell ~Please do me the courtesy to 1st be fiscally and relationally responsible ( by that I mean, that past loves and family relationships are reconciled and cleaned up) and please be employed ~ I have that in place and would appreciate the sameNot that I have a criteria that is set on stone. I've never had a "Type" when it comes to men, but there are some qualities in a man that really "get me". ~ a masculine, strong, sexy voice~ the rugged, casual type , but underneath the sweat of his brow, you can see that he cleans up nicely~ the comfortable, cuddly type ~ i feel easy in his presence , & everybody else doesa hint ~ real ladies are responders not initiators. Be the man, take the lead. Let us real women be the woman we want to be ~ if we are interested, we will always respond to every and all of your advances, but we wait for you to make the moves. Its not a feminine qualitiy in my book to pursue, but its to be pursued in the courting stages. More times than not, you guys end up with some trouble from women who take the mans role, but I realize with "womens lib" , its now the norm, and men expect women to be a part of the pursuing process So if you are waiting for the a lady to get a hold of you, make the first move, or keep the ball rolling, you may be missing an opportunity to be with the right kind of feminine women. ~For what its worth~ A cafe or restaurant with a cozy corner where we can visit and get to know each other. if we still would like to let the time linger because things are going well, it would be nice if we were located near an area where we could take a walk around. This is conventional enough so that one of us could leave if its not working out, but if it is, there are other options

  • Braidy

    Online

    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I honestly came on tonight to delete my profile. But the optimist in me says, just a little longer. ;) What should I tell you? Humm....I suppose more than anything I like just being home. Travel is great, I love visiting my sister in Pismo, but I'd chose the mountains over the coast anyday. At the end of the day though, I just want to sleep in my own cozy bed and cook in my own kitchen. ( I spend more time in the kitchen than any other room in the house.) I have more hobbies than I know what to do with...sewing, knitting, painting, baking, crocheting, quilting, Yoga....so I guess you can see that I'm never bored. Basically I like making homemade things for the people I love. I'm the old fashioned type of lady that is fiercely loyal, honest to a fault, truly caring and sincere. Oh, and way post menopausal! Did that years ago so relax. ;) No mood swings here. Lol And I keep getting told that I'm "Sweet" ?? :-P (Yeah, I skipped those B\#€ lessons my friends said that I needed years ago. I was probably too busy perfecting my fried chicken recipe ;) Basically I'm the type of person who makes homemade chicken noodle soup for loved ones when they're sick, knit's afghans for new babies, shops for my disabled mother, taxi's my sons everywhere, and at the end of the day I wouldn't mind having someone to cuddle up and watch The Walking Dead with. (I have sons...we don't do chick flicks :) Let's talk and see what we both would like to do. Maybe an easy meet and greet at Jamba Juice or Starbucks. Then for a real date... Ice cream at Reimers and browsing the antique shops :)

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