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Alyvia, 48
United States, Indiana, Greenfield

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When I try to come up with a profile that will make someone laugh and say hey I'd like to get to know her better, meetville messes it up. I know I hit save and then it just jumps into the abyss never to be seen again. Most of us on here are shopping, we have a budget. We come on here shopping for the best deal in our own little price and comfort zone. I read wonderful profiles of men of various ages within my comfort zone. I do wonder sometimes what in the world some are thinking. We put down our must haves, do not wants and will tolerates and hope to find someone we can stand for an evening. I did learn some very valuable information and picked myself up brushed myself off and thought .....Should I even try this again, so much effort blood sweat and tears....for what??? Turns out just to learn more, I am not as optimistic or trusting but there is still room to grow. I found out for sure what I won't tolerate and what I will. I realize if someone wants something bad enough nothing actually stops them but themselves. I found out I can love again, I might get hurt, I might a lot of things but, I won't compromise my integrity anymore on someone not willing to take chances because the don't know how to not settle. I am 48 years old. I have my up's and down's in my life everything and everyone in my life is not hunky dory. (I cut myself the other day and guess what I was bleeding. Guess what still human) I expect to find someone just like me out there and work with them trying to make sense of it all and still come out on top. With and without past that they have left behind or learned from, trying to take new steps everyday in a better direction. With or without someone!! That knows they would really rather it be with someone. That last sentence might seem somewhat confusing for some but I know there are one's out there that will get it. You have to be fine with yourself, before you can really have someone in your life. Then you have to know that is what you want and what it might take to get it to the other. If you have not sit down and had a real heart to heart with yourself how can you expect to let someone in to your heart if that is what you want so badly. I wish all of us have the opportunity to explore this and come out on top of your own little universe. Somewhere that could be enjoyable for both people - someplace to be comfortable in even if you were by yourself and wasn't on a date

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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