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Xylina, 48
United States, Indiana, Greenfield

Offline, last seen Sat, 10 Jan 2026 22:45:32

About Me

For your first impression of me, I would like to leave you with a quick overview of who I am. I believe in getting to know someone by interacting with them and making good memories. Although I don't mind chatting on-line, I find it difficult at times to really get to know someone. Communicating in this manner is a real hit and miss and is devoid of experiencing each others body language, hearing the laughter when you tell a stupid joke or act like a goofball, seeing one's reaction to you and the feel of being close.I value a persons actions over their words, for it shows their true identity. There is nothing more beautiful than being with someone who's behavior matches their words. Dual communication is key to all relationships...for me there is nothing more frustrating than feeling like pulling teeth (so to speak) trying to get to know someone on the other hand nothing more nice than silently enjoying one another's company as well. I would like to find someone that is open and honest. One that understands the importance of being courteous when communicating. I am not into someones looks as much as I am into thier ability to treat others with kindness, compassion and wanting to be where you are regardless.I enjoy companionship and activities that involve anything that means we are together having fun. I also respect the need for others to have their own space. I enjoy being with someone that can be romantic, or occasionally show their feelings for you in special ways via romantic campfire, star gazing, candel light dinner, watching a movie while cuddling on the couch etc....or just a plain ole impulsive goof ball.I do not create or relish in a dramatic life style, and try to avoid living a stressful life, but life has a funny way of trying ones patients. It's all about how we handle situations. Simplicity...is important to me in my peaceful existence.I was raised on country music, but have a love for all types of music; yes even some rap, (hence my header) I have never lived a lavished life style and wouldn't know how to. I always give too much of myself to others and neglect myself. One of my down falls, so to speak, but that's who I am. I was raised to laugh at yourself in ever situation. If you can't find the humor in your darkest hours then how can you bring yourself out of it and enjoy the lighter times. Generally, I just like to be around someone with a great sense of humor, So if you think you might be interested in getting to know me more please let me know. I am open to pretty much anything....let's figure it out together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae Middle Eastern Turkish Action Adult Family & Kids Fantasy
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