SIMILAR PEOPLE
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FrancisOffline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I have been on meetville for a little over a year now. In that time I have drawn some conclusions about some of the men on the site.... Before I dish, let me also say that I have met some wonderful men and made a few great friends. It has been a nice way to get to know some very awesome guys, share some of Life's experiences and hear from a different perspective. That being said, some of the men on this site think that meetville means Plenty of Flesh.... I'm not a prude but I won't text any naked pictures. I've also noticed that some men are pretty impressed with their toys (4 wheeled, 2 wheeled and engines in general), their work out routines/bodies and their trophies (both the 4 legged and 2 legged varieties). Vehicles, sports and the gym are fine as Hobbies but if they are your LIFE you don't have time for anything else. This does not impress me. The words "shallow" and "self absorbed" come to mind.I am single, employed, financially responsible and raising 3 awesome kids. They are 19, 17 and 14 so while they are still my number one priority, they are getting more independent daily. Live music, cooking from scratch, spontaneous road trips, meeting new people and trying new things excite me. I love to read (almost anything), garden, dance, be in the woods and in the water, watch movies (I don't have cable and I don't game), laugh (I'm very comfortable laughing at myself) and hang out with friends and family. I am passionate, romantic, sexy and confident.I don't believe that a man and a woman have to spend all of their time together, like all the same activities, foods or people, or agree on all issues. I DO believe that a man and a woman need to respectfully communicate, be honest with each other, trust and accept each other for who they are. It's obvious that there are many single men and many single women looking for that one person to build a special relationship with. I don't believe in Soul Mates, relationships that 'just happen; fall into place; or are easy'. I DO believe that intimate relationships are a vitally important part of a Life fully enjoyed and lived. Best of luck to all Fishermen.Love has more to do with the person you become in its presence than it does with anything else. You must always be yourself, honest and true. I think a first date should be casual and relaxed. No worries over being over or under dressed. Not a movie or concert - too loud to talk. Suggestions? Extra points for creativity.
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PameliaOffline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
Me: I'm level-headed, reliable, confident and calm in a crisis. I'm funny. I'm headstrong, but not unreasonable and when I put my mind to something, I get it done. I'm fiercely loyal. I'm a sucker for dogs and cats and chest hair and soft kisses. I'm an optimist. I'm friendly. My favorite food is chocolate. I love being a Mom! My son is my biggest joy and greatest worry. Right now, I’m trying to figure out how to guide him through puberty and girls and junior high. Wish me luck! I’m organized and financially stable. I’m not meticulous about chores: there are usually dirty dishes in the sink and clean ones in the dishwasher. I am precise. I like to use the right word, which sometimes means it's a big word. I may gently correct you if you're using a word incorrectly - but I would never do that in public. I’m not rude or disrespectful. I’m fun at parties and make friends easily. I’m easy-going and independent. I’m not shallow. I’m resilient and brave. I go all warm and fuzzy inside when a gentleman holds the door for me. You: You are a gentleman. You are not confused by women. You are warm and charming and friendly and funny and smart. You manage your strength and physique in such a way, that I feel safe when I’m with you and can let my guard down. You are not sexist or racist or elitist. You may not know how to take things apart or put them together, but you’ll try. You have a full life and busy schedule, but always make time for those you love. You call your Mom. You have someone in your life (sister? ex-girlfriend? friend’s wife?) who is a trusted confidante. You give people the benefit of the doubt. You are complex and interesting. You sing along to the radio. You don’t change lanes in an intersection. You are deferential to anyone older than you. You love to cook, but pizza Friday is cool too. When you are interested, I am the only person in the room. Us: We spend time together when we can, because we both have busy lives. We like grabbing lattes and going for walks hand-in-hand and talking about anything and everything and nothing. There are silences, but they’re not awkward. We enjoy dressing up occasionally for a night on the town. I help you reach your potential and you help me reach mine. Together, we are unstoppable. We are fun and funny and don’t take ourselves too seriously. We are simpatico. First meet up - coffee or drinks. Tried, but true.First date version 1: Chips, salsa, guacamole, margaritas - and lots of talking.First date version 2: Steak dinner followed by a long walk - and lots of talking.First date version 3: Some food truck yumminess while sitting on a bench looking at the Puget Sound - and lots of talking.First date version 4: Happy hour appetizers, wine, mellow live music - and lots of talking.First date version 5: Thai curry or Indian vindaloo, dosas, naan and raita followed by a leisurely stroll - and lots of talking. I'm sure there are lots and lots of other options, but these sound good to me.
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BlakeOffline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
Looking for someone who has similar goals as I do. Love to spend time with family and friends, work out and enjoy my hobbies which are mainly cycling and Tai Chi. Listen to Willies Roadhouse on Sirius mostly.