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Phillipa, 50

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About Me

Hello......first thing, the drug question.~~~.. seriously?????.. is anybody gonna say YES I DO DRUGS. i just think that is silly......ok, on to bigger n better things........ to occupy my time i enjoy being outside doing anything, from laying in the sun,to picking wild flowers in a field, lol.. i like driving when i get stressed out.. love to read, my granddaughter, the lite of my life, she is definitely gram's girl. i also work way to much, and of course never have money.....lol i ,came from a musical family...my musical tastes vary from Beatles to late70s early 80s pop some older country& some newer ..but never Rap!! .ive lived all over the U.S....N.Y, CA, GA,FL& ended up in East TN, for almost 30yrs...the smokey mts are lovely but to many tourists. so,i moved back to w ny where i was born, to raise my son and chill..my dad n oldest bro both live here still,thats why i chose to move back .....now that my son has grown up and has childern of his own, i believe its time for me to find a best friend...... im kinda shy, so its hard for me to open up & talk to people. being only a face on a screen i find it almost as difficult to get a feeling for the person im trying to communicate with...... i would love to find my "soul mate" but to be quite honest, im almost 50, and still havent met MY perfect man.. mayb im being to picky, am i askin to much????? not where im concerned... ive settled before, im not gonna again.... i rather be alone than be in a relationship and be lonely....** peace**..xo,,,,,,hi again :) when it comes to my man my wish list.lol i want someone i can count on. lets just say my last relationship, trust wasnt there... now i have a hard time trusting people in general...slowly its coming back.im realizing i need to give a person the benifit of a doubt.....the grass isnt always greener at the neighbors, or the bar..lol.... as for looks i def have to b attracted... ive always been drawn to taller, dark headed men , but ya never know.. i like a little belly lol cuz im not by any means a six pack, im comfy .. hair, eyes any color will do, as long as they sparkle.... lol now im rambling.. xo coffee, wine, a stroll, some live tunes??? sounds good...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Adrianah

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    ******Pet Lover Alert********FYI**********If you are allergic to cats, rabbits or dogs*****or you have asthmaNeither one of us would be comfortable with you at my lair.**** The cats are non-negotiable,They have gotten me through a lot of tough times, I use pet therapy at my place. Looking for Life partner, best friend and lover..... I consider myself to be optimistic, yes I am a glass half full kinda girl. Did you ever see the movie Pollyanna? Yes I do play the glad game. Although I would say I am also a realist in part too.I have been enjoying spending time with my new granddaughter born the day after Thanksgiving.***

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