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Tamson, 49

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About Me

I'm, wondering if there is really such a thing as an equal..... I would like to find an open, honest, emotionally available,stable man (who I find attractive) to share my life with. The problem is that I am very picky and I have high standards. This is can be tricky because it's difficult to describe "what" or "who" I'm looking for. But I will know it when I see it.:) None of us are perfect but if you are interested in a relationship where we can celebrate the good and work together through the rough then we are thinking on the same level.I don’t really believe in soul mates but I want a relationship where 2 people come together as equals and form something greater than the sum of its parts.I've decided to with hold some information, because these things can get too long and boring. This I will share , I take care of myself by maitaining a healthy diet, work out 4+ days a week ,enjoy Bikram Yoga, music(mostly rock), running in the rain, easy Sunday mornings, finding that cold spot in the sheets and laughing until it hurts. I love my life, my family, love my work and consider myself lucky to have amazing supportive friends. BTW Guys, I have to wonder what is with all the photo's of fishing, sunglass wearing and baseball caps?? Not my favorite when seeking a date... wondering if I would only be taken on fishing trips and what are you hiding under that cap and behind those dark sunglasses.. Boating, not a favorite either.... love the water but I get motion sickness in small boats so if you're looking for a second mate keep looking because you won't find it here., . New Note to those who choose to message me:1. If you don't read my profile, I will know. 2. If you message me and I don't respond, please don't take it personally I will read your profile and if I'm interested I will respond. 3. Remember there are "Plenty of Fish" in the sea..;)I wish you all the best of luck in finding that "special" someone,"date" "girlfriend", "partner" or "hookup" you're looking for because we all deserve to be loved however we choose to find it.:)I truly believe we live the life we choose, so if it's not the life you want it is your responsibility to change it. Let's see,coffee, wine, a walk, the park, a museum...Or you choose I'm sure you can come up with something.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Livia

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm a happy, positive person! I genuinely enjoy life and I embrace it head on no matter the blessing or challenge. I also have enough self respect that you won't find sexy photos here; those are reserved for the man I choose to be with.Eating healthy and being active are important aspects of my life. Does that mean that I don't occasionally treat myself to dessert or that I'm in the gym every day? No. I seek a healthy balance every day. My preferences are outdoor activities such as walking, jogging, running, swimming, light day hikes, bicycle riding at the beach, spending time at the park playing volleyball (you also might find me on the swings or going down the slide too! I'm very young at heart and I like to have fun.) I have a great sense of humor--I'm very playful and maybe even a little goofy; I'm open-minded and big on communication; I'm easy-going and don't make mountains out of molehills. My perspective on life is that it is meant to be lived with an adventurous and inquisitive spirit. Each day is an opportunity to right wrongs, learn lessons, be kind to others, and leave a positive impact on those we meet. It's all about choices: we are never too busy for the people or tasks we choose to make a priority. I already love my life as it is but I know it will be enhanced when shared with the man I'm compatible with. Everyone has an off day, but we are a great match if at the heart of who you are is fun, fit, happy, confident, loyal, honest, kind, hard-working, humorous, faith/family/friend-oriented, full of integrity, spontaneous, affectionate, a great kisser, as well as healthy in mind, body, and spirit. All these things, and more, encapsulate what I have to offer. I like who I am when I'm in a relationship versus casually dating because I can truly be me and give my all uninhibited. Of course we have to start somewhere and that means dating so we can get to know each other; however, once we have some dates under our belt, the perfect day starts with us enjoying the outdoors, cooking dinner or ordering takeout, and curling up together on the couch to watch a movie...but the best part is when we enjoy each other's company so much that the movie doesn't get watched. (Hey now, where did your mind just go?! We might not get to watch the movie because we are talking so much.) LOL! ;- Oh, one more thing...wait for it...this seems to be very important to you guys...I have no drama! Hahaha, sorry, I couldn't resist. :-) I told you I was a little goofy.WARNING: Any ***, organizations, or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects--you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum, both current and future. If you do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. A first date is after the initial meet/greet, which means we agree there is an in-person connection/chemistry and want to see each other again. To me, that also means it doesn't matter what we do, where we go, or how we get there...I just want to get to know you better and vice versa.

  • Cecily

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I love to hike and run in my free time...like and appreciate the simple things in life...I LOVE the ocean and spend as much time at the beach as I can. I love to roller skate, travel and love to go wine tasting. I. am a social worker at a skilled nursing facility.. I am socially conscience and appreciate the company of others who are as well:) ....I love alternative, 80's rock, and R&B) I LOVE dogs. Sushi good wine and frozen yogurt are some of my favorites. I am not looking for a hook up. I am looking for someone i can get to know as a good friiend first, and tohen see how it goes from there.:)... Meeting for a drink or coffee would be an ideal first date.

  • Lacie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I try my best to be good at a variety of different things rather than exerting all of my energy towards one aspect of my life. Search for energetic person, who hasn’t yet got tired of fun.

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