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Lily, 49

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About Me

I have learned to be fine on my own but would delight in the chance to be with a good man who seeks the Lord for wisdom. I am strong and capable, successful in business and social circles, but never obsessed with these things; always dreaming of a wonderful partnership with you. I love: ballroom dancing, cooking (did that professionally for 20+yrs.), working out, great music (especially black gospel), wine, home remodeling, dogs, good friends & making new ones, my business, learning about world affairs and politics, dressing up, and your strong arms. walk down the street in my local small, suburban town after and hour or so of connecting at a local spot.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Norine

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello,I am a fun personalble woman wo who looking for a nice man. I love sushi and sake is my favorite. I enjoy all types of music but Hip Hop and R&B is my favorite. I stay upto date on events and music and movies. I work full time so when i am not working I love to eat fine food, drink nice wine (or sake) I'm a very down to earth person who like to laugh and have a good time- i am not judgemental and have a very open mind to all types of things. Some of my favorite things to to is go go hiking with my kid and my dogs- i have two dogs- they are little but i love them a whole bunch. I also love to go bike riding, roller blading and love to dance. On my first date i would love to go out to eat - sushi would be nice (but I am open to all fine food) drink a little and have nice conversation and hopefully laugh too!I good movie would work as well but maybe that would be on the second date since I'd really like to get to know you- see if we have chemistry- I'm looking for someone who has goals in life as I do as well.

  • Maximina

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    A little about me...Ok..here goes.. I am the first person to state the obvious and try to find something positive or funny about it.! lol! It's just who I am! .. I'm happy, outgoing, passionate, active, family loving, faithful, honest, positive, smiling unselfish, playful, witty, and toss in a bit of a smart a$# ..only at the right time.. well.. sometimes.. not.. but I'm getting better! ha ha haBUT first a foremost, I am a lady,.. About the one I'm looking for...Physically, he is tall pref. over 5'10 and YES please do have facial hair! 5'Oclock shadow or more! Yep!! lol. I'm attracted to "Teddy Bear" built guys. if you know what I mean..You must like tattoos or have them yourself, because I have tattoos. I'm a lady that likes motorcycle riding...so if you ride? big plus!! Keeping healthy is way up there for me too.. I just don't care for drugs, smoking or alcohol.. It ok to have a drink now and then.. but no addicts please. Honest, authentic, love your family..like to laugh, adventurous, and can make me laugh.. which btw is pretty easy! Interests are , working out,, exploring places . hiking .. being with family.. friends.. shopping, making good food.. eating good food! lol .. . being in water or on the water on a hot day.... boating.. skiing..camping in the redwoods by the ocean..backseat)motorcycle riding, road trips, very cool! just enjoying being alive

  • Mallie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    All I'm really trying to do is to live the best life I can, make some friends along the way, and maybe make a difference. I live very simply. I just appreciate all I have and don't want for much. Having said that, I do enjoy indulgences from time to time, like my yearly 2 day retreat. (My profile picture was taken on October 27, ***while relaxing and reconnecting with me.) I am a nurse by profession, which means I am a nurturer to a fault, and sometimes I forget to take care of me. So, I escape from time to time to just "be". Not many can understand that. But they don't have to. It makes me a better person and I understand it. I am a contradiction on most days, and as a Gemini, sometimes hard to keep up with. I don't apologize for being me, but will apologize for how that may make you feel at times. I am honest and I am loyal. My favorite quote is from my favorite film, The Shootist: "I won't be wronged. I won't be insulted. I won't be laid a hand on. I don't do these things to others and I require the same in return."I do believe people can change under extraordinary circumstances and those circumstances cannot be imposed by another person. So, no, I don't try to change people. I accept them for who they are and hope they accept me for who I am. That doesn't mean I wouldn't want to be a better friend or lover. I just know that expectations can really ruin a relationship.I like a man who is polite and protective, but understands that while I am a strong and independent woman, sometimes I need and WANT to be taken care of. Not in a materialistic sort of way. there's a difference between taking CARE of me, and taking care of ME. He can expect the same in return. I want someone who can share some of my interests, but also introduce me to his. It's okay if we disagree, respectfully. But just as I'll try his activities at least once (twice to be fair in my assessment), I like him to try mine as well. So for my favorites that are kind of non-negotiable, I mean, real deal breakers...; Orders, CSIs, NCIS, Criminal Minds, etc.), and spontaneous drives on beautiful days with the top down and no particular place to go. I'm also a fan of experimenting with food, flea markets, tourist traps, and sleep with windows open and the fire roaring on a cool night. My perfect match will be mature enough to respect boundaries. I am interested in a long term relationship but am in no hurry to get there. I don't give out my phone number after one ***, but I also don't like to engage in endless *** text messages. I pay a hefty sum to Verizon to talk on the phone and prefer that method of communication once we've agreed we'd like to talk to get to know each other a little before we set up a "date".If any of this sounds interesting, why not ***? An *** a response; winks do not. I still can't believe I'm doing this.;call the LAFD"

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