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Tamson, 49

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About Me

I'm, wondering if there is really such a thing as an equal..... I would like to find an open, honest, emotionally available,stable man (who I find attractive) to share my life with. The problem is that I am very picky and I have high standards. This is can be tricky because it's difficult to describe "what" or "who" I'm looking for. But I will know it when I see it.:) None of us are perfect but if you are interested in a relationship where we can celebrate the good and work together through the rough then we are thinking on the same level.I don’t really believe in soul mates but I want a relationship where 2 people come together as equals and form something greater than the sum of its parts.I've decided to with hold some information, because these things can get too long and boring. This I will share , I take care of myself by maitaining a healthy diet, work out 4+ days a week ,enjoy Bikram Yoga, music(mostly rock), running in the rain, easy Sunday mornings, finding that cold spot in the sheets and laughing until it hurts. I love my life, my family, love my work and consider myself lucky to have amazing supportive friends. BTW Guys, I have to wonder what is with all the photo's of fishing, sunglass wearing and baseball caps?? Not my favorite when seeking a date... wondering if I would only be taken on fishing trips and what are you hiding under that cap and behind those dark sunglasses.. Boating, not a favorite either.... love the water but I get motion sickness in small boats so if you're looking for a second mate keep looking because you won't find it here., . New Note to those who choose to message me:1. If you don't read my profile, I will know. 2. If you message me and I don't respond, please don't take it personally I will read your profile and if I'm interested I will respond. 3. Remember there are "Plenty of Fish" in the sea..;)I wish you all the best of luck in finding that "special" someone,"date" "girlfriend", "partner" or "hookup" you're looking for because we all deserve to be loved however we choose to find it.:)I truly believe we live the life we choose, so if it's not the life you want it is your responsibility to change it. Let's see,coffee, wine, a walk, the park, a museum...Or you choose I'm sure you can come up with something.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Vianne

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I just read this quote and thought it summed up my feelings..........."Nothing defines humans better than their willingness to do irrational things in the pursuit of phenomenally unlikely pay offs...this is the principle behind lotteries, dating and *** flea markets on a rainy day and spend fall Sundays screaming for the Chargers from somewhere....anywhere..........I can feel you are close........ I am open but I do not drink coffee so would prefer meeting for lunch, a walk, a drink or sailing-even possibly doing something fun and silly like bowling, go carts or pool.....I am awful at each so you would have a lot of fun laughing at my attempts ;) I would be extremely impressed, flattered and surprised by a man who takes the initiative & plans something he thinks we will both enjoy, simple-nothing fancy.....I trust youBest case scenario we will laugh until we cry.........worst case scenario, we will cry until we laugh....either way-new friends ;)

  • Abbie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am outgoing but can be quiet until I am comfortable or get to know those I am with. I have a wicked sense of humor, and love to be around those that have humor and a great personality. Ok, to prove my point I just got back from attending my first Comic Con event in San Deigo w/my son. WOW, that was unique and so much fun! ****After reading my profile can you tell me which part of this my profile true and what part I made up? Good Luck!I enjoy car shows (classic muscle cars and hot rods) , farmers markets, hiking, swimming, reading (when I have some down time), camping ** , spending time at the beach, Barbequing, baking, traveling to new places I haven’t been, history and getting a glimpse into another time. I prefer wine over beer or give me a mixed drink. And also prefer my guys clean cut and shaven…. When their hair is longer than mine, umm, no thanks . ;-)** And yes, I do enjoy camping with a few exceptions like working restrooms... sorry I don't enjoy using the tree to the left… as I no longer get paid for that kind of camping anymore. =) There are times when I will pack an overnight bag (yes only 1, I learned from my time in the military) and decided to pick a direction and hit the road and check out something new or different. I’ve learned life can be short so it’s time to enjoy it and let the adventures begin. I am in a management position and work a typical 8:***:30. My work side of me is so much different than my personal side. One of my staff has actually said that they think that I’m “” by day and “Lady GaGa” by night… funny thing is I’m not a fan of GaGa, but she actually had a point. ;-) I’d be happy to explain more about what they meant if you’re curious – just ask.I am a strong lady and in all honesty (which probably will work against me) I I am not looking for some to “complete me” but rather someone to enhance my life and add to it and share it. If that works for you that is wonderful. I am not looking for a quick hook-up, I’ve had enough offers. I am passionate about many things in my life and can take strong stances when I feel it’s important. If you think you can handle a strong woman and would like to get out and explore than send me a message, I’d love to hear from you. Hmm, maybe a quick coffee or drink to see if its a mutual feel and if so plan a lunch, a walk in a park, the Zoo... or something to be played by ear.

  • Winnie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Wine over Beer, who am I kidding! LOL But, it brought you here, so let's talk! I'm looking for a relationship, no games. I am real and I am ready. My friends say, I am fun, have a great smile, energetic, but yet I can slow down and relax too! I do frequently visit the Bay area, for music or to see family and friends! The things I like to do; fitness, eating healthy, camping, bowling, road trips, live music, hot rods, louder the better, bike riding, pedal and motor, lots more, just ask! Fitness is important to me and I hope you like to do the same. I workout at home, so that's where the Plank is from! I was on a 21 day challenge, fun. I'm a little bit country, a little bit rock and roll, with a lot in between! Check it out, let me know what you think! Coffee? Lunch? Walk around a Lake? Well, why not?

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