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Stefany, 48

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About Me

I love life... a lot! Whether it be hiking through the back canyons to escape the cacophony of the city or strapping on some dancing heels and strutting to some tunes, I always try to keep in mind that life is short and I'm blessed to be here enjoying it. I'm a great conversationalist in that I can hold my own, yet I know how to listen. I have a rather ribald sense of humor inherited from my dad and love to trade witty repartee with a like individual. I do have two self sufficient older teens and a menagerie of animals which keep my life full and interesting. I'm seeking a man who has similar qualities yet can bring something different to the mix. I enjoy a man who is confident and funny and is searching for a strong woman who will complement him. Honor and integrity are important qualities I feel completes a well rounded man. I'm open to stepping beyond previous boundaries and stretching my imagination in regards to my ideal man... I don't want to box myself in with a huge list of must haves! Thanks for taking the time to read this far... so take a few more minutes and send a message!One of my favorite quotes: “Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for MeaningBy the bye... That arm in my Ren pic is a Ren buddy... NOT an ex! Trying to describe a first date is difficult because each meeting should be tailored to the people meeting. I'm open to whatever ideas come up in the initial contact. Who knows?? It could be something crazy like a tandem bike ride or something sweet and mundane like a cup of coffee!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carmela

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a happy, fun, uncomplicated girl. I am looking for someone to have fun with. Not a big fan of drama or confrontations. I hope to find a nice guy that does not have anger issues. I love to be outdoors, I love Lake Tahoe, the mountains and the beach. A perfect day would be playing on the beach all day with my kids and taking a long sunset walk hand in hand with my man (if I had one), stopping at a restaurant for a drink and a pool game. The simple things make me happy :)

  • Gail

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi Guys, I am a busy single mom to my very active boys ages 11 and 15. I love watching them play football, baseball and basketball and I am an active volunteer with their teams. They are with me full time and they are my life. But they are old enough now for me to be able to enjoy some guilt-free ME time.I've been single for 8 years, divorced for 4 and am new to this dating thing - especially the online dating thing. It's like feeling my way around in the dark - will you hold the flashlight for me? I don't know the "rules" if there are any, and I probably would not follow them even if I did. Update: if you have dating "rules", I can only respect them (or not) if I know what they are - that requires communication. I am a BIG fan of communication!My friends tell me I don't know when I am being flirted with. I guess it takes a brick to my head. I just don't like assuming things and then looking foolish. Plus, if one wanted to, one could read something suggestive into just about any conversation. That can be fun - as long as we're on the same page! Humiliating if not!I hate playing the guessing game just TELL ME what's on your mind. That said, I do prefer directness. It CAN be done tactfully, kindly, and with openess and honesty - a must for all my relationships.I am an open book - ask me anything and know that my answers will be completely honest. Not everyone is an open book and that's okay, as long as what you DO put out there is truthful.I can play poker with the best of them but much prefer to lay my cards on the table and think it would be a much nicer world if we all did the same.I wear my heart on my sleeve but am not naive; don't underestimate me ;) I practice living a simple, uncluttered life in the here and now. I would much rather DO things than have things - creating precious memories that last a lifetime. I have learned that the key to happiness and contentment is quite simply - gratitude.Things I like doing... Walking the beach Photography Gardening Home improvements Watching NFL (Steelers Fans need not apply;) Jewelry making Mariners Games Road trips to nowhere Cookouts with family and friends Camping Hiking Reading Writing Things I have not done in a long time but would like to do again... Ski River raft Golf Dance Kiss Bucket List: The above list and... Get a tattoo (update - check! As my boys say, "YOLO!"You must have a sense of humor and not take life or yourself too seriously. I don't care about your weight, profession, income, motorcycles, boats or cars, how many times you work out a week, or all the places you have been (although a Harley trip would be fun! lol!) I do care if you are kind, compassionate, loving, responsible, respectful, respected, emotionally well-adjusted and generally fun to be around. And you gotta love long, passionate kisses that stop time.Thanks for reading...PS You guys are so damn cute holding up your little (and Big!) fishies with those proud looks on your faces. Just precious! ;) I'm not picky.

  • Signe

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    If you are looking for "the girl next door with an edge" you have come to the right place.I have a profession that I love, great friends/family and a zest for life;just looking for someone to share it all with.Whether it be having a drink with friends,being at the beach or even a ballgame for that matter,you will generally find me with a smile on my face;it's all about who you are with. Looking for a down-to-earth man who is educated,attractive to me,knows what he wants out of life and must be able to make me laugh Could this be you??? On a first date ,as long the conversation flows ,there is laughter and chemistry,nothing else really matters...

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