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Tamson, 49

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About Me

I'm, wondering if there is really such a thing as an equal..... I would like to find an open, honest, emotionally available,stable man (who I find attractive) to share my life with. The problem is that I am very picky and I have high standards. This is can be tricky because it's difficult to describe "what" or "who" I'm looking for. But I will know it when I see it.:) None of us are perfect but if you are interested in a relationship where we can celebrate the good and work together through the rough then we are thinking on the same level.I don’t really believe in soul mates but I want a relationship where 2 people come together as equals and form something greater than the sum of its parts.I've decided to with hold some information, because these things can get too long and boring. This I will share , I take care of myself by maitaining a healthy diet, work out 4+ days a week ,enjoy Bikram Yoga, music(mostly rock), running in the rain, easy Sunday mornings, finding that cold spot in the sheets and laughing until it hurts. I love my life, my family, love my work and consider myself lucky to have amazing supportive friends. BTW Guys, I have to wonder what is with all the photo's of fishing, sunglass wearing and baseball caps?? Not my favorite when seeking a date... wondering if I would only be taken on fishing trips and what are you hiding under that cap and behind those dark sunglasses.. Boating, not a favorite either.... love the water but I get motion sickness in small boats so if you're looking for a second mate keep looking because you won't find it here., . New Note to those who choose to message me:1. If you don't read my profile, I will know. 2. If you message me and I don't respond, please don't take it personally I will read your profile and if I'm interested I will respond. 3. Remember there are "Plenty of Fish" in the sea..;)I wish you all the best of luck in finding that "special" someone,"date" "girlfriend", "partner" or "hookup" you're looking for because we all deserve to be loved however we choose to find it.:)I truly believe we live the life we choose, so if it's not the life you want it is your responsibility to change it. Let's see,coffee, wine, a walk, the park, a museum...Or you choose I'm sure you can come up with something.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Wavesofgrain

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-48

    Hi! My name is Wavesofgrain. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Greensburg, Indiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Arlean

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    And I am not real complicated I always try to just keep it real I will tell you now my nails are fake my hair is real but fake and my lashes are probably gonna be fake I am all about using whatever u can to stay looking as young as you want to feel or as good as you can. however, everything else is 100% authentic and I am probably not the one to ask if you can't handle the truth I say what I mean and mean what i say and I'm not real good at beating around the bush I have a tendency of just spitting it out and I can't stand it when someone tells you something they think you want to hear that makes me crazy I'm never gonna ask you does my ass look big in these pants because if you don't already know the answer to that question then dear god go put a skirt on. lol so when I do ask someones opinion, that is what i honestly want. I am 5'9 and 6 ft in heels and I am not skinny and i'm not fat i am a healthy girl with curves. My goal is to find the ONE and I'm hoping that when I meet him I will just know. Although it hasn't happened yet I'd like to think it could.,. Until then I'm just dating. I'd love to fall in love and live happily ever after. But until then I'm just dating, which means you really can't take this whole online dating thing real serious or your gonna get your feelings hurt. So in order to prevent that from happening I've decided to just take a different approach to it. We all have a preference in what we are looking for in the person we want to date and sometime what we see in our profiles aren't what we find in person it doesn't mean it has to be the end of the world, I promise you won't break my heart if I'm not your preference, believe me when I say their is always another man or woman right around the corner! So to me how we end the date is the most important part, because weather their be a love connection or not I would like to think at the very least I made a new friend then no body looses or gets their feelings hurt. And who couldn't use another friend. As for what I am looking for in a man, I want someone who can make me laugh and who is his own man and walks with confidence and has a good honest heart that turns me on. It's really about his looks for me, I mean that's nice and all but to me sexy is where it's at and sexy isn't about what you look like on the outside it comes from inside, it's all about how you feel in your jeans and how you feel in your skin that is what makes you sexy. Oh and of course a pair of cowboy boots that sends me over the top for sure. lol As for me, I have a huge heart and more empathy then a lot of people I can truly feel someones pain and from where they came. I relate to everyone and I think everyone has a story some good some not so good but its what you do with the information you have learned that is what is important and who am I to judge anyone I've had my own share of heart aches and bad luck bad choices but that is what makes us who we are today and I like who I am today. And for those men who thought I was stuck up because of my reaction or response to your compliment assure you I'm not stuck up I just don't see myself as beautiful and I not good at taking a compliment, I get embarrassed and am never sure what to say. If I have any beauty at all I think it is in my heart not my appearance. So i'm not stuck up! I'm just saying ! lol It really doesn't take a lot to impress me, I guess you could say I'm a cheap date. lol I think the best first date is maybe some dinner, great conversation and a lot of laughter. That to me is a great first date.

  • Jacqulyn

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a fun and out going lady. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, fine dining as well as watching a movie or favorite tv show at home. Blessed to say, I've had the same occupation for 20 years and feel a sense of pride and accomplishment. I enjoy all types of music, but country is my favorite. Looking for my Happily Ever After.... Let's keep it casual, meet for a drink or coffee and see if there is chemistry.

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