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Alyvia, 48
United States, Indiana, Greenfield

Offline, last seen Mon, 12 Jan 2026 05:59:14

About Me

When I try to come up with a profile that will make someone laugh and say hey I'd like to get to know her better, meetville messes it up. I know I hit save and then it just jumps into the abyss never to be seen again. Most of us on here are shopping, we have a budget. We come on here shopping for the best deal in our own little price and comfort zone. I read wonderful profiles of men of various ages within my comfort zone. I do wonder sometimes what in the world some are thinking. We put down our must haves, do not wants and will tolerates and hope to find someone we can stand for an evening. I did learn some very valuable information and picked myself up brushed myself off and thought .....Should I even try this again, so much effort blood sweat and tears....for what??? Turns out just to learn more, I am not as optimistic or trusting but there is still room to grow. I found out for sure what I won't tolerate and what I will. I realize if someone wants something bad enough nothing actually stops them but themselves. I found out I can love again, I might get hurt, I might a lot of things but, I won't compromise my integrity anymore on someone not willing to take chances because the don't know how to not settle. I am 48 years old. I have my up's and down's in my life everything and everyone in my life is not hunky dory. (I cut myself the other day and guess what I was bleeding. Guess what still human) I expect to find someone just like me out there and work with them trying to make sense of it all and still come out on top. With and without past that they have left behind or learned from, trying to take new steps everyday in a better direction. With or without someone!! That knows they would really rather it be with someone. That last sentence might seem somewhat confusing for some but I know there are one's out there that will get it. You have to be fine with yourself, before you can really have someone in your life. Then you have to know that is what you want and what it might take to get it to the other. If you have not sit down and had a real heart to heart with yourself how can you expect to let someone in to your heart if that is what you want so badly. I wish all of us have the opportunity to explore this and come out on top of your own little universe. Somewhere that could be enjoyable for both people - someplace to be comfortable in even if you were by yourself and wasn't on a date

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Delice from Greenfield | Woman | 48 years old | Pisces
    Delice

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    A=AngelB=BratC=CookD=Daddy's girlE=EnigmaF=Freak faithfulG=GirlyH=HomebodyI= Irritating but way more lovable J=JuicyK=KinkyL=LOVERM=MouthyN=Nonstop O=Obedient like Anastasia P=PlayfulQ=Quirky R=RestlessS=SillyT=TalkativeU=URSV=VibrantW=WantingX=Xtra Y=Young at heartZ=Zany Awwww. How sweet is this!Ya lol. Looks like ur spelling is a little off. I think I can fix it!! things I would change.A= AttractiveB= beautifulC=CuteD=DeliciousE=Eatable :-)F=***^%#&*&ABLEG=GorgeousH=HipI=IrresistibleJ=JumpableK=KinkeyL=LickableM=MoistO=OutgoingP=PassionQ=QuestR=READYS=SexyT=TalentedU=UsefulV=VivaciousW=WantedX=Xtra yummy yummy :-)Y=NotZ=Zany Depends on the man, chemistry and initial comfort. Simple girl, jeans casual. Something we can talk, interact see each others personality. Believe I am a gift. One you may want to return from time to time but never do. One you open every day with the same excitement as that first Christmas morn, never tire of, never put up on a shelf. Knowing I am the last gift you ever want and my feeling the same. I want that !Interest: Hmmmm, that's tough. As a woman remember it is our rite to change our mind xxx so that will vary from day to day. One day it is to do nothing but curl up at home, ideally snuggling with (yet to be determined), talking, saying nothing but still connecting, kissing, making love. Then the next day just going, destination unknown. Looking for that unknown spot to experience. I do love being outside in our beautiful state, hiking, flea markets, reading, slot machines.....watching sports, shopping the only thing missing is YOU wherever you are!Bon JoviWhat do you got????People laugh. I have folders full of stuff for US to do, things to make for you for dinner or a nice Sunday morning curled up in bed, decorating ideas, our patio to relax on your lap after work, trips to take together.....your there, the only problem is you don't have a face yet!I miss you

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  • Bettina from Greenfield | Woman | 49 years old | Capricorn
    Bettina

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi all you men out there im looking only for men that wants some one good in there life.i so enjoy family love to cook .and would like to find some one to share life with.and can be best friends and lovers.i am looking for a man that want to get married for I enjoy being married and will agen some day.i have 4 kids two boys and two girls witch are grown and married and have kids of there own.i allso in joy traveling .and enjoy a good move at home with home made popcorn and a nice cold drink. I wood like the first date to be in a nice place to sit and talk look at each other see if we even get along lol no a nice cup of coffee at a coffee shop wood be nice for hiw long as long as. it takes

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  • Phillipa from Greenfield | Woman | 50 years old | Cancer
    Phillipa

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hello......first thing, the drug question.~~~.. seriously?????.. is anybody gonna say YES I DO DRUGS. i just think that is silly......ok, on to bigger n better things........ to occupy my time i enjoy being outside doing anything, from laying in the sun,to picking wild flowers in a field, lol.. i like driving when i get stressed out.. love to read, my granddaughter, the lite of my life, she is definitely gram's girl. i also work way to much, and of course never have money.....lol i ,came from a musical family...my musical tastes vary from Beatles to late70s early 80s pop some older country& some newer ..but never Rap!! .ive lived all over the U.S....N.Y, CA, GA,FL& ended up in East TN, for almost 30yrs...the smokey mts are lovely but to many tourists. so,i moved back to w ny where i was born, to raise my son and chill..my dad n oldest bro both live here still,thats why i chose to move back .....now that my son has grown up and has childern of his own, i believe its time for me to find a best friend...... im kinda shy, so its hard for me to open up & talk to people. being only a face on a screen i find it almost as difficult to get a feeling for the person im trying to communicate with...... i would love to find my "soul mate" but to be quite honest, im almost 50, and still havent met MY perfect man.. mayb im being to picky, am i askin to much????? not where im concerned... ive settled before, im not gonna again.... i rather be alone than be in a relationship and be lonely....** peace**..xo,,,,,,hi again :) when it comes to my man my wish list.lol i want someone i can count on. lets just say my last relationship, trust wasnt there... now i have a hard time trusting people in general...slowly its coming back.im realizing i need to give a person the benifit of a doubt.....the grass isnt always greener at the neighbors, or the bar..lol.... as for looks i def have to b attracted... ive always been drawn to taller, dark headed men , but ya never know.. i like a little belly lol cuz im not by any means a six pack, im comfy .. hair, eyes any color will do, as long as they sparkle.... lol now im rambling.. xo coffee, wine, a stroll, some live tunes??? sounds good...

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