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Dung, 46

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About Me

Honestly, I have been on and off this site a zillion times. I was married for 20 years and have been divorced for 4. I had no idea what dating at this time in life would be like - I was NOT prepared. I was used to being the mom and wife and I was good at it. I knew my role and how things were supposed to go - this single, dating thing - I still don't get it. Here is what I do know. I don't want to grow old alone. I want a companion to share my life with. I want to find someone who is as curious and interested in knowing everything about me as I am about them. Someone who listens as much as he talks. Someone who knows what he is feeling and thinking and, if he feels it is important, says it straight forward and lets the chips fall where they may. Someone who let's it go when we agree to let it go. Someone who is a stand up guy - who cares about the less fortunate and doesn't need to put others down to feel good about himself. Someone who's eyes aren't constantly scanning the room when I am sitting there looking for the next shiny nickel and keeping his options open by NOT deleting his online profile when he is telling me I'm the one he wants to be with or constantly online when we supposedly have a great first few dates and seem to be hitting it off, if we aren't and I am confused then just stop telling me differently, I am a big girl and can handle the let down cause I'm probably on the fence about you too but am going to give you a chance before I line up the next 10.... anyone out there getting this yet?My apologies if I appear a bit jaded but guys there are many of you out there who are not very cool. They treat good women like me crappy and make it harder for you authentic, caring, loyal, honest, real men to find the good women who do exist out here. I am an adventurous, compassionate, loving, responsible, intelligent, kind, forgiving, sensual, sexy, funny woman. I am a good catch and deserve the best treatment and I'm not going to settle for less. If you are Mr. Nice guy and think we have some things in common (see below) send me a message. It will be worth your time. If you are not, please don't waste mine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

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  • Savanah

    Online

    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hello.......Thought It would be nice to meet some new friends and maybe something special would evolve from it. I have been divorced since ***, raising my 2 teenage boys isnt easy but they are my reason for waking up every morning. I work two jobs as an RN so I am very busy but find that I am missing something in my life. It would be nice to find someone to grow old with. Looking for that undeniable chemistry and passion that you get when two people feel the same way about each other and there are no doubts in either mind. life is too short to be alone......good luck in your searches.Just wanted to add a quick note......I'M NOT LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND OR A FWB'S. PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME IF THAT'S ON YOUR AGENDA. P.S IF YOU MESSAGE ME WITH NO PICTURE I WON'T RESPOND I NEED TO SEE YOUR FACE AND BE ABLE TO LOOK IN TO YOUR EYES. Meet & greet over coffee/tea maybe dinner if we like each other.....KEEP IT LIGHT WITH NO EXPECTATIONS.

  • Hassie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    ~ Its crazy that cyber~dating is just like going for a job interview; Such a sales pitch. After my first attempt to swim around in this pond, I took a break from the "catch and release" that was happening. So Im back to the watering hole to see what might come of it .....Alright , I'll give a few adjectives to describe myself ~. Im intuitive, a good communicator (I've learned the art of listening), Im relational, social, affectionate, sensative, hardworking, opinionated, silly/playful, intentional, adventurous, generous, creative productive, tranparent, forgiving, nurturing. I love the laid back livestyle where i live here on Whidbey Island ~ I enjoy what island living has to offer, kayaking out to the mussel beds to see the resident seals, beautiful hikes along the cliffs at Ebeys Landing, beachcombing and rock picking on our shores. My exercise of choice is hiking, walking, & swimming. Health and nutrition are important to me. Cooking is a pleasure. Its an art form, since I rarely follow a recipe. I have a small garden. Eventhough Im not an "over the top" greenie, i get into recycling, composting and generally attempting to minimize and simplify. its turned into a kind of purposeful hobby. Im also an aspiring writer. Im working on a book and a memoir for my kids. I studied interior design *** My home is a reflection of my creativity.My 2 youngest are still in my nest and my 3 goregous, accomplished older daughters are young adults, living their lives. All of my kids amaze me. wherever we are or whoever we are with, people constantly tell me the impression they've made, and how interesting and enjoyable they are. I could never accomplish a greater goal than to produce and raise such wonderful human beings. I love being a mom ~ I love being their mom!Well guys, thats me in a nutshell ~Please do me the courtesy to 1st be fiscally and relationally responsible ( by that I mean, that past loves and family relationships are reconciled and cleaned up) and please be employed ~ I have that in place and would appreciate the sameNot that I have a criteria that is set on stone. I've never had a "Type" when it comes to men, but there are some qualities in a man that really "get me". ~ a masculine, strong, sexy voice~ the rugged, casual type , but underneath the sweat of his brow, you can see that he cleans up nicely~ the comfortable, cuddly type ~ i feel easy in his presence , & everybody else doesa hint ~ real ladies are responders not initiators. Be the man, take the lead. Let us real women be the woman we want to be ~ if we are interested, we will always respond to every and all of your advances, but we wait for you to make the moves. Its not a feminine qualitiy in my book to pursue, but its to be pursued in the courting stages. More times than not, you guys end up with some trouble from women who take the mans role, but I realize with "womens lib" , its now the norm, and men expect women to be a part of the pursuing process So if you are waiting for the a lady to get a hold of you, make the first move, or keep the ball rolling, you may be missing an opportunity to be with the right kind of feminine women. ~For what its worth~ A cafe or restaurant with a cozy corner where we can visit and get to know each other. if we still would like to let the time linger because things are going well, it would be nice if we were located near an area where we could take a walk around. This is conventional enough so that one of us could leave if its not working out, but if it is, there are other options

  • Donette

    Online

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    It is what it is ...Mostly because of the weather and I love it here. A new beginning and loving every minute of itI love the beach and just started surfing.... WOW the ocean is awesome.I work with horses and what better place to be working outside year round.I love the ocean and the mountains and am always up for a road trip.The music I would be listening to on this trip could be Rock or Country or really just about anything good .All my pictures are from ***, ***and ***and I really am 48 even though I do not feel like I am...wellI guess I am not sure what it should feel like since I am 48 for the first time...feels more like 35 :)Some of the things I read about here ...as much as I do understand what people mean to say I have a different thought about...- many people want a ***relationship...well that sounds OK but I am hoping to have a ***relationship...I want to give it my ALL and I want ALL I think if everyone gives ***% what could go wrong?- and the glass half full story? my glass is full ...even the top half ...what is wrong with air? I do like breathing....lol I am not on here to find computer friendsLooking for real people...lol

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