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Vinita, 48

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About Me

Greetings! Well, I bet you are curious where I'm going with my opening line. It's a bumper sticker on my vehicle... and a powerful statement that influences me in positive ways. She examines the ways in which many notable women shaped history, such as Rosa Parks, & This quote inspires me to think outside the box and reminds me to follow my dreams.... I'm a artsy liberal that is optimistic and bicycling is my preference for transportation.. I’m a off-I'm quirky, playful,silly,grounded, vegetarian, that is shy at times,easy going, and caring. I get excited about small things... a view of the mountains, inside jokes, the food I grow, and a morning row. I like a good challenge and reach for the stars. I couldn't live without: horseback riding,my bike,public radio, affection,5 rhythm movement, my old cowboy boots, a few vintage dresses, music, and creative outlets...My work is all wrapped up in my life style. I'm self-employed, over 6 years now. I work with healthy food, community outreach, and creativity. I'm attracted to men whose rituals are active and alive, make me laugh, honest, affectionate, and comfortable with themselves... and don't care much about: television, shopping malls, and those mega homes.I'm looking for a man who is,optimistic, and enjoy.... an occasional evening with live music (small venue),indie film, poetry, or watching the stars while swinging in a Hammock...I’m really good at…giving someone my full attention, finding the good out of a negative situation, and cheering on the Rat City Roller Girls at a bout.Music that truly makes my heart pound…;- are a few of the performers I appreciate.You should message me if …enjoy the outdoors all year around, have always wanted to attend a City RatRollergirl bout, creative, think outside the box, live simple.... I would like to keep it simple and see if there is a connection... meet up for a coffee or go to a farmers market are a few ideas..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Brigette

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi out there in the land of meetville. Sorry to start on a negative note but want to make sure everyone reads this. If you are only 'separated' I will not respond. OK--now on to more fun stuff.....I want to just clarify that although i chose 'just want to date but nothing serious' i am open to a serious relationship just not desperate and pounding the pavement looking for one--hope that makes sense. All my family is still there except my eldest brother who i am in biz with. Went back to UK but could no longer stand the weather so came back to CA and the rest is History....I have one son in 7th grade. I enjoy running, tennis and horses and prefer to get up early. Love the outdoors and am learning to sail.All pictures are extremely accurate--no surprises.I don't play games...life is too precious & too short. I am definitely unconventional with an elusive mix of bohemian sophistication and style and "March to the beat of my own drum". I tend to get along better with liberal-minded free spirits, non-judgmental and entrepreneurial types.I am extremely active, athletic and exercise often and an ovo-pescatarian. I am independent and modern but still a lady and enjoy having doors opened for me and chairs pulled out I love to spend time with family, friends and my partner. I own a company with my brother for 20 years.I absolutely love travelling and hopefully my next trip will be with someone special.I believe in lust at first sight, however, true lasting love takes some time and a lot of commitment. My Wish List:* Clean Shaven(not a deal breaker but my preference),* A partner who has great pride and respect for themselves.* Someone that will stay modern, take care of his body and soul* A man who wants to be my best friend and my lover.* A man who feels comfortable in sweats and his favorite old T.Shirt but also enjoys getting dressed up once in a while. I am looking for a loving, intelligent, compassionate, and passionate man who loves romance and to spend quality time with a partner. Is that handsome man you? Send me a message and let's connect!!Now let's talk about you....Jill Not much into going back and forth with *** found through past experiences (and common sense) people can construct themselves into whatever they want or feel you want them to be.Happy Hour. Margarita and some chips and salsa. If we decide we want a second date then maybe dinner but prefer first meeting to be more brief--we can always prolong long it if we want ;)

  • Vannesa

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am very outdoorsy, so I love heading to the mountains or a day at the beach, or hiking with my dog. Starting my own business here keeps me very busy, however it leads to little free time, and finding someone to do things with......looking for someone who can make me laugh & smile.....Thats all for now! coffee may not be a first "date" but a good starting point, and it could lead to some fun adventures!

  • Hassie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    ~ Its crazy that cyber~dating is just like going for a job interview; Such a sales pitch. After my first attempt to swim around in this pond, I took a break from the "catch and release" that was happening. So Im back to the watering hole to see what might come of it .....Alright , I'll give a few adjectives to describe myself ~. Im intuitive, a good communicator (I've learned the art of listening), Im relational, social, affectionate, sensative, hardworking, opinionated, silly/playful, intentional, adventurous, generous, creative productive, tranparent, forgiving, nurturing. I love the laid back livestyle where i live here on Whidbey Island ~ I enjoy what island living has to offer, kayaking out to the mussel beds to see the resident seals, beautiful hikes along the cliffs at Ebeys Landing, beachcombing and rock picking on our shores. My exercise of choice is hiking, walking, & swimming. Health and nutrition are important to me. Cooking is a pleasure. Its an art form, since I rarely follow a recipe. I have a small garden. Eventhough Im not an "over the top" greenie, i get into recycling, composting and generally attempting to minimize and simplify. its turned into a kind of purposeful hobby. Im also an aspiring writer. Im working on a book and a memoir for my kids. I studied interior design *** My home is a reflection of my creativity.My 2 youngest are still in my nest and my 3 goregous, accomplished older daughters are young adults, living their lives. All of my kids amaze me. wherever we are or whoever we are with, people constantly tell me the impression they've made, and how interesting and enjoyable they are. I could never accomplish a greater goal than to produce and raise such wonderful human beings. I love being a mom ~ I love being their mom!Well guys, thats me in a nutshell ~Please do me the courtesy to 1st be fiscally and relationally responsible ( by that I mean, that past loves and family relationships are reconciled and cleaned up) and please be employed ~ I have that in place and would appreciate the sameNot that I have a criteria that is set on stone. I've never had a "Type" when it comes to men, but there are some qualities in a man that really "get me". ~ a masculine, strong, sexy voice~ the rugged, casual type , but underneath the sweat of his brow, you can see that he cleans up nicely~ the comfortable, cuddly type ~ i feel easy in his presence , & everybody else doesa hint ~ real ladies are responders not initiators. Be the man, take the lead. Let us real women be the woman we want to be ~ if we are interested, we will always respond to every and all of your advances, but we wait for you to make the moves. Its not a feminine qualitiy in my book to pursue, but its to be pursued in the courting stages. More times than not, you guys end up with some trouble from women who take the mans role, but I realize with "womens lib" , its now the norm, and men expect women to be a part of the pursuing process So if you are waiting for the a lady to get a hold of you, make the first move, or keep the ball rolling, you may be missing an opportunity to be with the right kind of feminine women. ~For what its worth~ A cafe or restaurant with a cozy corner where we can visit and get to know each other. if we still would like to let the time linger because things are going well, it would be nice if we were located near an area where we could take a walk around. This is conventional enough so that one of us could leave if its not working out, but if it is, there are other options

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