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Phillipa, 50

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About Me

Hello......first thing, the drug question.~~~.. seriously?????.. is anybody gonna say YES I DO DRUGS. i just think that is silly......ok, on to bigger n better things........ to occupy my time i enjoy being outside doing anything, from laying in the sun,to picking wild flowers in a field, lol.. i like driving when i get stressed out.. love to read, my granddaughter, the lite of my life, she is definitely gram's girl. i also work way to much, and of course never have money.....lol i ,came from a musical family...my musical tastes vary from Beatles to late70s early 80s pop some older country& some newer ..but never Rap!! .ive lived all over the U.S....N.Y, CA, GA,FL& ended up in East TN, for almost 30yrs...the smokey mts are lovely but to many tourists. so,i moved back to w ny where i was born, to raise my son and chill..my dad n oldest bro both live here still,thats why i chose to move back .....now that my son has grown up and has childern of his own, i believe its time for me to find a best friend...... im kinda shy, so its hard for me to open up & talk to people. being only a face on a screen i find it almost as difficult to get a feeling for the person im trying to communicate with...... i would love to find my "soul mate" but to be quite honest, im almost 50, and still havent met MY perfect man.. mayb im being to picky, am i askin to much????? not where im concerned... ive settled before, im not gonna again.... i rather be alone than be in a relationship and be lonely....** peace**..xo,,,,,,hi again :) when it comes to my man my wish list.lol i want someone i can count on. lets just say my last relationship, trust wasnt there... now i have a hard time trusting people in general...slowly its coming back.im realizing i need to give a person the benifit of a doubt.....the grass isnt always greener at the neighbors, or the bar..lol.... as for looks i def have to b attracted... ive always been drawn to taller, dark headed men , but ya never know.. i like a little belly lol cuz im not by any means a six pack, im comfy .. hair, eyes any color will do, as long as they sparkle.... lol now im rambling.. xo coffee, wine, a stroll, some live tunes??? sounds good...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maryellen

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    My friends say I'm the kind of person who helps people feel *** and at home. I am friendly, fun to be with, and always happy and positive. I love to share many great laughs. I'm authentic and genuine and love an adventure. I love the thrill of a bargain, and I love a great beach anywhere. My desire is to keep exploring and share travel adventures both large and small. Being active, I like to hike, go to concerts and movies. I love lakes and anything outdoors, even a drive-in theatre. I love great conversation over Asian or Mexican food at an out-of-the-way restaurant. I am passionate about leading a purposeful, happy, and loving life...a great adventure filled with possibilities.You:You are looking for an extraordinary woman who is crazy about you, who respects you, who is proud of you, who appreciates you (idiosyncrasies and all). You are looking for someone who will support you and care about you unconditionally. I'm looking for those things too. I'm looking for someone who loves life as much as I do. We will crack each other up, we won't be bored, we will discover things together. So if you want a best friend with whom you share great chemistry, *** A drink or casual dinner or lunch for the first meeting. Then, surprise me, I love surprises.

  • Echo

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Yes, that's my age... No lie! I don't look it, and most certainly don't act it! I like to go out to dinner, movies, musuems, local venues, bands, dancing, camping, charity events. I like digital photography and want to learn to take night photos. Our sunsets and moon rises are so breath taking. I am educated, responsible, creative, fun. I have a good sense of humor, a tad on the wicked side at times.... Job related! I like all sorts of music, it depends on my mood. But I do like beats that I can dance to. I am looking to date and see where it will go. I want some special in my life. Hit it and Quit it is not my thing. Neither is running more than one guy, playing with or being played. So... That being said you only have one chance at your one chance. I prefer to meet in person, if sparks fly go from there..... Meaning see each other again ;) So Please do not play games with me, I'm not a toy. If you're playing the field then pass me by cuz that's not my style. I like texting and sexting has its entertainment value, and can spark chemistry, but ultimately I would like someone tangible in reality. If you are not going to get off the page then do not bother. I have a crazy schedule and have found meeting gentlemen of any worthy caliber a challenge. So when I meet someone I like and there is mad chemistry, I generally pursue them and only them and expect the same. I go after what I want..... I mean if you're going to go for it then go for it. If not then what's the point. I'm not looking for a husband or to get married. Not that it isn't plausible if the right person came along, but for now I am looking for my best friend, a passionate lover, someone trustworthy, safe, someone to do things with.... I sound like a broken record... Really are you still reading this?.... Bwahaha! Call me old school, but I remember being asked out....... Something personable... I dare you to stand out. No, scratch that. I triple dog dare you to!

  • Steffie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am an attractive 46-yr old who needs to get out more--I work many hours. I have 2 children who are growing older and spending less time w/ their Mother. I am a Yanks/Giants fan. I love Cooking, eating, reading, music, sports. I enjoy being in a relationship, I like having someone to look forward to seeing at the end of the day. That person should love and worship me and expect nothing less in return. I am a one-man woman who does not believe in infidelity. Would love someone to hang out with through the good and bad. Coffee, drinks or dinner.

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