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Phillipa, 50

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About Me

Hello......first thing, the drug question.~~~.. seriously?????.. is anybody gonna say YES I DO DRUGS. i just think that is silly......ok, on to bigger n better things........ to occupy my time i enjoy being outside doing anything, from laying in the sun,to picking wild flowers in a field, lol.. i like driving when i get stressed out.. love to read, my granddaughter, the lite of my life, she is definitely gram's girl. i also work way to much, and of course never have money.....lol i ,came from a musical family...my musical tastes vary from Beatles to late70s early 80s pop some older country& some newer ..but never Rap!! .ive lived all over the U.S....N.Y, CA, GA,FL& ended up in East TN, for almost 30yrs...the smokey mts are lovely but to many tourists. so,i moved back to w ny where i was born, to raise my son and chill..my dad n oldest bro both live here still,thats why i chose to move back .....now that my son has grown up and has childern of his own, i believe its time for me to find a best friend...... im kinda shy, so its hard for me to open up & talk to people. being only a face on a screen i find it almost as difficult to get a feeling for the person im trying to communicate with...... i would love to find my "soul mate" but to be quite honest, im almost 50, and still havent met MY perfect man.. mayb im being to picky, am i askin to much????? not where im concerned... ive settled before, im not gonna again.... i rather be alone than be in a relationship and be lonely....** peace**..xo,,,,,,hi again :) when it comes to my man my wish list.lol i want someone i can count on. lets just say my last relationship, trust wasnt there... now i have a hard time trusting people in general...slowly its coming back.im realizing i need to give a person the benifit of a doubt.....the grass isnt always greener at the neighbors, or the bar..lol.... as for looks i def have to b attracted... ive always been drawn to taller, dark headed men , but ya never know.. i like a little belly lol cuz im not by any means a six pack, im comfy .. hair, eyes any color will do, as long as they sparkle.... lol now im rambling.. xo coffee, wine, a stroll, some live tunes??? sounds good...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Senaida

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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  • Kayly

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    It's not all about whats on the outside but what's on the inside that counts. I am a short, sassy, woman, and sort of the class clown. Laughter makes everything better. I agree with the saying that you should, live each day as if it were your last but enjoy life as if you were going to live for ever. I also believe you should let the people that you love, know you love them each and every day (you never know when the last chance to tell them is going to be and I don't want to miss it). I like to listen to all types of music especially live bands.I love to dance, cooking is another favorie, I like to read( I love a good mystery),I enjoy a good movie,I'm into all types of crafts. But the thing I love best of all is spending time with my friends and family. Spending time with people that love you and you love is a pleasure beyond explination.: This is just a little about me. I'm a good friend,mother,and sister. I am honest and straight forward, don't ask if you don't want to know. I don't give my opinion unless asked. Like every one else I don't like drama. That being said, we all have a certain amount of drama but, it's up to the individual as to how we handle it. I don't let mine rule me or control my life. My motto is;it is what it is, it ain't what it ain't,& don't make it something it isn't. If you have any questions please feel free to ask. NEW RULE: Please don't make this dating thing any harder than it is. There's no reason to. I am very honest about who I am. If you feel there is something I need to change ( like my personality) then I am obviously not the person for you. Don't waste your time all you are going to do is get upset.There are so many beautiful women out there that are just as lovely on the inside as well as the outside that are looking for you. Find them and treat them the way they should be treated with love and respect.There's no reason for any one to change. Thank you for letting me vent Happy fishing!!!!!! A first date should be a place of common intrest (dinner)it would have to be discussed (dancing) and a mutual decision made. It would only be fair to have each persons intrest in mind(live band,movie, walk in the park, etc...) Honestly it needs to be some place where we can talk and get to know each other. We can go from there.

  • Nakita

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hi there! How YOU doin'? I'm a big animal lover and would enjoy being with someone who has the same respect for life and can appreciate beauty. I have a sassy side with a witty sense of humor. I enjoy being active, just getting out and seeing new things. I'm a girly girl who enjoys looking nice, but I also have another side that is tough and not afraid to get her hands dirty. I'm the type of girl who can assemble an entire entertainment center or computer desk by herself and then still spend a half hour on her hair getting beautiful for a night out! I'm really independent, but don't get me wrong, I would love to spend a lot of time with you. I love to travel or just get away for the weekend. Stand-up comedy is fun, amusement parks and festivals, movies, or a game of pool. I also enjoy football, though it is just about the only sport I will sit in front of the TV and watch. Hockey is also fun to go see as well as Brewers games. I enjoy decorating and just making my surroundings look nice. I love the sun, trees and birds and enjoy bringing nature inside. Funny thing about me, I do love nature but I really am not much of a camper. I enjoy luxury over sand and bugs crawling on me but I will admit maybe I just had a bad experience and am open to trying it again if it is important to you.I'm sensitive but also analytical. I will always want to help solve your problems and wish you the best. I'm kind, caring, thoughtful, generous and love to share. I enjoy making a house a home, cooking for someone special, baking something sweet to share with my coworkers, and doing whatever I can to put a smile on your face when you are down.I spent a lot of time earning a Bachelor's degree recently, adding on to my Associates, and I am just ready to get back into the swing of things. There are a lot of things I want to dig into like pottery, painting and photography. I am also working on writing a screenplay but you will have to ask me what it is about. :)I do enjoy a variety of music but don't really care for rap. I guess it just depends. I won't listen to anything that sounds too angry or doesn't have a beat I can move my body to. When I want a break from top 40 I'll turn on 102.1 for a while.I'm looking for someone who is fun with a good sense of humor. Like my headline says, be kind. Be thoughtful, be generous and respectful and we will have fun.I hope to hear from you soon! Meeting someone out for a quiet drink is a good first date so that we can get to know each other, just relax, no pressure! Playing a game of pool is good if we start to hit it off.

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