Total users: 60,525,978 Online users: 217,811
Ardith, 50

Online

About Me

Hair color comes in a box. ......I am a honest, down to earth person. I’ve suffered all the same bumps and bruises we all have, in life, and in raising three kids to adulthood. So life now I can live to the fullest . What am I looking for? A mutual attraction ,well put together, and Honest male. I know we all think, we are attractive , lord knows I'm guilty of this too.A partner in life, someone I can *share * my life with. I tell the truth, also wear my hearts on my sleeve, so if I get a heart string pulled I will let you know. What you see is what you get. I will answer your questions if you want to know something, honestly. Any sex questions would be left for my partner and I to speak about privately. I only have this one body, face, and life, so I do what I can to keep it, youthful. Looking for a mate, who thinks the same, and will become my friend, my lover, my dance partner for life. As for that statement I’m not fat. AlsoI don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach.... I'm far from being considered a model but, I'm me.... I eat food..... I have curves..... I might have more fat than I should.... I have scars because I have a history.... Some people love me, some like me, some hate me.... I have done good.... I have done bad.... I love my PJ's and I go out without make-up and sometimes I don't get my hair done.... I'm random and crazy.... I don't pretend to be someone I'm not.... I am who I am, you can love me or not.... I won't change!! And if I love you, I do it with my whole heart!! I make no apologies for the way I am... I am a SEXY Lady in all sense of the word. And we all have our flaws.And yes I do work out.Don’t be someone’s down-time, spare-time, part-time or sometime. If they can’t be there for you all the time, then they’re not worth your time.POEMTo laugh is to risk appearing the foolTo weep is to risk being called sentimentalTo reach out is to risk involvementTo expose feeling is to risk showing your true selfTo place your ideas and dreams before the crowd is to risk being called naiveTo love is to risk not being loved in returnTo live is to risk dyingTo hope is to risk despairTo try is to risk failureBut risks MUST be taken-- because the Greatest risk in lifeis to risk nothingThe person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothingand becomes nothing.They may avoid suffering and sorrowBut they simply cannot learn and feel and change and grow and love and liveChained by their servitude, the slaves have forfeited this freedomOnly the person who risks...is Truly free.-- Anonymous Bucket lists Finish my schooling, in the Law field,*got accepted * ACT in a movie or T.V series....*DONE*!!so far have done(Call me Fitz,s3ep9aired (MR.On April ***background for the Trailer park Boys movie III (Don’t legalize it)Go skydivingFinish what I started and (get my Black belt)in AIKIDOFinish Baby Barn ...(done)Redo do inside of house, paint ,Doors, landscape.E,I, Cape BretonLive for today, Today is my day..DO EVERYTHING THAT I WAS AFRAID TO DO WHILE RAISING MY KIDSspend the rest of my life enjoying this with maybe (YOU)!Would love to see the yuk,yuks HAPPY FISHINGjust a thoughtCourage is a Mastery of fear ,not absence of fear.Obstacles are what you see when you lose sight of your goals What lies behind us, and what lies before us, are small matters compare to what lies in front of us.Don't judge anybody before you check yourself out.You're lucky when it's your fault because you can correct the situation.Do what you can, where you are, with what you have.Find out what you want and learn how to ask for it Stay honest with yourself*unknown*" TRUST YOUR HEART IF THE SEAS CATCH FIRELIVE BY LOVEWHERE THE STARS WALKBACKWARDS"BY D.E.....)I KNOW HE'S OUT THERE WE JUST HAVEN'T FOUND EACH OTHER YET ;) First Date " A promise means everything, but once broken, Sorry mean's nothing" unknownOn my first date I would love to meet or go out to dinner , to get to know the other person. Or what is agreed on by both parties (I can pay my own way) P.S. not a big fan of Tim HortonNOW IF I HAD SHARES IN TIM’S!!!I have made some nice friends on here, we didn't match but enjoyed our time, so if anything friends are always welcomed!HAPPY FISHING!! :)You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation;trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened...or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the f*** on.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Julianne

    Online

    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I find life to be much sweeter when you have a partner to share things with. I'm a big skier from Alpental to Chamonix. Used to do a lot of sport and trad climbing. I've taken it way back this last couple of years and making some let's say life adjustments :)

  • Dia

    Online

    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    LOVE the outdoors .....do you? 4-...biking....hiking...fly fishing...huckleberry picking ....gardening and canning ....mushroom hunting .....swimming ....woodworking....camping....hunting.......driving up a mountain and getting lost!...snuggling up on the couch with a good book or movie.....but, my #1 all time favorite is hanging with my boy. I work during the week, and love to play on the weekends....would you care to join me? Meet for a coffee or drink and see where it goes.

  • Mallie

    Online

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    All I'm really trying to do is to live the best life I can, make some friends along the way, and maybe make a difference. I live very simply. I just appreciate all I have and don't want for much. Having said that, I do enjoy indulgences from time to time, like my yearly 2 day retreat. (My profile picture was taken on October 27, ***while relaxing and reconnecting with me.) I am a nurse by profession, which means I am a nurturer to a fault, and sometimes I forget to take care of me. So, I escape from time to time to just "be". Not many can understand that. But they don't have to. It makes me a better person and I understand it. I am a contradiction on most days, and as a Gemini, sometimes hard to keep up with. I don't apologize for being me, but will apologize for how that may make you feel at times. I am honest and I am loyal. My favorite quote is from my favorite film, The Shootist: "I won't be wronged. I won't be insulted. I won't be laid a hand on. I don't do these things to others and I require the same in return."I do believe people can change under extraordinary circumstances and those circumstances cannot be imposed by another person. So, no, I don't try to change people. I accept them for who they are and hope they accept me for who I am. That doesn't mean I wouldn't want to be a better friend or lover. I just know that expectations can really ruin a relationship.I like a man who is polite and protective, but understands that while I am a strong and independent woman, sometimes I need and WANT to be taken care of. Not in a materialistic sort of way. there's a difference between taking CARE of me, and taking care of ME. He can expect the same in return. I want someone who can share some of my interests, but also introduce me to his. It's okay if we disagree, respectfully. But just as I'll try his activities at least once (twice to be fair in my assessment), I like him to try mine as well. So for my favorites that are kind of non-negotiable, I mean, real deal breakers...; Orders, CSIs, NCIS, Criminal Minds, etc.), and spontaneous drives on beautiful days with the top down and no particular place to go. I'm also a fan of experimenting with food, flea markets, tourist traps, and sleep with windows open and the fire roaring on a cool night. My perfect match will be mature enough to respect boundaries. I am interested in a long term relationship but am in no hurry to get there. I don't give out my phone number after one ***, but I also don't like to engage in endless *** text messages. I pay a hefty sum to Verizon to talk on the phone and prefer that method of communication once we've agreed we'd like to talk to get to know each other a little before we set up a "date".If any of this sounds interesting, why not ***? An *** a response; winks do not. I still can't believe I'm doing this.;call the LAFD"

Follow Us: