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DungOffline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
Honestly, I have been on and off this site a zillion times. I was married for 20 years and have been divorced for 4. I had no idea what dating at this time in life would be like - I was NOT prepared. I was used to being the mom and wife and I was good at it. I knew my role and how things were supposed to go - this single, dating thing - I still don't get it. Here is what I do know. I don't want to grow old alone. I want a companion to share my life with. I want to find someone who is as curious and interested in knowing everything about me as I am about them. Someone who listens as much as he talks. Someone who knows what he is feeling and thinking and, if he feels it is important, says it straight forward and lets the chips fall where they may. Someone who let's it go when we agree to let it go. Someone who is a stand up guy - who cares about the less fortunate and doesn't need to put others down to feel good about himself. Someone who's eyes aren't constantly scanning the room when I am sitting there looking for the next shiny nickel and keeping his options open by NOT deleting his online profile when he is telling me I'm the one he wants to be with or constantly online when we supposedly have a great first few dates and seem to be hitting it off, if we aren't and I am confused then just stop telling me differently, I am a big girl and can handle the let down cause I'm probably on the fence about you too but am going to give you a chance before I line up the next 10.... anyone out there getting this yet?My apologies if I appear a bit jaded but guys there are many of you out there who are not very cool. They treat good women like me crappy and make it harder for you authentic, caring, loyal, honest, real men to find the good women who do exist out here. I am an adventurous, compassionate, loving, responsible, intelligent, kind, forgiving, sensual, sexy, funny woman. I am a good catch and deserve the best treatment and I'm not going to settle for less. If you are Mr. Nice guy and think we have some things in common (see below) send me a message. It will be worth your time. If you are not, please don't waste mine.
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LoritaOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
Not in Ta-Coma anymore after raising two children. Wonderful city but time to move on. I spend my time traveling for work doing a job I love and enjoy keeping very busy socializing. Even though they are over 18, I'm still passionate about taking care of my children and making sure they succeed in life but that does not mean I'm not ready and willing to be pampered by someone else for a change. Into: All things healthy, i.e., eating right, long walks/runs to keep fit and getting enough sleep. But also enjoy getting out and seeing the city night life, whether it may be a live band or delicious dinner. I'd like to find someone who can teach me things and travel with me; making each other laugh; grow and learn; sharing past and future life experiences/interests and insight.Hey Fisherman, I am a good catch!. So contact me if you are independent, confident and financially secure. Just saying.... Some type of activity like walking or an easy hike.
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KateOffline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
Single Apple looking for my other Apple to become a Pear! OK, I am just testing the water :) But I need you to know that I am taking a break from dating, because I have been injured on ***, and now I am in a wheelchair, I broke a bone on my left foot, and not able to walk, it may be temporary or not, so I just have to wait and see how I am going to heal first... Now that this part is out of the way and in open, this is what I think you need to know about me.The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people, but when each individual learns to live with the imperfections of others and can admire the other person's good qualities. Humm..what a real woman wants?In a brief conversation, a man asked me: “What kind of man are you looking for?”I sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, ‘Do you really want to know?’Reluctantly, he said,”Yes.”I began to expound…“As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can’t do for myself?I pay my own bills. I take care of my household needs without the help of any man…or woman for that matter.I am in the position to ask, ‘What can you bring to the table?’”The man looked at me. Clearly he thought that I was referring to money.But I quickly corrected his thought & stated, “I am not referring to money.I need something more.I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.”He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked me to explain.I said, “I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because Ineed conversation & mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded man.I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don’tneed to be unequally yoked…believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipefor disaster.I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don’tneed a financial burden.I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as awoman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies andgame-playing are not my idea of a strong man.I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader andprovider to the lives entrusted to him by God.I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I mustrespect him.I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. Ihave no problem being submissive…he just has to be worthy.And by the way, I am not looking for him…He will find me. He willrecognize himself in me. Hey may not be able to explain the connection,but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help- I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself.”When I finished my spill, I looked at him.He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said,”You are asking alot.”I replied, “I’m worth a lot”. Must be fun, adventurist who likes to go on a weekend or a cruise get away... the best way to know each other... Of course if our first date bring a good vibes and positive chemistry...