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Alyvia, 48
United States, Indiana, Greenfield

Offline, last seen Tue, 21 Oct 2025 09:50:26

About Me

When I try to come up with a profile that will make someone laugh and say hey I'd like to get to know her better, meetville messes it up. I know I hit save and then it just jumps into the abyss never to be seen again. Most of us on here are shopping, we have a budget. We come on here shopping for the best deal in our own little price and comfort zone. I read wonderful profiles of men of various ages within my comfort zone. I do wonder sometimes what in the world some are thinking. We put down our must haves, do not wants and will tolerates and hope to find someone we can stand for an evening. I did learn some very valuable information and picked myself up brushed myself off and thought .....Should I even try this again, so much effort blood sweat and tears....for what??? Turns out just to learn more, I am not as optimistic or trusting but there is still room to grow. I found out for sure what I won't tolerate and what I will. I realize if someone wants something bad enough nothing actually stops them but themselves. I found out I can love again, I might get hurt, I might a lot of things but, I won't compromise my integrity anymore on someone not willing to take chances because the don't know how to not settle. I am 48 years old. I have my up's and down's in my life everything and everyone in my life is not hunky dory. (I cut myself the other day and guess what I was bleeding. Guess what still human) I expect to find someone just like me out there and work with them trying to make sense of it all and still come out on top. With and without past that they have left behind or learned from, trying to take new steps everyday in a better direction. With or without someone!! That knows they would really rather it be with someone. That last sentence might seem somewhat confusing for some but I know there are one's out there that will get it. You have to be fine with yourself, before you can really have someone in your life. Then you have to know that is what you want and what it might take to get it to the other. If you have not sit down and had a real heart to heart with yourself how can you expect to let someone in to your heart if that is what you want so badly. I wish all of us have the opportunity to explore this and come out on top of your own little universe. Somewhere that could be enjoyable for both people - someplace to be comfortable in even if you were by yourself and wasn't on a date

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Love travel, food n wine. Would love to do some camping and hiking. Interested in discovering new restaurants, both fine dining and hole-in-the-wall. All around fun girl looking for someone fun to hang out with. I work mostly nights. No drama, no drugs, no whining. Cheers! Pizza!

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  • Olympia from Greenfield | Woman | 49 years old | Cancer
    Olympia

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi there! I'm a high energy single mom looking to get back into the dating scene! I'm passionate about running. I enjoy cycling and hot yoga as well and I try to do something active and healthy every day. My children are in sports as well, which I thoroughly enjoy supporting. I enjoy watching movies, conversation, being silly, LAUGHING!! Game night with friends and food is always a good time. I'm not into the "party scene". Dance clubs and the like just don't appeal to me but I do enjoy a night out. I have a heart full of compassion, understanding and forgiveness. I'm open minded and nonjudgmental. I strive to get to "know" people by observation and communication. Working to make myself a better person is a daily commitment I've made to myself. I am a financially independent single mom who's got her stuff together. I have a car, a job, own my own home and my bill are paid. I am looking for a partner. Someone who knows who they are, all their strengths and weaknesses and who is notafraid of either. I want a man, who does man stuff (if that makes any sense, haha!) and wants to protect and encourage.Who can compliment me and my strengths and weaknesses. Who isn't afraid of continual growth and self knowledge. Whocan admit mistakes and be forgiving of others. Someone with kindness, understanding, compassion, forgiveness and love intheir heart. Who I'm attracted to becomes more apparent as I speak to them. Beauty truly comes fromwithin, I believe. I do like a man who is bigger than me, 5'11" give or take a little. Hair or not, I'm not bias. Hedoes not have to have 6-pack abs or buns of steel but he must be able to make me laugh. He should take good care ofhimself, physically, mentally and spiritually. It's incredibly attractive to me if he has something in his life he's passionate about.

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  • Venice from Greenfield | Woman | 47 years old | Aries
    Venice

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am an honest and sincere person looking for the same in a man. I would like to meet someone with same interests to share for a long term relationship. I enjoy the beach, reading, good conversation, spending time with friends.... Nice lunch or dinner where we can have good conversation and get to know each other.

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